RE: What Do You Think of Pro-Subs?

Join Our Community

Collarchat.com

Home Login Search

RE: What Do You Think of Pro-Subs?

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> RE: What Do You Think of Pro-Subs?

Page: << < prev 1 [2]

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: What Do You Think of Pro-Subs? - 4/15/2006 9:43:20 PM

MsMacComb

Posts: 808
Joined: 3/30/2005
From: My Mothers womb.
Status: offline

In all sincerity there is a large number of paid subs in the domestic discipline genre. Especially in England and surrounding areas. I also know its becoming much more popular in the US probably mostly LA and NYC etc at this point but it is a growing business. Oh, and yes because life isnt fair, its women that get paid. :)

_____________________________

Not looking for anyone for anything, any time.

(in reply to TexasMaam)

Profile

Post #: 21

RE: What Do You Think of Pro-Subs? - 4/15/2006 9:50:01 PM

Real0ne

Posts: 21189
Joined: 10/25/2004
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: TexasMaam

Actually, I was recently viewing a site of pro male subs and I'm very tempted to hire one for a good hard core pain session, since My sub's a wuss.

Unfortunately, the male pro subs I've been reviewing are interested in subbing for gay or closet bi male Doms, presumably very wealthy ones.

I suppose that if the $$'s right, they'd sub to a Femme Domme. They're out to make a living at it.

RealOne, WorshippingYou1, when I see your site advertising your services as pain sluts, I'll gather a few fellow FemDommes from here at CM and we'll pay for a session incognito and get together to give you two a really 'nice' surprise.

lolololololol

TexasMaam

You know what? i actually had my cursor on your name to send you an email on the other side.

until i seen that little smart remark.

What got into me? What was i thinking?

i was actually going to be stoooopid enough to put you on to a good friend of mine who is so damn hard core he would wear at least 5 of you out, and i am talking ben gay canings and plexiglass paddlings.   He is het and his whipped ass has been on the cover of many sm mags.

Major maso, totally free of charge and he would have paid his own airfare to you! LOL    You and your friends would have had a blast.

Now i am having a blast LMAO!!!!!

_____________________________

"We the Borg" of the us imperialists....resistance is futile

Democracy; The 'People' voted on 'which' amendment?

Yesterdays tinfoil is today's reality!

"No man's life, liberty, or property is safe while the legislature is in session

(in reply to TexasMaam)

Profile

Post #: 22

RE: What Do You Think of Pro-Subs? - 4/15/2006 10:10:33 PM

TexasMaam

Posts: 1467
Joined: 6/22/2005
Status: offline

Spare Me your referrals, RealOne. I'm doing just fine on My own, and I'm not the least bit interested in sarcastic bad boiz.

TexasMaam

(in reply to Real0ne)

Profile

Post #: 23

RE: What Do You Think of Pro-Subs? - 4/15/2006 10:45:03 PM

Real0ne

Posts: 21189
Joined: 10/25/2004
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: TexasMaam

Spare Me your referrals, RealOne. I'm doing just fine on My own, and I'm not the least bit interested in sarcastic bad boiz.

TexasMaam

um coulda fooled me LOL

Just go hire your pro, i am still laughing LOLOLOLOL

_____________________________

"We the Borg" of the us imperialists....resistance is futile

Democracy; The 'People' voted on 'which' amendment?

Yesterdays tinfoil is today's reality!

"No man's life, liberty, or property is safe while the legislature is in session

(in reply to TexasMaam)

Profile

Post #: 24

RE: What Do You Think of Pro-Subs? - 4/16/2006 4:36:19 AM

MsSonnetMarwood

Posts: 1898
Joined: 2/10/2005
From: Eastern Shore, Maryland
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

My friend is a paid spankee, she loves it, gets paid well for it and only has to work one day a week to let the bruises heal. I think its a good deal for her, for me personally, been there done that, and for me at least the sex industry has lost its appeal becauseI work 1/3rd the hours and make 3x the money being an artist.

Female prosubs aren't too unusual - most "houses" have one or two on call, it seems.

Male prosubs that are aimed at female dominants are quite rare. As Akasha pointed out, it's supply and demand. As a Domme, finding someone to play on a no-strings (and no charge) basis is really quite easy. But hey, if they want to try to make a living at it, go for it.

_____________________________

~Ms. Sonnet Marwood~

Deja Moo: The feeling you've heard this bull somewhere before.

(in reply to crouchingtigress)

Profile

Post #: 25

RE: What Do You Think of Pro-Subs? - 4/16/2006 8:50:38 AM

fartsniffer

Posts: 11
Joined: 4/15/2006
Status: offline

I wish i could get a job as a pro male sub

It seems to me though,that the only pro male subs i know of that get hired are gay guys.

If only us straight guys could make a living from being a pro male sub to women.

(in reply to TexasMaam)

Profile

Post #: 26

RE: What Do You Think of Pro-Subs? - 4/16/2006 9:14:18 AM

AAkasha

Posts: 4429
Joined: 11/27/2004
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: fartsniffer

I wish i could get a job as a pro male sub

It seems to me though,that the only pro male subs i know of that get hired are gay guys.

If only us straight guys could make a living from being a pro male sub to women.

I would bet some of the gay bottom boys that are pay-for-play do get some business from het femdom tops. So for you subs that are serious about wishing you could play in that space, start working on your offerings and promoting yourself as such. Just make sure you can "compete" with the gay and bi bois -- they've got it going on.

Akasha

_____________________________

Akasha's Web - All original Femdom content since 1995
Don't email me here, email me at [email protected]

(in reply to fartsniffer)

Profile

Post #: 27

RE: What Do You Think of Pro-Subs? - 4/16/2006 2:42:55 PM

mistressrose10

Posts: 56
Joined: 3/15/2006
Status: offline

No self-respecting Domme would ever pay a sub to worship her!If you are playing at being a Domme , then I guess paying someone playing at being a sub would be appropriate.

(in reply to WorshippingYou1)

Profile

Post #: 28

RE: What Do You Think of Pro-Subs? - 4/17/2006 2:01:02 AM

fartsniffer

Posts: 11
Joined: 4/15/2006
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: mistressrose10

No self-respecting Domme would ever pay a sub to worship her!If you are playing at being a Domme , then I guess paying someone playing at being a sub would be appropriate.

[quote=fartsniffer]

I dont know so much.
There might be a rich woman out there that would pay a sub,just like they'd pay for an escort.
But i imagine there rare.

(in reply to mistressrose10)

Profile

Post #: 29

RE: What Do You Think of Pro-Subs? - 4/17/2006 2:11:05 AM

DarkSideOfThMoon

Posts: 117
Joined: 10/27/2005
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: mistressrose10

No self-respecting Domme would ever pay a sub to worship her!If you are playing at being a Domme , then I guess paying someone playing at being a sub would be appropriate.

To be honest i feel the same about Pro Dommes - if that's your thing then go for it but still - surely it just means you cannot get a Domme who actually likes you?

(in reply to mistressrose10)

Profile

Post #: 30

RE: What Do You Think of Pro-Subs? - 4/17/2006 10:54:29 AM

Real0ne

Posts: 21189
Joined: 10/25/2004
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: mistressrose10

No self-respecting Domme would ever pay a sub to worship her!If you are playing at being a Domme , then I guess paying someone playing at being a sub would be appropriate.

BINGO! and no self respecting sub would pay a domme and no self respecting person would see a hooker either for that matter

_____________________________

"We the Borg" of the us imperialists....resistance is futile

Democracy; The 'People' voted on 'which' amendment?

Yesterdays tinfoil is today's reality!

"No man's life, liberty, or property is safe while the legislature is in session

(in reply to mistressrose10)

Profile

Post #: 31

RE: What Do You Think of Pro-Subs? - 4/19/2006 2:33:20 AM

mons

Posts: 2400
Joined: 11/16/2005
Status: offline

greetings to all

Now i heard of male protusues but never a male pro sub
I do not think they would be any good it would be so fake.
When it is a Pro Domme it is different they are and have been
around, they know what they are doing and put feeling into it
but a Pro Sub lol I do not know what to think of that?

mons/jane

(in reply to WorshippingYou1)

Profile

Post #: 32

RE: What Do You Think of Pro-Subs? - 4/19/2006 9:51:19 AM

EbonyFtshGoddess

Posts: 446
Joined: 1/1/2006
From: Hollywood Hills, CA
Status: offline

i think professional dom/dommes and professional submissives all have their place in bdsm. i would rather someone go see a pro domme if they KNOW they can't submit to what i expect than come to me pretending they're all lifestyle just so they can get their jollies off for a few hours on a saturday then return to being "normal." for the life of me i cannot fathom nor see what the big disdain for pro dommes is.

dfor most people a pro domme is their first induction into bdsm. either they are content with that situation or it leaves them feeling like something is lacking so they go on to greener pastures (i.e. a lifestyle domme).

at the end of the day it has NOTHING to do with not being able to find a domme that wants you or being self respecting or not. pro dommes are often well equipped (toys/fetishwear/dungeon), they're well experience (hopefully) and many men have NO problem going to them. i have many friends whom are lifestyle dommes and pro at the same time. in fact, they choose their personal slaves from their clientele, when they see an exceptional *client* they just collar him and he's a personal slave.

i don't see a problem getting paid to do something you love. isn't that the WHOLE goal in life? i've had lifestyle slaves since i was 19. i have also had *pro* sessions with males whom are not capable of serving me to the extent that i expect, but still want to worship me. if someone isn't willing to put in lifestyle work then they shouldn't expect a lifestyle domme. that's what pro dommes are for. the weekend warrior type males need to stick to pro dommes. they get their jollies, the domme gets her energy reciprocated in the form of a tribute and everyone is happy.

NOTHING is more frustrating than having a male approach me, i give my time to train him, then he realizes.. oh.. i want to go back to being *normal*. these men are the ones that should go to pro dommes, that way no one's time is wasted.

the men that liken professional domination to paying a prostitute obviously primarily view their submission as sexual.

_____________________________

One Man's Phobia is Another Man's Fetish

(in reply to mons)

Profile

Post #: 33