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RE: Travelmate/slut/whore Wanted - 8/23/2010 7:23:34 AM

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Im not some weird, fat, bearded closet dom

I haz no idea who he meant by that...

/Opens closet door and gets out/

Steven.. darling.. I know you. Trust me, when I say that the above descriptor does not apply...

Damn right it doesn't. You are one sexy beast, Steven.

Also, why do closets get such a bad rap? I've had some very hot and kinky sex in closets! In fact, I call my youngest son my closet baby, since that's where he was conceived!

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RE: Travelmate/slut/whore Wanted - 8/23/2010 7:40:55 AM

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Win, you have too much fun!!

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RE: Travelmate/slut/whore Wanted - 8/23/2010 8:39:02 AM

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Hello and welcome to CM.

I guess I'm not quite understanding what the fuss is about. Granted the intro section is more a place to say hi rather an area to look for a partner or an encounter, but it's not like it hasn't been used for that before. I mean at least the OP is offering something to his companion as far as the trip being on him....how many times have other newbies come here to place an order for a no limits slave, a unicorn who loves to suck cock and clean the house, or some other permutation on the topic of obtaining someone to serve with no mention of what that person may get out of it? Plus the advertised for slave usually has to get themselves to the prospective Dom meaning the expenses are footed by them, while perhaps also contributing to the household income.

A nice weekend trip sounds pretty awesome provided I took the time to get to know the person first and felt comfortable going with him; it didn't seem to me that the OP wasn't offering to spend some time with a prospective companion beforehand in order to see if they were both on the same page. I really don't understand where many of the responses assumed that the two of them would barely know each other- unless I missed something.

OP, I'm with you on the traveling alone thing getting old....as Sunny said as well, its not the funnest thing in the world. My Dom and I just took a weekend trip to another state (CT) this weekend and had a blast. The goofiest things can be fun to do, we had a few things planned but then a lot of it was just spur of the moment stuff - that is the most fun when you have another person there to bounce things off of. Anything from talking over a meal in a new restaurant, to pulling over for an impromptu picture of a funny road sign, or finding a crazy grocery store with animatronics like Chuckie Cheese (Stew Leonards)...its more fun with someone else there to do it with.

I would suggest that you fill out your profile some more to give any prospects a reason to contact you. I also think it is commendable that you stuck around OP and tried to explain in additional posts what you are after. The wording in your first post wasn't something I'd have wanted to respond to, just my opinion. I wish you good luck though in your search...

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RE: Travelmate/slut/whore Wanted - 8/23/2010 9:20:23 AM

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As someone who's done the "travelmate" thingy...not the "slut/whore" part, mind you...with a friend I met on CM, I can appreciate the desire to have a companion. My only advice to the OP is to consider his wording before posting this sort of offer again as not every woman who identifies as a submissive is a " walking pleasure machine" who revels in her "Sluttiness and Whore status" with someone she's just met online.

Of course, the whole "Pretty Woman" scenario worked for Julia Roberts and Richard Gere so who knows. OP, are you anything like Edward? Just remember, even Vivian had her standards.

Welcome, good luck and happy trails!

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RE: Travelmate/slut/whore Wanted - 8/23/2010 9:24:19 AM

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...finding a crazy grocery store with animatronics like Chuckie Cheese (Stew Leonards)...

Brief hijack....

Ok, isn't Stew Leonards just the wackiest place ever? Whenever I go, I feel like I'm at the Disney World version of food shopping hell.

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RE: Travelmate/slut/whore Wanted - 8/23/2010 11:08:16 AM

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If the OP had slightly changed the wording of his intro to reflect that he was looking to meet a woman who would "pretend" to be a whore/slut/whatever or "do acts" that were whorish and slutty, would there have been all this uproar?

Just curious.

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RE: Travelmate/slut/whore Wanted - 8/23/2010 11:15:32 AM

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I think so, yes.

My reading was that he was looking for someone for short-term fun, and lots of sex, in exchange for food and lodging that HE DID NOT PAY FOR HIMSELF. Then, she goes away.

To me, the IDEA is seriously hot, the stuff of softcore porn. But only the idea is hot. The reality, hooking up with some guy, generating consistent lust, having to be his escort/social companion... well, it smacks of high class call girl, money on the dresser, here's a nice bracelet as a tip. Will fuck for food? Not so appealing.

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RE: Travelmate/slut/whore Wanted - 8/23/2010 11:47:03 AM

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Hmmmmmmm.

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RE: Travelmate/slut/whore Wanted - 8/23/2010 4:35:45 PM

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Hello Green Eyes,
I get the wanting to travel with someone. I *totally* get that. Nothing better than seeing something beautiful and having the ability to turn to someone and share your wonder and awe. It would be nice just to have the opportunity to get a response to "should we turn left or right here? I can't tell from this danged map." As someone who lives far far from the people who know me, it gets tiresome being alone. And yes, it would be nice to on occasion have what your OP noted... and what your subsequent posts noted as well.

I think most of us have at one time or another wanted the kind of zippidee doo daa that you defined in your OP. Heck some of us continue to want that. The norms on this board *generally, for better or worse* are relationship oriented.

I applaud you for speaking what you want, for not getting snippy when confronted, and for clarifying. Good on you. Good luck in your search. If you ever find yourself in Korea, I'd be happy to chat you up. The rest, I wouldn't hold my breath! <<< after holding breath.

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Absolutely. I loved the post, hey it's upfront, honest and well...kind of imaginable. I love that the OP didn't get offended when he was rather reamed, *not saying that the ladies reaming were wrong* and hell, if I wasn't madly in love I might seriously consider. I have done worse for less

. A free luxury weekend getaway with the terms upfront? Maybe, if I were so inclined. I didn't see him as calling everyone here a whore or a slut, and well, if it isn't your cuppa, move on. I bet most women have had a one night stand and felt absolutley discarded the morning after hoping it would turn into way more than it was. Me, not so much. I tend to be more "male oriented" that way. You only feel used if you allow it. I think it's okay to use something like this just as much as it uses you, if that makes any sense.

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RE: Travelmate/slut/whore Wanted - 8/23/2010 5:46:37 PM

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...finding a crazy grocery store with animatronics like Chuckie Cheese (Stew Leonards)...

Brief hijack....

Ok, isn't Stew Leonards just the wackiest place ever? Whenever I go, I feel like I'm at the Disney World version of food shopping hell.

It is an amazing place, we had blast but then again we like wacky things. I'm considering regular trips to CT just to go there. I brought my bag of goodies home and regretted that I didn't get more. You have to love a grocery store that has its own petting zoo...

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RE: Travelmate/slut/whore Wanted - 8/23/2010 8:15:51 PM

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Let's see....

• I've never seen the film, "Pretty Woman."

• My headline was a dumb idea.

• I'm very surprised at the amount of response generated.

• I am also very surprised at the number of submissives who were insulted. THAT's my fault. I got the wrong impression, but still I was surprised. They almost seemed prudish. That really surprised me.

• I didnt want to "buy" anyone, or coerce anyone, or even persuade or convince anyone. Someone might be interested. One never knows. And that's all. Everyone else is completely entitled to their opinion. That's what makes it a rodeo.

• I'm a guy who has a really fun, interesting job, and wanted to share it. Didnt mean to put anyone off.

• I dont post my picture, of course. I'm 6'2, 200 lbs, green eyes, attractive, I would objectively say. I have all my hair and teeth, and just not interested in having my face online. For a guy who's known and active in his community, it would be imprudent. Besides, where would the mystery be then? ;-)

• Mea Culpa if I was ever ungentlemanly.

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RE: Travelmate/slut/whore Wanted - 8/23/2010 9:44:21 PM

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• I am also very surprised at the number of submissives who were insulted. THAT's my fault. I got the wrong impression, but still I was surprised. They almost seemed prudish. That really surprised me.

Why did it surprise you?

Sure, we may be sluts but only for the Dominant with whom we have a relationship. Well, most of us, anyway. I can't speak for all the submissives here.

Lord knows we've all been contacted by men who discover this site and believe it's a veritable smorgasbord of sex-crazed sluts and whores just waiting for any guy to come 'n' get it.

My impression of your original post was that, being a writer, you got a little carried away with your description of how you saw your upcoming business weekend with the woman you hoped would volunteer to join you. A colorful, fantasy-driven description, but, hey, you're a writer, you can't help yourself.

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RE: Travelmate/slut/whore Wanted - 8/23/2010 10:56:38 PM

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Let's see....

• I've never seen the film, "Pretty Woman."

• My headline was a dumb idea.

• I'm very surprised at the amount of response generated.

• I am also very surprised at the number of submissives who were insulted. THAT's my fault. I got the wrong impression, but still I was surprised. They almost seemed prudish. That really surprised me.

• I didnt want to "buy" anyone, or coerce anyone, or even persuade or convince anyone. Someone might be interested. One never knows. And that's all. Everyone else is completely entitled to their opinion. That's what makes it a rodeo.

• I'm a guy who has a really fun, interesting job, and wanted to share it. Didnt mean to put anyone off.

• I dont post my picture, of course. I'm 6'2, 200 lbs, green eyes, attractive, I would objectively say. I have all my hair and teeth, and just not interested in having my face online. For a guy who's known and active in his community, it would be imprudent. Besides, where would the mystery be then? ;-)

• Mea Culpa if I was ever ungentlemanly.

Do I sense a man selling his fantasy to whomsoever shall bite? Perhaps there are women here on (CM) who just might find your selling tactics charming & do more than bite. However, then you have those discerning women or rather ladies that I have developed great respect for who will expose arrogant attitudes.

Yes, you do come across as arrogant. How? In you pretending with your “Mea Culpa if I was ever ungentlemanly” comment among other arrogant comments does bring about neon lights for me. No this is not Vegas or Reno. Look around you it is virtual reality. Something to consider. Delivery style lacks diplomacy. (hint hint)

Regarding arrogant insults toward undeserving ladies ALERT I am a wealthy gentleman & would not imagine speaking to a lady in a manner that would incite her by speaking cutting remarks. Oh yes, I had forgotten the rules change on the Internet. Wrong! A true gentleman knows his worth and does not struggle with his abilities to the degree that he will stoop to a level that would insult a lady in public or not when at a loss for words.

If you do have expendable funds to spend then by all means spend to your hearts desire. Free Market and all. I for one find your ad rather suspect being a wealthy gentleman myself. I cannot imagine any of the gentlemen I know selling themselves and their hard earned capital on any Internet site introductions forums.

Frankly speaking it is in my experience that there are always willing adult female recipients to spend time with wealthy men. I speak from experience. I simply wonder if you sincerely do? Perhaps, yet I would venture to say that money dominates your desires not the other way around.

Beware! San Francisco has been know to drain the pockets of the shrewdest cut throat business men. How do I know? Home sweet Home! Am I throwing stones your way? No, I am simply saying that no self respecting man would speak to a lady in a manner that would insult her dignity. At least not in the corporate social circles that I am privy to. To each their own, aye!

Happy Hunting!

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RE: Travelmate/slut/whore Wanted - 8/23/2010 11:01:51 PM

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Zevar, that was some whipping you just delivered.

<= Has now decided he officially likes Zevar.

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RE: Travelmate/slut/whore Wanted - 8/23/2010 11:37:42 PM

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Greeneyes don't let the crazy people who take everything personally get you down. Some of these comments blow my mind. Your libertine tastes are a personal insult to their delicate subby sensibilities.

I hope you find some great women on this site and travel to some fun places together.

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RE: Travelmate/slut/whore Wanted - 8/23/2010 11:43:01 PM

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edited: Removed my post. This thread is just to stupid to post to.

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RE: Travelmate/slut/whore Wanted - 8/24/2010 2:05:14 AM

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RE: Travelmate/slut/whore Wanted - 8/24/2010 8:16:47 AM

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Dear Sir,
With all due respect, I am not you. :-)

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