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RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out - 6/17/2010 6:07:20 AM

CelticPrince

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So... anyone recall how I said I told my mom about how I was into bdsm? And that the 27 year old guy I was hanging out with was from a bdsm site?

Yeah. Not going over so well.

She and my father are having lots of very long talks, and it looks like it's going to boil down to either an 'us or him' situation (For the record, my father does not know about the kink factor).

I believe that they (or rather, she) doesn't care so much about the kinktastic aspects, but just that they 100% do not want me with someone 9 years older than I. So I am in desperate need of a few wise comments. Jeffff, you can post too anyway.

So here are some l33t pros and cons:

Glasgow,

The facts speak for themselves, if you would consider going out on your own without a job and depend on some guy you have known for a week tells the story of your age and wisdom of decisions. What do you do when he gets tired of your teenageedness and shows you the door.?

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RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out - 6/17/2010 6:47:50 AM

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RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out - 6/17/2010 8:07:43 AM

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You go girl. Its great to make mistakes, but even greater to avoid them.
Education is the best thing for a woman - there are so many things you can do if you have the means to support yourself.

You might negotiate with your parents about the curfew, in a few months when the dust has settled.

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RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out - 6/18/2010 9:18:13 AM

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I think people need to chill out personally on that front. It's really cool I think that families are so open honest and close that they can be ok and co exist on the same kink site Or go to the same kink events.

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Not sure about anyone .. I think its fucked up when mom/daughter chat on CM ..(IMHO )

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RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out - 7/16/2010 9:25:07 AM

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RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out - 7/16/2010 9:52:53 AM

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You have gotten all kinds of good advice but if I may add some more…Why not have this older man try to calm your families fears. If he really cares for you he will agree to meet your parents. Set down over a dinner and tell them he understands their concerns but he truly likes and respects you.

If he really cares for you he should be willing to support you in school while you live at home in a stable environment. When you are able to stand on your own two feet if necessary then you can enter a more serious and permanent relationship on equal footing.

In the mean time you can test this relationship over time and see if he really wants you as a person or you as a young toy.

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RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out - 7/16/2010 11:15:32 AM

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...you all are about a month too late.

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RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out - 7/16/2010 11:28:23 AM

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...you all are about a month too late.

im pretty sure the only people who genuinely give a shit about that are youre parents - just saying

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RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out - 7/16/2010 11:41:57 AM

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My mum is a christian....not only is she a christian...but she takes the bible literally.....seriously...every word of it....

But first and foremost she's a Mother.....kick you out?....your Mother is the only person in the world who will do absolutely anything for you....love you unconditionally....and there's no one else on this earth who will love you no matter what you do.....wife...husband....whatever.....you could go out and bang someone over the head with a fuckin' spade the morra and get locked up for nigh on 30 years...and she'll do anything for you....still.......so I think you'll be all right.....

Just don't tell them...why would you want your parents in your personal life? It's sort of an unwritten rule....Mothers don't ask...and you don't tell 'em....then everyone's as happy as a pig in shit.....

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RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out - 7/17/2010 7:12:04 AM

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Just don't tell them...why would you want your parents in your personal life? It's sort of an unwritten rule....Mothers don't ask...and you don't tell 'em....then everyone's as happy as a pig in shit.....

ooo...you need to read her latest thread. She told the whole darn crew this time.

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RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out - 7/17/2010 7:38:26 AM

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Just don't tell them...why would you want your parents in your personal life? It's sort of an unwritten rule....Mothers don't ask...and you don't tell 'em....then everyone's as happy as a pig in shit.....
ooo...you need to read her latest thread. She told the whole darn crew this time.

Ahh....well....on a positive note.....the parents weren't planning on leaving her some money in the will anyway..

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RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out - 7/17/2010 7:41:50 AM

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Just don't tell them...why would you want your parents in your personal life? It's sort of an unwritten rule....Mothers don't ask...and you don't tell 'em....then everyone's as happy as a pig in shit.....
ooo...you need to read her latest thread. She told the whole darn crew this time.

Ahh....well....on a positive note.....the parents weren't planning on leaving her some money in the will anyway..

If she keeps crawling her ass out of those second floor windows, the will might be a moot point.

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Right. Well this morning, my brother and sister found out I was into BDSM. They started screaming at me and I had to leave through my bedroom window

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RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out - 7/17/2010 7:46:12 AM

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

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Just don't tell them...why would you want your parents in your personal life? It's sort of an unwritten rule....Mothers don't ask...and you don't tell 'em....then everyone's as happy as a pig in shit.....
ooo...you need to read her latest thread. She told the whole darn crew this time.

Ahh....well....on a positive note.....the parents weren't planning on leaving her some money in the will anyway..

If she keeps crawling her ass out of those second floor windows, the will might be a moot point.

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ORIGINAL: Glasgow

Right. Well this morning, my brother and sister found out I was into BDSM. They started screaming at me and I had to leave through my bedroom window

by some happy chance i managed to completely miss that saga-filled thread))

(inserts train-wreck emoticon - if there was one to insert)

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RE: My parents do not approve, and might kick me out - 7/17/2010 8:05:16 AM

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If she keeps crawling her ass out of those second floor windows, the will might be a moot point.

After she'd finished climbing down the tied togther bedsheets.....was her Father waiting at the bottom....with a belt in his hand.....ready to inflict a spot of punishment?.....while her Mother gave her a sorrowful glance....but managed to say with a nod of the head...."it's for your own good dear".....

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