MaamJay
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I am slightly amused that in My local scene there are several Switches, but most of them will only top in public. They will sub only in private. They seem to think it will somehow harm their status or their aura if they are seen "taking it". That definitely doesn't apply to M/me ... I don't mind topping or bottoming! Interestingly, subs I have played with are invariably awed to know I also take it ... especially when they are squawking after < 100 paddle strokes and I tell them that my maximum is 250! Master is a BIG Man too, they KNOW He would pack more of a wallop than I can! The sub side of me is definitely more exhibitionist, and loves being spanked publicly, but I am equally comfortable being on the other end of the paddle or flogger! My ideal situation would be to have my wonderful Master AND a wonderful live-in sub/slave, so both sides of M/me can be equally catered for and fulfilled. Locals have coined a new term for M/me ... no longer Switch ... now Duality! Now, i'm off to talk to Master about that idea of being flogged while flogging a sub ... sounds good ... can it be done with spanking? Hmmm one to try! Mistress Jay aka violet[A]
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