thetammyjo
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I'm not sure what you are saying. I wasn't trying to belittle anyone's desires. I can empathize with other people's experience primarily because I ask questions and listen. I have just never been approached except to be friends or in the way I described when the approachee (?) was black. Sometimes I wonder if I've sent out strange signals that trigger fantasies -- no, I'm not from the South even though I've got a two-part name -- though I can't imagine what they would be. On the vanilla side, I did have a black boyfriend for about a month back in college so it isn't about race for me but about the approach. (I did a lot of dating for the first three months of my sophomore year, he was one of several until my wouldbe husband got into the picture). I'm sorry if my questions offend anyone. Like I said, I can only understand when I ask questions and listen.
< Message edited by thetammyjo -- 4/20/2006 7:38:00 PM >
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