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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 7/1/2010 11:01:11 AM

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How confusing. That's how I usually recognise the local vicar.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 7/1/2010 11:07:19 AM

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That's funny. And how do you generally recognize said Dommes in real public? Is the leather corset, fishnet stockings and thigh high stiletto boots strutting down in the middle of the mall a dead giveaway?

Surprisingly enough, I have a purse that looks like the foot portion of a boot that has chains on the back and continue on for strings. It's a dead giveaway for those familiar with BDSM. Non kinky folks love it, too. It's a great conversation starter.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 7/1/2010 11:15:48 AM

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Humiliation is not my thing,
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Can't say gay porn does much for me, but then again neither does straight porn.

First, "humiliation" is on my hard limits list. If someone gets off by being humiliated, I am not the domina for tthat person!

Second, porn as porn does not interest me, vid or written. (It is largely a sufficient turn-OFF that I'll ) A good story will involve me, and a significant few of my favorite authors do push that button for me in some fashion. But it's the story, not the sex (or lack thereof), along with the quality of writing and characterization, that pulls me in. Now, some of the posters that gay couples like to decorate with, those can be quite hot. But it's a good photo of a good body and attractive face, not the fact that the model is or is not gay, that attracts.

Third, and most importantly, "forced" activities of any sort indicate a breach of trust. And if you don't trust or can't trust your play partner/s, much less someone who is your dominant, then you're in the wrong relationship!

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 7/1/2010 11:20:52 AM

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Well it is not like there is someone that has a sign over their head that says Domme but there are a few things in my brain that triggers some things.
One is very large black boots on a very confidante women. Do not ask me why but it just hits me.
If I am at a local gathering some Dommes just makes me weak in the knees, not all of them but some yes some do. Its like I do no have any walls and no defensive. The how and the why, who knows?
Hope this makes sense.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 7/1/2010 7:35:38 PM

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While I was hanging out with my subbie friend she told me she really did enjoy watching two men together. And it got me think of course us men enjoy watching two women but I never gave it a thought as to what women and Domme would enjoy at the time. I then thought how self centered us men can be. I have had one Domme tell me she liked this and I had to tell her it was a hard limit for me.
So what is it that Dommes really do enjoy on this subject? Is it the humiliation?

In a word...GROSS.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 7/1/2010 8:02:48 PM

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Guy Guy, Girl Girl, Guy Girl, Group. I'm a voyuer so I love it all. Not so much for the humiliation factor, but for the pleasure factor. If its used as a humiliation tool, I only sort of enjoy it.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 7/2/2010 8:30:31 AM

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as a Bi-male sub, i like serving a Dominant Female, who enjoys and encourages, bi sex between Her subs. as for Humiliation, and verbal abuse, and or the crossdressing and or sissy service, that is ok with me as i am into it. i am a fetish sub so yes when a Dominant is dressed in Leather and Thigh Boots standing over me or in direct control, then i feel like i am doing it more for Her.
i do not understand the skull-forced thing,or unwilling forced bi, and the glory-hole thing.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 7/2/2010 8:37:51 AM

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Actually, the CD thing detracts from this for Me. I want male on male. Not male on a person's interpretation of female. If I wanted that, I'd just watch a gal sucking a man's cock. Sorry, that just doesn't do it for Me.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 7/2/2010 10:21:21 AM

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Yes, bio male/bio male. Or trans. The people have to be what they live, is what I am driving at!! Guys in garterbelts can be seriously hot but not in this particular fantasy.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 7/3/2010 8:50:04 PM

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I just cracked up reading this thread! It's certainly not Domme specific. A LOT of women find m/m sex hot. I LOVE it. And I write it, which is what further cracked me up when fanfic came up. My first experience reading it was through fanfiction, and now I'm writing slash CSI fanfic. As long as you can weed out the people who can't write, there's some pretty good stuff out there.

Only recently, though, did I start reading original m/m novels. It seems in this field there are more guys (though it's still mostly female lead, I think). These guys are annoyed because they want more gay romance written by guys, or written the way guys think. That can be hard for a woman to do, as we have our own needs when writing/reading fantasy. We tend to go for more of the emotional then men. Plus, it's mostly women writing it, so you're going to get more emotional stories. Deal with it, I say. They're better stories. lol.

And as someone else commented, even though I'm straight, m/m is just about the only thing that turns me on these days. It's hot, and there's just something beautiful about it, that I can't describe. Perhaps it's because two men are on a more level playing field, regarding stereotypical gender roles. I think this is where my Domme side kicks in because I can't stand the idea of the stereotypical weak woman bottoming for the stereotypical strong male, which is what society drills into our heads as the "right" way to go about sex. But, anyway, aside from that, yeah, it's just hot. End of story.

LadyHibiscus, I loved your line: "There is a REASON women are excluded from the gay male events. BECAUSE OF THE DROOL FACTOR. And our chick cooties." This is soooo true! So, true.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 7/4/2010 3:31:39 PM

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Interestingly, for me, before I actually ever saw any pictures of m/m, I thought that I would not care for it, but in my travels through the internet, I have come across several sites where photographs are displayed almost like art, and it is very erotic. I don't see it as humiliating at all.
I think that to watch two men together would be exquisitely hot.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 7/5/2010 9:09:05 PM

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This makes me think of Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid. But, that's me watching two men together.

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The juice between Buzz Light Year and Woody is pretty strong over three movies too.

Rated G -- I know.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 7/6/2010 1:44:58 AM

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I can work this out in a virtual world.. set up the two men scenes and watch, but i cannot seem to do it real time.

My fantasy involves not forced-bi, but having two male bisexual subs who belong to me, who drool over each other and I.. have the power to say yes or no.. and dole out the "yes" very infrequently so that they are hot and panting all the time. The likelihood of every pulling this off is so slight, but I keep it on the to-do list, as I've been lucky before in things that seemed impossible.

So yes, I do enjoy two men together a Lot, but i want my own version of that scene.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 7/6/2010 2:41:10 PM

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Thank you for posting a link---that was a fantastic story!

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 7/7/2010 6:43:58 PM

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I'm very glad you liked it.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 7/8/2010 2:30:35 AM

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LP? Peon?

If I copy paste all the bits together into a new thread will you keep the story going? Please?

*flutters eyelashes*

If it helps my request I can promise to read it while eating ice-cream to create through-the-nose potential?

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 7/8/2010 3:52:14 AM

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Ummmmm . . . it's difficult for me to write on that again at the moment, VC. I'd prefer to wait till I can give it more attention.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 7/8/2010 4:04:20 AM

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 7/17/2010 10:53:13 AM

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I enjoy seein two men together in a threesome with me. ITs a turn on

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 7/17/2010 11:01:13 AM

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Oh, real life! Yes, one of my favourites was my one mmF in college, with two straight guys who were good friends. Ladies, I'd recommend to everyone waking up with one smile around your nipple and another between your thighs! At least I had the experiences, but I'd like to repeat, and this time with everything I've learned in the last two decades, the most important of which is if you break up, stay with the smart ugly guy, not the dumb hot guy. D'oh!

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