This is just me but I se myself as a sub switch. I am happier as a sub but like to dom every once and awhile. I can never see myself domming my Domme. I can never see myself subbing to someone that is a sub to me. They are seperate parts of who I am. I want to keep them seperate. If the people in my life can't understand that then they don't need to be in my life, Domme or subbie.
Just curious: There may be many types. (Like in everything else.[:)]) Is there a generally accepted breakdown of people who switch with the same partner versus one who subs for one and Doms for another?
I consider myself a switch because I can't see myself being a dominant with certain people or a submissive to others. Plus I like the feeling of being used once in a while and the power of using once in a while. There are aspects to both personalities that suit me.
Don't understand how a Dom/Domme could ever be dommed ie. spanked or tied up, it sure isnt me!! I can see a sub wanting to domme, after all she takes and gives to her dom, if she has a strong dom. If she wanted to domme it would only be with another sub,and only with a male sub so she could get even and she could express her own feelings about being dommed.