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lactating women - 4/15/2006 2:22:26 PM

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question for lactating women.
do you like to have a sub nurse your lactating breasts?

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RE: lactating women - 4/15/2006 7:08:19 PM

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does it have to be a sub?

i know of a few Dominants that want lactating subs, and will even require them, if not already lactating, to endure the process of forced lactation for their pleasure.

Nursing creates a very special bond, and some really enjoy the sensation.

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RE: lactating women - 4/16/2006 12:54:37 PM

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Master Sir wants me to lactate. He is going to do this for His pleasure and to show that, as a slave, i have no rights and that Master Sir controls my entire body! i can not wait!

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RE: lactating women - 4/16/2006 1:12:41 PM

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Finally, something I know about, however I can't speak to it's reference in the lifestyle, just the basic lactation part.

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RE: lactating women - 4/16/2006 1:44:18 PM

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If you are serious about enduring the process of forced lactation. one of the best places to find good advice is with the Le Leche Leauge

they have a website and numerous articles on how to safely bring on lactation

http://www.lalecheleague.org/contact.html

Here is an article directly about induced lactation

http://www.surrogacy.com/medres/article/lac.html

Good luck, it's time consuming and can be uncomfortable at times.

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RE: lactating women - 4/16/2006 7:17:31 PM

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how can it be uncomfortable?

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RE: lactating women - 4/17/2006 2:25:58 AM

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I never really saw the attraction...

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RE: lactating women - 4/17/2006 3:28:33 AM

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I will be lactating once living with my owner this summer. Master loves it, so i will do it for his pleasure.

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RE: lactating women - 4/17/2006 7:18:35 AM

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I found out some interesting information on lactating my psy class. We ended up having a discussion on mothers who nurse their children till they are like 5, but i same basic side effects. When the breast are forced to produce milk all the time, that is the first place the nutriants in a women's body goes, becuase one is basically forcing her body into thinking she has a child. This if done over long periods of time can cause weak bones etc. etc. bassically anythign that can happen due to a lack of nutriants, can happen to her body done for over a long period of time.

Now i am not against in personally,but its not something i think i would enjoy or would want to risk, but each to his/her own.

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RE: lactating women - 4/17/2006 8:15:21 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedblackbeauty

how can it be uncomfortable?

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apparently you have never breast-fed anything. it was a VERY uncomfortable experience for this slave. done "right" without any infections, it was still uncomfortable. there are complications that can occur, even in the best of circumstances.

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if your breasts are sore and you have flu-like symptoms as well as fever and red streaks on your breast, you may have an infection in your milk ducts called mastitis. If you have any of these symptoms, call your doctor. If he or she finds that you have mastitis, the infection can be easily treated with antibiotics.
You may also have a yeast (or thrush) infection in your breast. It's important that you call your doctor if you have any of these symptoms:

shooting breast pain either during or after feedings

pain deep within your breast

strong pain in the breasts or nipples that doesn't get better after properly latching on and positioning your suckling

nipples that are cracked, itchy, burning, and are pink, red, shiny, flaky, or have a rash with little blisters
Sore breasts also may be a sign of a plugged milk duct, in which a particular duct gets clogged.

a few words about "engorgement":

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especially during the first few days or weeks that you're breastfeeding. That's your body's way of saying that it's ready to feed . When your milk first comes in, your breasts become engorged, which can be painful for some women. This is called primary engorgement and lasts about 1 to 2 days if you continue to breastfeed and 5 to 6 days if you decide not to.
But the longer you wait to breastfeed or pump - both initially and throughout your time nursing - the more uncomfortable and engorged your breasts may become.
If you can't feed right away, use warm compresses and try to pump or manually express your milk.

this post was made possible with help from the following website:
http://kidshealth.org/parent/food/infants/breastfeed_discomfort.html

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RE: lactating women - 4/17/2006 10:32:57 AM

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I breast fed my two sons and totally agree with beth, it is uncomfortable in many respects. Even with no clogged ducts, just being rock hard with milk hurts. The pulling sensation isn't fun either.

Leaking sucked too. The body doesn't need any provocation for this either, so get used to being embarrassed at those most inopportune moments. It's pretty damn inconvenient too, carry extra bra, nipple shields/guards, and shirt around with you at all times. Masters that want total control of the sub's body may find this annoying when they can't control this aspect of lactating.

If you have cute perky tits, kiss them goodbye. Even B cups can sag. And hope that your Master is ok with that. Let's not forget the stretch marks either.

And then the hormones... Yeah the body will be going wonkers, you can still get pregnant, but be sure to be prepared for moodiness too. Thought PMS was bad? Hah!

The sub must also make sure to be maintaining enough calories for this, as well as making sure to be taking supplements so that her body is not endangered in the future.

The only reason I bf in the first place was to hopefully stem off allergies with my boys, didn't work, they both have allergies #2 son much worse that #1. So it was all for nothing.

I'll confess I do not understand the attraction of forced lactation. Why force a woman's body to perform this for nothing? What a waste of breast milk, think of the thousands of women who can't bf and here is someone forcing another to do this just to get his rocks off. Maybe I'd have more respect for it if the milk was donated to mothers that could not provide it to their child/ren.

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RE: lactating women - 4/17/2006 10:41:20 AM

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I don't know, but I may be the only Dominant woman who is considering forced lactation. My only problem right now is, any potential 24/7 slave I've told, immediately begins to call me MOMMY.

I tell them I don't see this as necessarily maternal, but rather another form of intimacy my slave and I can share. Often to no avail, however - I'm still called Mommy - or worse yet - Mommy Mistress. Oh well ...... yet another dream up in smoke.....

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RE: lactating women - 4/17/2006 10:49:24 AM

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Having breastfed two children I can agree with all of the negative aspects. However I did have a submissive that had a fasination with nursing from me as a way of becoming more close. The way she felt about it and her wording gave me reason enough to experiment and it was surprisingly easy and quick for me to begin to produce a minute amount of milk. I quickly ceased as I was not quite ready for the hassle. However, given the depth of meaning for her at some point as a gift to her I plan on renewing my efforts if only for a short time if our relationship progresses to that point.

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RE: lactating women - 4/17/2006 11:10:17 AM

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I've been nursing my son for nearly 2 years and the only times it was ever painful was when I had an infection. Otherwise it wasn't bothersome in the least.

Inducing lactation can take MONTHS to accomplish, and it can be painful if you're pumping to stimulate milk.

Breastfeeding doesn't make your breasts sag - pregnancy does. My breasts have returned to almost normal size/ perkiness (im still nursing a bit) without many problems.

And so long as you are healthy, you won't suffer ill consequences from nursing. If you were really that concerned about it, you could take a pre natal vitamin to be safe.

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RE: lactating women - 4/17/2006 11:25:49 AM

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I cannot say enough GOOD things about lactation. With my first child, I quit after ten days, when my monster-in-law repeatedly made me doubt that my son was getting enough milk. Eight years later .. and no monster-in-law to make me uptight.. I had a FANTASTIC experience with my next son who I nursed for 15mos. Engorgement is easily relieved with expression and warm compresses.. Nipples need to be toughened before a woman can lactate well (there's something FUN the couple can do together.. "yank, twist, nibble here please --->"

My former Master enjoyed my milk during this 15mos period also, as it was his child I bore.

I loved loved loved nursing.. even when it hurt some. It was my private time with my child, no phone calls, no distractions, restful, nurturing and nourishing. I would hear ANOTHER baby crying somewhere in a store.. and start to feel my breasts engorge and drip milk.

I want to share that again with a Master, too. I have wild fantasies about nursing.. and when and how to do it. But I'm nuts, too and I want one more child at the age of 40! (Egads!)

Take a vitamin if you are worried about calcium deficiency. Wear breast pads til you know how quickly your milk comes in. The body only produces what is demanded of it. If you nurse twice a day, your breasts will adapt to making milk that will suffice for that amount of demand. If you nurse your lover only at bedtime.. you'll see that your body will make enough to satisfy that need, too.

DRINK WATER!! (And an occasional beer! to help with the let-down reflex.) Nursing is healthy, natural and a wonderful way to bring two people super close together. (PS... Breast milk has laxative properties.. so, don't drink toooo much until you know how your system will react to it!!)

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RE: lactating women - 4/21/2006 9:59:50 PM

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It is called induced lactation...It can be a wonderful thing and very erotic. I ama 24/7 slave and love this aspect of our relationship.

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RE: lactating women - 4/21/2006 10:22:57 PM

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Yes nursing at the begining is umm not always this loving wonderful expereince. Little suckers can have a nasty grip for being so small.

i meant the process of inducing lactation in a non pregnant female. with out the hormone in the body to bring on the natural process. Inducing can be uncomfortable. Because you need to pump your breasts 3 or more times a day, you breasts get sore, your nipples get sore. if you're using a hand pump you're hands get cramped *g*

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RE: lactating women - 4/25/2006 11:59:48 AM

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I disagree with what bunnihop says about the breasts sagging due to pregnancy. In both pregnancies my breasts never grew until days AFTER the baby was born and they never did get that much bigger, I still wore the same size bra.

Maybe my problem was that I had to induce my milk in the first place with both boys using the pump, taking tons of fenugreek, and drinking a gallon of water a day to no avail. For #1 I was able to bf and pump for 9 months and he weaned himself off, for #2 I barely was able to pump and bf for 3 months. If I had not pumped (inducing) they would not have ever bf.

So experience wise: been there, done that. Never, ever again.

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RE: lactating women - 4/25/2006 12:07:31 PM

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I think I'd just spring for the cow, if I was that enamored over milk!

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RE: lactating women - 4/25/2006 12:25:34 PM

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I agree with you Leather. During pregnancy my breast size didn't change at all. It was after my kids were born and the milk came in that my breasts went up a size and a half and the stretch marks insued. Breastfeeding does make them sag because it's the milk that is increasing the size of the breasts, although any sagging can be decreased with a really good bra. Which, that's another point about being forced to lactate. If you or your master enjoys you going braless, you can kiss those days goodbye. You'll need to wear a bra not only for support, but also so you can wear those lovely little breast pads inside the bra so that you don't leak all over everything.

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