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CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: Sowhat do you do with the license plate number when your friend doesnt show back up? (6/16/2010 3:31:07 AM)
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Probably someone is doing to you what was done to me...they asked me to be their safe caller then broke all the rules. She broke them so badly that she had to lie to the man, pull a bluff, to get him to untie her and let her go home.
You can't help someone unless they let you help them by cooperating to what you both agreed to.
When I use people for safecallers, they know this:
1) My name, age, stats
2) All about my vehicle including the license plate number
3) Where I am meeting someone (this includes address and phone of business)
4) If scening, the name if a hotel or motel, address, phone number, and room number
5) I phone whenever I change location, as well as when I first meet the person. I call before leaving my house, again when I arrive at my first destination (often a restaurant), I phone again when the man arrives, after we've said hello, again when we're leaving the restaurant. (I go in my own vehicle). I phone when I've arrived, and confirm the room number. My safe caller can call me at any time during then and when I'm planning to leave, and I had better answer the phone. The one I'm with KNOWS by then I'd better answer the phone. I phone when I'm leaving the room and I keep talking until I'm back in my car. I call one last time, from my home phone.
If anything happens to me, my safe caller knows where to send people to start looking for me. Police don't need to come if you have a few large snarly friends who can bash down a door.
I've had a lot of meetups, and for some strange reason I've never had the slightest problem. [:D] It's all been good.
As for the girl I was "safe caller" to, she was my friend. If anything had happened to her, I would have had to tell police that she met him at some restaurant and they had drinks...but I don't know the name of it, and that afterward they were to go to the hotel across the street, but I had no name or street address of that, and no, I had no idea of what room she might be in or what name it might be registered under, her car or his car...no clue...hers was white and his was red, she promised to call me and I've been worried sick for 9 hours...
I don't know about all areas, but the police will go make a courtesy call if you phone and ask them to...just say you're worried sick about your friend.
I'm sorry you're in this position. Been there, it sucks. It's likely she's fine, having so much fun that she's completely forgotten about you.
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