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RE: Young Dom's (whats the consensus) - 4/14/2006 7:51:01 PM

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My Dom and I both young in age(31/29), young in experience (6m/1yr), and young at heart. While the suggestion to find a good mentor is a good idea, we have actually had trouble findin one. It seems that most Doms who message me are more concerned about either stealin me away(never, never, never will happen not in a million years) or bein able to share what my Dom has claimed. While I know some people are just jerks that way, I cant help but wonder if our age/experience (or lack of) has something to do with it. But we are steadfast and stubborn and will hang in there. If no one will help us learn, then we will figure it out on our own. Afterall someone had to figure this out in the very beginning. Age and experience shouldnt be the most important thing. Attitude and personality, in my opinion, are. Best of luck to you.

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RE: Young Dom's (whats the consensus) - 4/14/2006 8:46:34 PM

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I find the age gap between myself and my Mistress is a challenge, but one that we can overcome with understanding, tolerance and her heavy hand using a taws on my backside.

Nevertheless, there will always be that 30-day gap in our ages, and I do wish I was the younger one.

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RE: Young Dom's (whats the consensus) - 4/14/2006 8:49:19 PM

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Personaly im 100% Dom, although at 23 ive found that allot of people Dom's and Subs tend to well lets say "Patronise" allot, i take it on the chin with a stiff uper lip and all that lol. I understand that a Dom is supposed to be in a possition to teach their sub and seing somone young it may seem as if they do not understand the situation as well (less experience) and i can understand if in allot of cases that is true, but basicaly id like to know peoples opinions on young doms.
Thanks

You also have a 23-year-old penis.

Therefore any sympathy I might've had for you is lost in a sea of jealousy.

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RE: Young Dom's (whats the consensus) - 4/14/2006 8:57:41 PM

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Of course, at the beginning, younger Doms scared me off.
At the time, young males meant immaturity and lack of sex at best, i thought i could hear them scream from the emails they were sending me (gimme gimme gimme!) I thought i was doing the *good thing*............
maybe i was wrong, maybe i did great mistakes reacting like that (sending back emails saying *no, thank you* each time the Dom was less then 25 and over 45) and missed a great lot of opportunities... but i reacted by impulsion at first and due to the fact that we're in an internet realm, the *trustable factor* isnt that strong...
I understand your distress and i do agree with the posts placed before me (jezzabelle, TheShadows,etc). but please understand the defiance of the subs/slaves who are so scared about choosing the wrong One.

I do wish you all the luck possible though

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RE: Young Dom's (whats the consensus) - 4/15/2006 9:39:21 AM

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ORIGINAL: YoungWYorksDom

Personaly im 100% Dom, although at 23 ive found that allot of people Dom's and Subs tend to well lets say "Patronise" allot, i take it on the chin with a stiff uper lip and all that lol. I understand that a Dom is supposed to be in a possition to teach their sub and seing somone young it may seem as if they do not understand the situation as well (less experience) and i can understand if in allot of cases that is true, but basicaly id like to know peoples opinions on young doms.
Thanks

My opinion? More please!

75% of the mails I was receiving until I closed my profile here were from guys old enough to be my father. And guess what? Because I don't fancy old men that makes me fake.

Stay around please, you're needed.

I am so sorry, I meant to say oldER men in the penultimate sentence. God that was a real bad typo. apologies again.

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RE: Young Dom's (whats the consensus) - 4/15/2006 2:32:48 PM

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Well...I'm the Female half of TheShadows, 24 next Friday. The Male half will be 30 in July. Damn it all, I say, for not having the option of seperate stat columns on a Couple's profile.

acctonthelook, we appreciate your vote of confidence. I can't take all the credit, though. You give some great replies yourself.

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RE: Young Dom's (whats the consensus) - 4/16/2006 8:55:23 PM

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I have known a few young women who were natural dominants, very skilled and intuitive. Their youth may have even been an asset. No time to develop a bunch of self doubts.

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RE: Young Dom's (whats the consensus) - 4/16/2006 10:17:36 PM

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I'm 22, and have been a full on dom for only about a year now.
*shrug*
I know of 50 year olds that have only been doming for a few months.
I don't think age is a factor, simply experiance.
and even then it can be different, people learn and gain knowledge at different rates.
you can be a dom for 20 years, and never know what it's like to collar a slave,
you can wake up tommorow and have a harem.
*shrug*
Everyone is different.
and if people think you are inexperianced, and patronize you, well they need to experiance some patience.

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RE: Young Dom's (whats the consensus) - 4/16/2006 10:26:33 PM

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The first time I experienced a shade of what D/s was, I was 24 she was 38 and very submissive...at least sexually; it wasn't later that I learned the definitions...but I did find a natural state of being then. I don't think age is the question as much as finding a Mentor... and from what I've heard alot of 'Mentors' are into the power (imagine that, Doms wanting positions of power, who'ld've thunk it?); perhaps look for friends, might be what you are seeking.

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RE: Young Dom's (whats the consensus) - 4/17/2006 5:31:18 AM

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Just like to say thank you all for your feedback. Especialy your constructinve and positive feed, most of it was encouraging, Thanks again for the feed from everyone who replied, take care of yourselves and have fun

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