LadyNTrainer
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ORIGINAL: Tantriqu In gay porn, it's a mutual celebration rather than a degradation. I feel the same way about it. Cum is hot and sexy and fun. Why shouldn't it be fun to have all over me? Why would I consider it degrading? I could ask (or order) either of my submissive partners to give me a nice sexy cum shower, and it would just be one more way for us to enjoy sex. Admittedly it gets sticky if it hits my hair and is slightly less fun and tasty after it gets cold. But that's what the shower is for, when I'm all done reveling in how much fun it was to experience his orgasm all over my body. What's there not to like, especially since I generally shower after sex anyways? My general philosophy is if I don't end up needing a shower after sex - badly - then we did it wrong. LOL I think it's supposed to be degrading to the woman because there's this whole fucked-up meme about how sex is degrading to the women, and how dicks are woman-subjugating weapons or whatnot. More power to you if you think this meme is hot, but it's a pretty alien concept to me. Does not compute. I am a dominant adult woman with a normal healthy sex drive. That means I sincerely appreciate and revel in my submissive partners' sexuality. It belongs to me, and I get to enjoy it in every sensual, fun, sexy and creative way. Getting to experience his orgasm in a sensual way over my skin is fun, so if the mood strikes me, I'll order the performance. Intent is everything, and so is intimacy. It would certainly be not fun at all for me if someone did it to me with the intent of degradation or expressing his dominance. It is fun as a sensual act with my beloved partner whose intent is to give me a gift of pleasure and share the intimacy of his orgasm with me, and the D/s overtones of the act are him making an offering of himself to please me.
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