SavageFaerie
Posts: 4377
Joined: 12/3/2004 From: NYC Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: cheshireboy My complaint is too much time is wasted on drama and on people with low self esteem, constantly discussing these things is only enabling them. if they truly want to get better, they will gather up their will power, look in the mirror and go "damn it, i am worth it and will not let other people's opinions who don't even know me effect my day." cheshire "a mood is only as good as you let it be." cheshie you are an insightful one. I do not enable, I comfort and advise and just plain listen....I was once a low self esteem person and felt I was worthless.....now I love myself and who I am even if I am still a bit or alot 'phucked up' and I make myself laugh everyday. I defend myself and actions, I often bitch slap myself if I get to remorse and hope others would do the same if I didnt not see it myself.. I give myself a few 'wallow days" then I wake up to a new day and look for laughter and forget the previous wallow....this is how I deal with it myself. I know I am a wonderful person and I do in fact love myself even how I am in reallife. This is my outlook and it does work for me. I am also a private person forum wise for the post part.....but anyone has but to email me and I do open up. I do not try to interject, agree or rant back....well except sometimes...yeah we all do need to vent and that is acceptable. Gads someone PLEASE turn on my Funny switch....I wanna play. LOL Enough serious for Gods Sake in random stupidity. *give cheshire a whole plate of goody cookies* and blows kisses all around.
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