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subsandwitch -> How safe is this? (6/11/2010 3:32:27 AM)
My guy wants to have a vibrator in my ass and then penetrate me vaginally, with the vibe still in. He is rather large down there...and I don't know how well I could handle it. I trust him a lot, and he knows not to cross the line, but I'm wondering if this is a risk worth even taking. I can only imagine using a very small vibrator and even then, I'm not sure if it could be pushed in too far or if it could cause some damage when he penetrates me. Anyone ever tried this before?

xxblushesxx -> RE: How safe is this? (6/11/2010 5:04:53 AM)
I think he should use a small to medium butt plug instead. You don't want to have to go to the hospital to have a vibrator dug out of you...[&:]

windchymes -> RE: How safe is this? (6/11/2010 6:35:30 AM)
How about putting the vibe in the vagina (sing that to the tune of "Lime in the Coconut") and have him have sex with you anally? It's good to think out of the box.....so to speak. [8\|]

thornhappy -> RE: How safe is this? (6/11/2010 4:16:53 PM)
Wicked awesome pun! Vibes in the bum should be "bum safe", with a flange. The ER docs have seen it all, but as Holly said on another thread, they also will laugh later.

laurell3 -> RE: How safe is this? (6/11/2010 4:22:31 PM)
I agree that using a plug or vibe with a flange or widened base is always a good idea. I would definitely plan on using something smaller. It's more likely the vibe or plug is going to come out as they're only so much room.......

angelikaJ -> RE: How safe is this? (6/11/2010 4:40:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: windchymes How about putting the vibe in the vagina (sing that to the tune of "Lime in the Coconut") and have him have sex with you anally? It's good to think out of the box.....so to speak. [8\|] My thought was he could put the vibe in his ass perhaps? [:)] Bad sub, bad, bad sub... You can find vibes for butts with flanges and there is more room in the vagina for him... I wouldn't attempt it until you are very relaxed and turned on: a lot of ass play first.

JstAnotherSub -> RE: How safe is this? (6/11/2010 6:34:48 PM)
He could maybe use a buttplug, as others have suggested. If you try lying on your back, with your hips raised up on a few pillows, he can manipulate the plug with his hands to keep it from coming out, while he fucks you vaginally. If you have ever used ballgags, I would suggest you have one handy for this or something to bite down on. It is one of the most delicious, intense, long lasting orgasms ever. Well, so I read or something.....anyhow. [:D]

WyldHrt -> RE: How safe is this? (6/11/2010 6:48:11 PM)
quote: Well, so I read or something.....anyhow. [:D] slut [:D]

elleX -> RE: How safe is this? (6/12/2010 5:15:48 AM)
Hi , maybe i am wrong ,, but should we worry about the thin membrane between vagina and rectum ? one thing that i am sure is that if you feel a BURNING sensation between the exercise,,, you stop right away cuz perinal tissue usually give a burning sensation before they tear off,,, can someone tell me if i am right or wrong ? ,, and if i am wrong please dont jump on me,,i hate it here ,, smile elleX

JstAnotherSub -> RE: How safe is this? (6/12/2010 8:20:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WyldHrt quote: Well, so I read or something.....anyhow. [:D] slut [:D] [:)] and?

windchymes -> RE: How safe is this? (6/12/2010 2:40:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: elleX Hi , maybe i am wrong ,, but should we worry about the thin membrane between vagina and rectum ? one thing that i am sure is that if you feel a BURNING sensation between the exercise,,, you stop right away cuz perinal tissue usually give a burning sensation before they tear off,,, can someone tell me if i am right or wrong ? ,, and if i am wrong please dont jump on me,,i hate it here ,, smile elleX As long as you're not using something really huge, or that has sharp edges, or doing it really violently, you shouldn't have to worry about tearing anything. Vaginal walls are actually pretty strong. :)

Jeffff -> RE: How safe is this? (6/12/2010 2:42:28 PM)
I LOVE this thread!

Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: How safe is this? (6/12/2010 2:44:15 PM)
Make sure anything going in the ass has a flared base, things can and have gotten lost up someone's ass, and going to the ER with something lodged in there will be humiliating, if humilation isn't your kink. quote: ORIGINAL: subsandwitch My guy wants to have a vibrator in my ass and then penetrate me vaginally, with the vibe still in.

windchymes -> RE: How safe is this? (6/12/2010 3:03:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff I LOVE this thread! Let me guess.....you read "something really huge" and you came running? [:D]

subbisherri -> RE: How safe is this? (6/13/2010 2:24:57 PM)
Have you considered beads instead of a vibe?

KevinSWM -> RE: How safe is this? (6/16/2010 7:57:01 PM)
I think some of you misread what she's asking. She's not talking about two objects in one hole. Cock in the front and vibe in the back. I have done this once. We used a small waterproof bullet vibe with no wires or anything. Something like that is easy to retrieve if it gets lost. She wasn't too into ass-play but to my surprise I was able to feel the vibrations while penetrating her and quite frankly I didn't last long! It's well worth a try. Just be sure to use a toy that either won't get lost (vibrating plug) or one that won't harm anything if it does.

EquineMistress -> RE: How safe is this? (6/16/2010 8:11:15 PM)
Um... honestly, as a mom and a slave, I can promise you, your membrane will not tear during any kind of gentle double penetration, no matter the size. It would take aggressive and extremely violent penetration to tear the vaginal walls, and even the rectum. Most rapes, even violent and anal rapes result in no internal tearing, so making love should hold almost no risk of that. Yes the perinium can tear, but considering most women push something much bigger than a softball through that canal at least once in their life... you can be assured it's actually a very flexible and durable membrane. Plus tears heal. If you feel burning it does not mean you're gonna be stretched out and deformed for life, honest. Oh, and having your ass full will not make your pussy tear easier. they are two different holes for a reason. (having been fisted while ass fucked... I attest to this statement) If you already have a vibe that you want to use for this play and it's not flared, just be sure it's secure and not placed at full penetration, as the inside of your rectum is... bigger... than the spincter muscle, so what goes in can get... stuck behind the gate, and if it goes a little sideways, it may not be able to be expelled on it's own. (AKA the ER stories) But if you're going to purchase a toy, flanged is best to feel safe and not worry about it "falling in" (ok, honestly, trust me... it's NOT ever going to fall in... ) and as for size, really, try not to be concerned there. if you're an anal virgin that of course you're thinking small but actually something a little bigger will feel safer and be easier to both control and feel. I don't suggest beads if you're not "into" anal... but that's my opinion. persnally try not to worry about this as a pysical damage issue, I think you'll really end up liking it and i can almost promise he will too grin.

xxblushesxx -> RE: How safe is this? (6/16/2010 8:23:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KevinSWM I think some of you misread what she's asking. She's not talking about two objects in one hole. Cock in the front and vibe in the back. I have done this once. We used a small waterproof bullet vibe with no wires or anything. Something like that is easy to retrieve if it gets lost. She wasn't too into ass-play but to my surprise I was able to feel the vibrations while penetrating her and quite frankly I didn't last long! It's well worth a try. Just be sure to use a toy that either won't get lost (vibrating plug) or one that won't harm anything if it does. We were not confused at all. And yes, what you did was dangerous because something like you described can easily be "lost" and have to be retrieved by medical means. That's why so many people said to use something with a flange and a base. A butt plug would be perfect. Or at least something with a string that can be pulled in an emergency.

KevinSWM -> RE: How safe is this? (6/16/2010 10:27:43 PM)
First of all it's rude to speak for everyone. Something the size of a bullet vibe will simply be passed. Many of these are in fact designed for full insertion. To quote myself (which you also quoted), "Just be sure to use a toy that either won't get lost (vibrating plug) or one that won't harm anything if it does.".

laurell3 -> RE: How safe is this? (6/16/2010 10:32:35 PM)
Wait didn't YOU speak for everyone when you said we were confused? Having done this several times, I'm really certain I'm not confused about it at all.

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