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cillydom -> RE: what kind of dominant do you find most useful? (4/20/2006 10:25:02 AM)
I’m sometimes offended to be called a dom, as there seems so may meanings to the word and most don’t seem to fit me or what I want. Which was the point to the question, to get people think that there is more than one way a man can be dominant and that not all of them are useful to subbies and their submissive needs. I’m not the generic dom.

MHOO314 -> RE: what kind of dominant do you find most useful? (4/20/2006 10:37:02 AM)
I didn't know there "was" a generic dom. I may be missing something, but aren't we all unique?

cillydom -> RE: what kind of dominant do you find most useful? (4/20/2006 10:41:01 AM)
The whole point in my saying I wasn’t the generic dom.

BitaTruble -> RE: what kind of dominant do you find most useful? (4/20/2006 11:06:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cillydom Question for the submissives. I hear a lot about dominant men, how many different types are there and which types are most useful to you as a submissive? There are only two types of dominant men. The one who is right for me and all the rest who are wrong for me. It's not my purpose in life to 'use' someone but rather, to be of use to Himself. Celeste

delectable -> RE: what kind of dominant do you find most useful? (4/20/2006 12:03:21 PM)
a dom that has a personality that makes me care for Him, and want to serve him. as katy said, one that does not get his knowledge from books of fiction and understands the vanilla requirements on my life. One who appreciates me. one that tells me i'm a good girl. a sensual one. one that tells me with a look and a raised eyebrow rather than a shout that i've done bad. stuff like that. hope it helped.

classykindasassy -> RE: what kind of dominant do you find most useful? (4/20/2006 9:49:06 PM)
Hmmmm <scratching chin>... One who has the desire to impart life wisdom. One who can balance tenderness with meanness. One who can embrace my extreme responsiveness sexually, and revel in it. One who is highly intuitive, and can communicate well and freely. One who plays artfully (creative with rope and scening, inspired in his choice of what to do for a scene). One who recognizes the need for balance in all areas of life and relationship. One who is connected to spirit, his and mine. One who can admit when he has made a grave mistake, and make amends if called for. One who recognizes what makes me uniquely desirable. One who happens to share my interests, or enough to make a life together with

babysburnin -> RE: what kind of dominant do you find most useful? (4/20/2006 10:12:59 PM)
Going with the assumption that this is a serious question... There are as many answers to your question as their are subs. Useful? Types? Subbies? [sm=ofcourse.gif]

twicehappy -> RE: what kind of dominant do you find most useful? (4/21/2006 7:07:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cillydom Question for the subbies. I hear a lot about dominant men, how many different types are there and which types are most useful to you as a subbie? There are as many different types of Doms out there as there are men who are dominant. Each is unique in their chosen role. To the question which types are more useful; i am confused, useful for what? Yes dominants do serve a purpose for their subs/slaves but don't you have this backwards? Isn't it the sub/slave's part to be useful to the Dom? I always this to be considered part of serving my owner, are you saying the Master should be of service to the slave?

cillydom -> RE: what kind of dominant do you find most useful? (4/21/2006 7:34:26 AM)
In any relationship each satisfies certain needs in the other/s which hopefully they find useful. So yes we are all used by others with whom we have relationships. If not they will seek fulfillment elsewhere.

twicehappy -> RE: what kind of dominant do you find most useful? (4/21/2006 7:44:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cillydom In any relationship each satisfies certain needs in the other/s which hopefully they find useful. So yes we are all used by others with whom we have relationships. If not they will seek fulfillment elsewhere. I tend to prefer an equal exchange in a relationship. I am currently a slave in a 24/7 real time M/M/s relationship. To imply that i use my owners i find highly distasteful to me.

cillydom -> RE: what kind of dominant do you find most useful? (4/21/2006 8:44:42 AM)
ok, what was exchanged. was it once or is it an ongoing process?

twicehappy -> RE: what kind of dominant do you find most useful? (4/21/2006 5:29:42 PM)
It is an ongoing 24/7 total power exchange.

cillydom -> RE: what kind of dominant do you find most useful? (4/21/2006 6:16:03 PM)
but what was exchanged?

CERCKL -> RE: what kind of dominant do you find most useful? (4/21/2006 6:17:48 PM)
quote: DG took my lawnmower to the repair shop for me........that was useful! I am still laughing...thank you. C

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: what kind of dominant do you find most useful? (4/21/2006 6:53:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: classykindasassy Hmmmm <scratching chin>... One who has the desire to impart life wisdom. One who can balance tenderness with meanness. One who can embrace my extreme responsiveness sexually, and revel in it. One who is highly intuitive, and can communicate well and freely. One who plays artfully (creative with rope and scening, inspired in his choice of what to do for a scene). One who recognizes the need for balance in all areas of life and relationship. One who is connected to spirit, his and mine. One who can admit when he has made a grave mistake, and make amends if called for. One who recognizes what makes me uniquely desirable. One who happens to share my interests, or enough to make a life together with ...YES!.................Tempting

twicehappy -> RE: what kind of dominant do you find most useful? (4/21/2006 6:59:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cillydom but what was exchanged? Here is the definition of TPE. Total Power Exchange or TPE is a derivative of the concept of power exchange in a D/s relationship. The term refers to a relationship where the dominant has complete authority and influence over the submissive's life. TPE is referred to as 24/7 though some consider these terms to have different definitions.

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