AAkasha -> RE: New to the whole world of punishing men (8/16/2010 3:45:05 PM)
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Whenever I talk to a "new femdom" or new dominant/top, I tell them the best tool in their arsenal is confidence & the spirit of mischievous fun. All the props, and processes and protocol in the world won't replace the intoxicating effect that *honest pleasure* has on a sub. That is to say -- if SHE is enjoying it, and really, really into it, the sub/bottom is more likely to enjoy. Techniques and toys can be learned and things can be adopted - but a femdom following her own lusts and desires is something that can't be replaced or manufacturered. So put simply - have FUN! Akasha
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