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Daddy/Girl relationshiop - 7/8/2010 3:30:16 PM   
jokertree


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Status: offline 		Hi everyone. I have been very interested in finding a daddy dom. I'm very interested in having a relationship of a daddy/girl. I want to find a daddy dom but I don't know where to start. So, I would like to hear from daddy doms and little girls and what they like from this relationship. Hope to hear from everyone soon.
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RE: Daddy/Girl relationshiop - 7/8/2010 3:51:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		I would recommend putting the word "daddy" into the search engine on the other side, look for the dark blue names, scan down to see which are in your area, and see if you can shake a daddy dom out of the ole CM tree...at least that is what I would do if I had a very large preference for a certain type of relationship...


You can also put your daddy dom preference in your profile, and describe what you want... this will attract daddy doms.


Finally, you can read through local profiles and see if there are any doms that write about wanting a daddy/girl relationship...


I found my daddy when I wasn't even looking for one, so I can't help on how I found one...

edited to add... I think what we all get out of a certain sort of relationship is individual.... it is just a preference. I liked the lack of ritual, formality, and sternness from the daddy/girl dynamic. Some daddies are strict daddies though

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RE: Daddy/Girl relationshiop - 7/8/2010 4:18:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: jokertree

Hi everyone. I have been very interested in finding a daddy dom. I'm very interested in having a relationship of a daddy/girl. I want to find a daddy dom but I don't know where to start. So, I would like to hear from daddy doms and little girls and what they like from this relationship. Hope to hear from everyone soon.


jokertree,

You should visit Fetlife as well. They have a gazillion Daddy types eagerly waiting for their little girl to appear. No pun intended, I'm serious. There are numerous groups devoted to the subject on that site. Good luck.

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RE: Daddy/Girl relationshiop - 7/8/2010 4:31:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		As strange as it may sound I have never advertised as a "Daddy Dom" nor sought out the company of a specific type of submissive. In fifteen years of "acknowledged" alt lifestyle choice I have had three LTR and three other interim play partners, all of which evolved to some degree into a Daddy/girl. Its not something I require, but it is a "positive" role that can be fun, nurturing and playful. There are also times which I would need / want a submissive partner to be more adult, involved and even assertive. I suppose you need to decide what you looking for, negotiate up front your needs and do not try and force a fit just because you found "a daddy." Some Dominants and submissives would be happy to control / surrnder most aspects of their life to the dominant. For me personaly, I like a gown woman who is not afraid to take the little girl insider out and play with her.

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RE: Daddy/Girl relationshiop - 7/8/2010 8:00:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: jokertree
I would like to hear from daddy doms and little girls and what they like from this relationship.

i've had two relationships w/ Daddy Doms. One was with my Daddy Sir that died, and the other one is with Daddy now. Of any encounters/relationships i've had, either bdsm or 'nilla, the Daddy/girl relationships felt the most lovey, huggy, cozy of any of them, yet i still knew/know He's Boss. That's just my opinion of course, it doesn't mean that's how it is for everyone.

i'm not exactly sure how my D/g relationships happened. They both just kind of fell into my lap and i was extremely happy about it.

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RE: Daddy/Girl relationshiop - 7/8/2010 8:04:28 PM   
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Oh, by the way OP.........Welcome to the Boards.

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RE: Daddy/Girl relationshiop - 7/8/2010 8:09:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		I would love a Daddy Dom situation but unfortunately by this age there is nothing a man can teach me that I don't already know...I'd end up being frustrated beyond belief. 

I'd have to pretend to be all 'young  n innocent' and slightly clueless again, and I just can't fake that.  But, if you are young and of 'fresh mind' that needs that sort of thing....you lucky kitten you.

My suggestion? Do it now while you are young enough and enjoy the ride (and actually learn something) because IMO you can't go back.


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RE: Daddy/Girl relationshiop - 7/8/2010 8:54:46 PM   
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RE: Daddy/Girl relationshiop - 7/8/2010 10:00:56 PM   
juliaoceania


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ORIGINAL: came4U

I would love a Daddy Dom situation but unfortunately by this age there is nothing a man can teach me that I don't already know...I'd end up being frustrated beyond belief. 

I'd have to pretend to be all 'young  n innocent' and slightly clueless again, and I just can't fake that.  But, if you are young and of 'fresh mind' that needs that sort of thing....you lucky kitten you.

My suggestion? Do it now while you are young enough and enjoy the ride (and actually learn something) because IMO you can't go back.



I never acted clueless. I taught the daddy I was with as much as he taught me. I suppose if someone thinks these relationships are about age play, they may think that, but they aren't all about age play... they are about certain types of authority... and in the case of a daddy dom, for me, it was about him having what felt like parental authority....

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RE: Daddy/Girl relationshiop - 7/8/2010 10:19:18 PM   
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I never acted clueless. I taught the daddy I was with as much as he taught me. I suppose if someone thinks these relationships are about age play, they may think that, but they aren't all about age play... they are about certain types of authority... and in the case of a daddy dom, for me, it was about him having what felt like parental authority....


One person's reality, is another person's fantasy.  I couldn't nor wouldn't teach a man how to please me.  He is either more of an 'authority figure' or he isn't.  Doing the back n forth 'you show me yours and I'll show you mine' routine just stopped working for me by age 11.  That is when I learned to take care of myself or had interest in men who knew a hell of a lot more than I did.


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RE: Daddy/Girl relationshiop - 7/8/2010 10:40:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: came4U

I would love a Daddy Dom situation but unfortunately by this age there is nothing a man can teach me that I don't already know...I'd end up being frustrated beyond belief. 

I'd have to pretend to be all 'young  n innocent' and slightly clueless again, and I just can't fake that.  But, if you are young and of 'fresh mind' that needs that sort of thing....you lucky kitten you.


came4U,

I don't think the practitioner's age has anything to do with their interest or participation in this dynamic. As others have noted age play can be a factor but isn't always an element in relations such as these. NuevaVida has candidly discussed her relationship and readily admits to engaging in TPE without the other elements commonly associated with the label. The supposed make believe is truthfully implemented by both parties because they find that manner of behavior appealing. It is not a suggestion that it's the only way to employ the dynamic but merely their interpretation of such.

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RE: Daddy/Girl relationshiop - 7/9/2010 7:22:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		i never acted clueless. We're both the same age, He just knows a lot more about it than me. He's been into it years longer than me.

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RE: Daddy/Girl relationshiop - 7/9/2010 7:52:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		It also would help to be clear about what constitutes a daddy to you.  For some the relationship is about the nurturing caring aspect, for other it is about ageplay, these aren't the only things Daddy/lil girl can encompass I am sure, the term itself squicks me even though I like the nurturing sort of relationship that is sometimes encompasses.

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RE: Daddy/Girl relationshiop - 7/9/2010 7:56:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: jokertree

Hi everyone. I have been very interested in finding a daddy dom. I'm very interested in having a relationship of a daddy/girl. I want to find a daddy dom but I don't know where to start. So, I would like to hear from daddy doms and little girls and what they like from this relationship. Hope to hear from everyone soon.

Mention it in your profile, and go searching for men that sound like what you want.

Hmmm, I've never mentioned "Daddy" in my profile once, even though all my D/s relationships end up working out that way. So I guess don't assume somebody isn't the Daddy type just because his name doesn't include the word. Good luck and have fun.


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RE: Daddy/Girl relationshiop - 7/9/2010 7:59:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: jokertree

Hi everyone. I have been very interested in finding a daddy dom. I'm very interested in having a relationship of a daddy/girl. I want to find a daddy dom but I don't know where to start. So, I would like to hear from daddy doms and little girls and what they like from this relationship. Hope to hear from everyone soon.


Daddy and I don't engage in age play although most tend to assume we do b/c we are involved a Daddy/girl relationship.I know for ME I had to define what it meant to be a Daddy's girl and what I NEEDED from that relationship. We started as friends and our trust and relationship devoloped naturally over time. He tends to guide me with a stern yet gentle hand. He is that voice that keeps me in line yet reassures me. He doesn't let me get away with anything but he isnt abusive either.



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