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This is a topic I've been mulling over in my head for awhile after reading some long messages describing scenarios various people have proposed to me. In these messages there are usually very extreme acts of physical and mental torture involved, the methods are always different, but the messages all shared a common theme. There was absolutely no mention of aftercare.

When responding to these messages to inquire about aftercare I was either ignored, blocked, cussed out, or more disturbingly, asked what aftercare was.

I may be in the minority in my thinking, but I feel that aftercare can be every bit as sexy as the play that led to it's necessity. Is aftercare something that has fallen by the wayside?

As a dominant, top, or sadist, what are your thoughts on aftercare? What level of importance do you ascribe to it? Do you derive any pleasure from it?

-vaiyanen,

It is part of the whole senario and the degree is directly proportional to the level of use.

CP

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ORIGINAL: vaiyanen

I may be in the minority in my thinking, but I feel that aftercare can be every bit as sexy as the play that led to it's necessity. Is aftercare something that has fallen by the wayside?

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a lot of the messages detailed activities like using bladed whips

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ORIGINAL: dragon200070

Doms are action oriented. Yes, aftercare can be cool, but it's not so exciting.
Jeff