KyttynTheMynx
Posts: 4880
Joined: 5/10/2006 From: Moosecrotch, Va Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: hangdog Well, I guess I'm the asshole, huh? Really? I'm kind of surprised at the reception here. A few responses: No, I don't need any fucking therapy. You see, the point is- I know exactly what my issues are. I did years of soul-searching before posting this, so I knew exactly why I was here. I live a life where I go from dealing with fighting or substance-abusing employees 8 hours a day, to a home life where I'm helping my spouse find her keys/purse because she can't lay them down in the same place twice, researching and proving the latest scam letter she got was indeed a scam, assuring her that the person who wronged her this week didn't really mean it (is this still high school?), etc. It's a crushing pressure. Sure, I could go see a conventional therapist and tell them all this, but duh... I know EXACTLY what's bothering me, so what's the point? I need a solution. Bring the wife into the scene? Well, (a) that kind of defeats the purpose of escape. Even if she did accept it and join up (this is the bible belt), I'd spend more energy explaining everything and more hand-holding would be required. Don't get me wrong- I love my wife, and the sex is great. I'm just living in this pressure cooker and have observed a potential release valve sitting there for ~20 years. But I guess that makes me the asshole. No, I guess I shouldn't have said shit about myself and just come on the board saying, "Hey, I need a hot pro domme for CBT", and I would have gotten a warmer "Welcome to CM!" response, like this guy....http://www.collarchat.com/m_3326622/tm.htm I've learned a lot more in the last day about the community than I have lurking it all this time. Fascinating. Most every relationship requires trust. Whether its you and your stock broker, you and your doctor, or you and your best friend. This lifestyle is no different. Its not a matter of not getting a warm welcome. The fact is there is a member of the party that is unknowing, and possibly unwilling that may get hurt. No one wants to see that happen. I think thats what everyone is getting at. At any rate, welcome to the boards. I do hope you find what makes you happy. This is a lovely place to be once ya get used to it.
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Hibbie's Hottie The next time you think I give a fuck, remember the 3 F's... Unless you are Feeding me, Financing me, or Fucking me, I don't give a fuck!! "Kyttyn: The Other White Meat!" - DRH 10 Miles of Hot Chocolate Lovin'.
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