EStrict
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I am confused about one part of this. You said *a dom that is not your dom*. By this do you mean in you have no dominant but don't want a LT commitment to someone? Or are you suggesting an additional dominant to help? With the former, I have known lots of people who have negotiated a dominants help for just a specific issue. (I.E. to quit smoking). Punishments for infractions are not something the submissive would enjoy, are NOT foreplay, and do NOT lead to sex. The dominant in question was more a mentor with physical punishment expectations. In the latter, that would raise two issues. One would be why is your dominant incapable or unwilling to help? The second is that *if* a second dominant is involved, have things been discussed between you and each dominant, and between the two dominants (as far as the expectations, needs and desires of all parties). This is a genric *you*, not the person who asked the question.
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