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MsMacComb -> RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) (4/19/2006 11:03:48 PM)
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ORIGINAL: AAkasha
You got your token sub asskisser and now you feel vindicated.
The truth is you started a thread designed to throw shit at dominants that tell it like it is. When a submissive comes on and posts things like "Mistresses please tell me how you would torture my cock," or "my name is asshole4Mztrss why can't I get a woman to use her strap on on my ass? I am willing and ready! Why are femdoms ignoring my emails?" non-pro femdoms tell them to change their approach if they want to meet possible relationship partners.
Non-pro femdoms tell submissives that their fantasy is different from reality.
Non-pro femdoms tell submissives that the best way to approach a femdom as a woman first, and a fantasy second.
Non-pro femdoms tell submissives to write profiles that are not wish lists, but show the entire man behind the sub.
You come along and try to be the champion for the poor, oppressed submissive by claiming that femdoms who do not blow smoke up subs' asses are bitches or have some self esteem issues. Please -- coming from the woman that had to resort to hurling insults like that weight watchers slam? Grow up. Talk about petty.
The sad thing is that the subs do not realize that by you blanketing them with your "it's ok subbie, your kink is fine AND your approach, that of a guy with a cock in one hand and the mouse in the other, will work just find with these ladies -- you just have to find one with patience and who REALLY understands you" is just a scam. Pure and simple. You want them to all follow you to your site and pay up -- pay for the priveledge of believing their fantasy world is real, and yes, femdoms are out there who are just fine catering to their desires. You just leave out the part about the money.
You have shown your true colors on this thread better than anyone could point out. You and your token subs will have a joyous time on your pay site. Meanwhile, those subs looking for relationships based on respect and devotion will get some "tough love" responses for the most part. But at least it's *honest* -- which is more than can be said for your approach to win business.
Akasha
What in Gods name is your obsession with pay sites and pro dommes. I have yet to see a single post from you that didnt mention one or both. Perhaps you more than anyone else has a low self esteem as you seem almost neurotic over this issue. Try to get some sort of therapy about your self image and perhaps get tested for OCDs. Meds could be your salvation.
As to the rest of your very tired and predictable rant, well its always the same. Babbling about your opinions of how the only validated relationships are the type that YOU advocate for and promote. Did it ever occur to you that a good part of the male species does NOT want your conventional form of boring wedded non-bliss? Did it ever occur to you that perhaps some of them (and other women) prefer casusal sex, freaken, getting busy, slapping off without the emotional attachement? Seeing as how thats what about 60% or more of all Americans are doing as of now and the last decade or so (hence the 50% plus divorce rate) do you feel like you are preaching for a lost cause? You have your little pathetic websites that promote your one size fits all guide to S/M, B/D. Thats fine. What is your issue with allowing others to live their life the way they see fit? Maybe, just maybe (guranteed) not everyone (or perhaps anyone) wants to emulate you, your agenda, your lifestyle. Get over it.
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