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Stix -> I'm a switch?! (8/15/2010 4:17:07 AM)
Ok...so I love being dominant...I mean, seriously love it. I love the power, the authority...just...everything about it really. But recently, I've had these thoughts of being dominated by an (ex) sub... This is weird for me because, usually, I hate being told what to do. Someone says "do this" or "do that" and I tend to do the opposite out of principle. So, could I just be a sub in denial? or am I just curious about the sub lifestyle but not actually wanting to practice it? or am I truly a switch? Anyone else here had any similar experiences/thoughts?

mstrjx -> RE: I'm a switch?! (8/15/2010 5:08:15 AM)
These 'thoughts of being dominated by an ex'.... Were they where she was spanking/flogging/clamping/etc. pain-play sorts of dominating, or were they more of the 'this is what I want you to do to please me' sorta things? If it was the former, you have fantasies of bottoming, which to many people wouldn't necessarily make you a submissive. A little switch-y perhaps. You can either answer that question here for more dialog, or to yourself to help you understand yourself better. Jeff

Stix -> RE: I'm a switch?! (8/15/2010 5:28:01 AM)
Well...I'm not a big fan of pain on myself (maybe the odd spank :P), but no it wasn't that, it was more being chained to a chair and being used, having her do whatever she wanted with me... That sort of thing

DarkSteven -> RE: I'm a switch?! (8/15/2010 6:16:05 AM)
Seeing as how you have experience at being a Dom, and nothing more than fantasies of being a sub I'd label you "switch curious". I once asked a woman to spank me and we both found out that she didn't like topping, and I didn't like bottoming. Go ahead and try it and see. Until then your proper label remains in doubt!

Stix -> RE: I'm a switch?! (8/15/2010 8:20:51 AM)
Yeah I guess that makes sense... I guess you never really know until you try it! Thanks

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