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RE: Money Dommes - 9/21/2010 3:52:20 PM

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I put you over my knee for free ;)

Now you tell me.

Nice to see you`re still around btw.

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RE: Money Dommes - 9/21/2010 3:56:14 PM

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I get so sick of the money domme.For me at least BDSM is playful bedroom fun.

This is the type of comment I really dont get. Why knock others for indulging in this lifestyle any way they wish ?

Some guys must love paying for it, or ProDommes wouldn`t have a market.

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RE: Money Dommes - 9/24/2010 9:51:16 AM

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The one nice thing about it is most of them don't last long, I guess they give up begging and move on to dumpster diving.

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RE: Money Dommes - 9/24/2010 10:05:31 AM

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One of my online screening tools are these threads or journals where men are complaining about pro dominant's or women who just want them to show them the money. Once in a while we all might complain or joke about something on a site like this and it is not a curse of Collarme and CM's fault. Most of us get bothered by someone or a group and the scammers.

Those that can only see the bad or who complain more than they don't complain, let me know they are not a person I would want to know. It shows emotional issues, anger, frustration and how these people handle things that show me, I wouldn't handle well, how they focus on the bad and react. They don't have the humor I would want in someone and show that they cannot be easy going. AND... a big one... they show their reasoning skills are lacking. If they only blame the women... lol... and not the men who are the marketed one's because there are so many of them... then the complainers aren't reasoning the whole situation and are picking on one aspect of it and picking it to death.

Too anal for me! lol So thank you for making it so easy for me to know who to not read, not talk to and not respond to! That clears at least twenty minutes a day for me. lol

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RE: Money Dommes - 9/24/2010 10:29:24 AM

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Lockit I think most people that are complaining are not upset about pro Dommes, My self I think pro Dommes are fantastic, it's the ones who call people a pay pig and say you will never meet me but sent me your money, thats not a Domme, it's a beggar I can't understand why anyone would send this type of person anything, And I dojn't think they are getting rich doing it because they never last long, like an 18 year old virgin at a strip club, short timer, I believe every sub should contribute to his domme, but only if they are involved.

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RE: Money Dommes - 9/24/2010 10:38:06 AM

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You cannot see that they are here because they do get response to their demands? Even if they aren't getting rich, they are getting something. Why not get upset or complain about the guys that give them the goods because that really is what brings them here. Whether it be a fetish or kink or simply some guy who wants a fantasy/illusion and is willing to pay for it, they are the one's that bring in the young babes from all over the world with a paypal or western union account.

Why complain about it? What good does that do? Does it change one damn thing? Oh... forgive me... it does! It makes the lifestyle dominant's roll their eyes and move on. You all are shooting yourselves in the foot so to speak.

Rise above it... move on... be happy... We women folk like that.

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RE: Money Dommes - 9/24/2010 1:21:15 PM

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What Lockit said. When I see a profile on the other side that is full of complaints about scammers, fakes, and money whores I HIDE that profile.

If you don't want to see a person's profile HIDE IT. It's that simple. Why complain about things that truly do not affect you?

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RE: Money Dommes - 9/25/2010 3:25:46 PM

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Lockit I think most people that are complaining are not upset about pro Dommes, My self I think pro Dommes are fantastic, it's the ones who call people a pay pig and say you will never meet me but sent me your money, thats not a Domme, it's a beggar I can't understand why anyone would send this type of person anything, And I dojn't think they are getting rich doing it because they never last long, like an 18 year old virgin at a strip club, short timer, I believe every sub should contribute to his domme, but only if they are involved.

I can't understand why somebody would send them anything but if people do and they get their rocks off and are happy, it is really none of my business, whatever makes people happy...

On the other hand, just look at all the threads, always some guys complaining about pro dommes, look at the profile of those guys, err, what would attract a domme? That's the equivalent of the obese guy with BO in a bar complaining that he can't pull and then accusing women of being shallow...

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RE: Money Dommes - 8/2/2011 12:05:41 AM

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To be "on topic,"

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The true non pro dominant is not a blood sucking leech. She just wants to be compensated for her time and effort, as does the pro domme

stinger, that was a beautiful, beautiful post all the way. I quote that one bit, as that is the bit that no one much ever seems to get. So many allege-slaves and subs think that if you expect anything out of them but for them to submit to exactly what they hope will happen to them, that you are this tyrannical money domme even if no one is actually asking for money.

It's like, "Oh Mistress, thank you for talking to me. I will gladly let you spank me now. I've always dreamed of that and I find you so hot."
"Bitch, no! I spent 6 hours talking to you, helping you work out your angst. Clean my house! "

"Oh, I see how you are, you whore! You just want to use me."

Well, yeah, I want to use them, as in utilize them. That's what they are there for, allegedly. And, sure as shite, they just used me as there therapist! So, either they should do as they are told or remit payment for therapy!

Sorry for going on, but, man, does that get old.

I get accused of being materialistic all the time by people, and a whore, and all sorts of stuff. I steal from men, their hard earned wages. Yep. One of them paid me $100 one time for hours and hours worth of attention, answering his questions. Another one but me a slushy from Sonic, once, when we met.

What a money-mongering whore I am!

EXACTLY!

As a Lifestylist, I'm VERY picky. I only like certain types of kinks, we have to get a long on a vanilla level, and I don't do public play. I'm also not going to go "all out" when I play with you (make-up, fetish gear, etc) if I don't feel like it. You'll take what I'm willing to offer, because otherwise, you're not getting anything.

Which is partially why I have an option number 2: Hire me as a Pro-Domme. I'm less picky. If you show up, pay a fee, I'll play with you. I'll even wear that dress you like. ^_~

"Free House Cleaning" (my ass):
I stopped taking "domestic servitude" guys for free because so many of them are just like the guys who message me about setting up a session and pussy out at the last minute. I don't have time to wait all day for your ass to not even show up. (I could've cleaned it MYSELF in that time, I'm not handicapped.) So now, if you want "chores," you have to pay for them.

"Live in's"
I guess I should blame the economy for the reason why I get so many guys on CM messaging me asking to move in with me for free. Guys don't even pull that shit with me on VANILLA dating sites, but because they'll be my "sub/slave" all of a sudden it's a bargain. Sorry, I don't even know if I WANT to be friends with you, WhyTF would I want you to move in with me?

PS--I don't "go shopping for floggers." I make my own toys, but sometimes I'll buy something and then "personalize/customize" it. Same for furniture too. (Thank the Goddess for Technical Production in college.) And most of my fetish gear. (Though I haven't tried my hand at latex garments yet, though I'm hoping to start soon.)

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RE: Money Dommes - 8/2/2011 12:26:07 AM

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So the money Domme is a thief and the Pro Domme is a prostitute. It's that simple, so who cares. Let it go.

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RE: Money Dommes - 8/2/2011 12:31:39 AM

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And to be "on topic:"

The reason why Money Domme's exist is because of newbies.

They run a "I'm hot, pay me" deal. Newbies don't understand the scene, think those girls are real Dommes, and they pay them because they do the same thing at strip clubs for the girls there. (A lot of these Money Dommes do nude or more on cam/vid.) The girls continue to profit off of guys because they put their "visual creature" logic first. Other girls then join in perpetuating the b.s.

The girls will "read up" (wiki search) on specific fetishes so that they know what a guy is talking about when he asks for it, but none of them do real-time with the exception of a few cases.

I actually have respect for some Money Dommes because they are Dommes to an extent and have managed to build a follow/carve themselves a niche around what they do successfully. (Like I'd respect anyone that's self-employed and successful at it.)

But I also like to laugh at some of them because they'll do or say something that's completely incorrect about some kink that they're trying to do. With that being said, the guys who go to Cam Girls and ask for Domme shows when they're not a Domme make me laugh my ass off too.

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RE: Money Dommes - 8/2/2011 12:37:54 AM

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You guys did notice that the thread is a year old, right?

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RE: Money Dommes - 8/2/2011 12:43:58 AM

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Please do not 'necro' old threads. If the last response to a thread is older than 3 months and you wish to continue the discussion, please start a new thread and link to the old one.
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