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a bonding issue 2 - 4/18/2006 10:53:21 AM

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this girl is going to try this again.
what she would like to know, is if a Master/Mistress/Dom/me finds it special when They are given Their sub/slaves virginity. regardless of which virginity it is?
or is it, in Your opinions, just something a sub/slave should feel nothing about losing?
maybe this girl worded her question better here.

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RE: a bonding issue 2 - 4/18/2006 11:02:23 AM

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good luck!

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RE: a bonding issue 2 - 4/18/2006 11:05:10 AM

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thank you mixielicious, hopefully, this thread will be used the way this girl intended.

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RE: a bonding issue 2 - 4/18/2006 11:08:33 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MLskajira

this girl is going to try this again.
what she would like to know, is if a Master/Mistress/Dom/me finds it special when They are given Their sub/slaves virginity. regardless of which virginity it is?
or is it, in Your opinions, just something a sub/slave should feel nothing about losing?
maybe this girl worded her question better here.

Depends on what it is. It's always nice being the first to share an experience with someone- whether it's a cool new restaurant, or sex.

But firsts are always just firsts- usually first time doing things is the clumsy time, the not quite sure what you're doing, taking it slow and getting it done and making lots of mistakes time.

It's the 25th time that you start to really embrace it and be together. There's intimacy in repetition.

However it feels to you is however it feels to you. When I take someone's virginity, I appreciate it for what it is, but I don't hire a band or buy flowers. It's just a new experience to share and enjoy.

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RE: a bonding issue 2 - 4/18/2006 11:13:00 AM

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thank You LuckyAlbatross, that is the kind of answers this girl has been looking for. unjudgemental, unapologetic and honest.

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RE: a bonding issue 2 - 4/18/2006 12:01:10 PM

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Oh yes definitely! I even look for ways to make a non virgins offering to me new, by adding creative touches to make it a new experience just for the exact reason lucky talked about, it makes it a more bonding experience.

As a former slave I know that to loose my virginity's to my master IS expected but I would still want for them to be special to him and mean something to him, if not I might be with the wrong Master.

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RE: a bonding issue 2 - 4/18/2006 12:25:30 PM

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When I own a slave everything she has is mine. Therefore when I use her in a way in which she has not been used before she is not OFFERING me anything which I don't already own.

*shrugs*

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RE: a bonding issue 2 - 4/18/2006 12:57:44 PM

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For myself, every first experience has the potential to being of being special... however, what I may deam important could be very irrelevant to my slaves and what my slaves see as significant maybe irrelevant to me. It is however, significant when both of consider it special.

Things that was special for my girls and I....

Alandra was the first woman I had intercourse with years ago... Wish I could do that first time again... I sucked!!! But practice makes prefect and I practiced alot *G*

I was the first that every did anal or BDSM play to Alandra, but not the only one now.

I was the first that ever did BDSM play to Kyra and to date the only one that has and the future is bright for possibilities.

Kyra was the first woman that used breath strips and vibrators in doing oral on me.. all to increase the sensations and pleasures......WOW *G*

First times can be wonderful but they come rather pointless if nothing grows from them. I am more incline to focus on growing from experiences than putting to much on a first experience!

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I just realized something that both girls has given me as a first... and indeed the most signficiant of everything. I am the first and only Master both have ever had.... I expect to be the only one!

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RE: a bonding issue 2 - 4/18/2006 5:15:05 PM

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ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

Oh yes definitely! I even look for ways to make a non virgins offering to me new, by adding creative touches to make it a new experience just for the exact reason lucky talked about, it makes it a more bonding experience.

As a former slave I know that to loose my virginity's to my master IS expected but I would still want for them to be special to him and mean something to him, if not I might be with the wrong Master.

it is heartwarming to this girl to read Your words, crouchingtigress, thank You.

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RE: a bonding issue 2 - 4/18/2006 5:18:18 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LoupdeMontagne

When I own a slave everything she has is mine. Therefore when I use her in a way in which she has not been used before she is not OFFERING me anything which I don't already own.

*shrugs*

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this girl completely understands that concept. but isnt it true, that if the slave had not submitted, nothing of theirs would be Yours, so by offering thier submission, they are offering their virginity? (if they still have it)

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RE: a bonding issue 2 - 4/19/2006 2:27:19 PM

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You're speaking of a separate concept now. When a girl begs a collar in my house, indeed, it is a great pleasure to accept their totality of being and accept ownership of them. Anything after that is nice but not exceptional.

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RE: a bonding issue 2 - 4/19/2006 2:32:28 PM

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Virgins are too much trouble.

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