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RE: Women beating men up - 8/26/2010 10:57:37 PM   
BentUnit


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You really don't get to control the way the community will responds to a topic once you post it.
This thread belongs in Off Topic.

Suck it up, Buttercup.

Oh, and while we are on the subject of Ass's I'd be a little circumspect throwing that word around if I were you.

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RE: Women beating men up - 8/26/2010 11:37:02 PM   
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I am curious from people here in the CollarMe community,how much is too much?Even though no one has gotten seriously hurt from doing this,there's alway's that "what if".I know my decision to continue to do this is clearly up to me.However,I would like to hear other people's point of view on this topic.Thank you.


Allowing oneself to be beaten for monetary gain or not is out of my league altogether. I do not and will not ever desire to be a recipient to any form of beating(s) NOR would I ever desire to beat a recipient. I acknowledge that some people choose to be somehow involved in this sort of interacting. I consider it brutally violent and a major deal breaker on either side of the fence. Further it is noted that some would disagree that this sort of conduct is not violent at all. I disagree, but then I am not masochistic or sadistic.

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RE: Women beating men up - 8/27/2010 5:13:19 AM   
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RE: Women beating men up - 8/27/2010 5:25:07 AM   
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i know the site you're talking about they recently did some filming in the nyc area, my opinion if a guy wants to get his faced punched in then so be it. Although i will say this there is a reason they were gloves in boxing and mma fights all it takes is one punch to the head in the wrong place for some serious complications to arise

Actually, believe it or not, the reason they wear gloves in boxing and MMA is to protect the hands, not the opponent's head. That is why amateur bouts require headgear as well as gloves.

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RE: Women beating men up - 8/27/2010 5:33:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		yes i know thats part of the reason but whenever i have punch someone bare fisted i can guarantee their jaw felt a lot worse than my hand. 

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RE: Women beating men up - 8/27/2010 5:53:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think it is all a little to risky with little controls in place for safety.  It is a matter of luck of draw depending on if you get a woman who is angry and wants to really hurt someone or someone who is a little more calm before beating down someone.  It reminds me of being along the lines of ultimate fighting and I can see why it has a following just as that sport does.  I agree with others that in time some poor guy is going to more than he expected from a beat down and he will decide to sue over it. 

OP if this is something your into then be into it no matter what any of us think about it. 


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RE: Women beating men up - 8/27/2010 6:16:01 AM   
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RE: Women beating men up - 8/27/2010 6:20:30 AM   
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ORIGINAL: perfectflaw00

yes i know thats part of the reason but whenever i have punch someone bare fisted i can guarantee their jaw felt a lot worse than my hand. 

I was under the impression that when organised bareknuckle fighting was the norm participants rarely suffered brain damage-it became much more common when boxing gloves were introduced.


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RE: Women beating men up - 8/27/2010 7:14:30 AM   
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to the OP - how much is too much?  For me bruises and soreness that last a few days is ok, anything more would be too much.  Punching and kicking would definitely be out for me.


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RE: Women beating men up - 8/27/2010 8:55:20 AM   
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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

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ORIGINAL: perfectflaw00

yes i know thats part of the reason but whenever i have punch someone bare fisted i can guarantee their jaw felt a lot worse than my hand. 

I was under the impression that when organised bareknuckle fighting was the norm participants rarely suffered brain damage-it became much more common when boxing gloves were introduced.



i've heard that as well although i don't know how much truth there is to it, i'm actually going to look into it now that my interest is piqued.

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RE: Women beating men up - 8/27/2010 10:33:21 AM   
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Status: offline 		I am someone that occasionally likes to beat the ever-lovin' shit out of someone. It's something that I enjoy every now and then. However, I have safewords and safeguards in that situation. I make sure that I have the financial means to pay for an emergency room visit if play gets *too* rough. I would never do this for profit, though.

To make this something that's public, that has no emotional connection to ground it, and occurs between strangers that are not used to each other just seems a little crazy.

AND any contract that would be written for the protection of the operator of these sort of events would immediately be voided due to the fact that it is not a part of an official sporting event. Sports' Law covers this sort of thing and if it were registered as sport, that would definitely take care of the legal issues.

BUT this is like Fight Club, it's not legally recognized and if they get caught by law enforcement due to someone complaining of a serious injury or death, they're going to get their metaphorical asses reamed metaphorically with a metaphoric red-hot poker... a poker covered in barbs that are called The Law. :-D Metaphorically.

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RE: Women beating men up - 8/27/2010 10:46:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't know about the payment, and my face if off limits. But there are lots of kinksters like myself who like getting hard core beat up in the body. And there are more than a few women who enjoy the physical side of domination. It floats boats.

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RE: Women beating men up - 8/27/2010 11:07:55 AM   
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ORIGINAL: perfectflaw00

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

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ORIGINAL: perfectflaw00

yes i know thats part of the reason but whenever i have punch someone bare fisted i can guarantee their jaw felt a lot worse than my hand. 

I was under the impression that when organised bareknuckle fighting was the norm participants rarely suffered brain damage-it became much more common when boxing gloves were introduced.



i've heard that as well although i don't know how much truth there is to it, i'm actually going to look into it now that my interest is piqued.



I just hope you never end up with shattered bones in your hand.  I found out a long time ago and the hard way that another person's jawbone is a lot harder and thicker than the bones in my hand.

I definitely dont wish it on you or anyone.

I guess this is off topic.  sorry folks

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RE: Women beating men up - 8/27/2010 11:16:23 AM   
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Status: offline 		It always seems the men get beaten more than the ladies. Is that because men can take more?

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RE: Women beating men up - 8/27/2010 11:20:55 AM   
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It always seems the men get beaten more than the ladies.


Really? I had not noticed this. If you mean in the context of a scenario such as the OP has laid out, yes I'd agree that you will not often find a woman who would be willing to allow a bunch of guys to punch and kick the snot out of her and videotape it for money.

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RE: Women beating men up - 8/27/2010 11:58:53 AM   
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ETA: In the out-&-organized BDSM 'scene' that I've been around, that is . . . . . .

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It always seems the men get beaten more than the ladies. Is that because men can take more?


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RE: Women beating men up - 8/27/2010 12:08:47 PM   
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I don't know about the payment, and my face if off limits. But there are lots of kinksters like myself who like getting hard core beat up in the body. And there are more than a few women who enjoy the physical side of domination. It floats boats.


Sure, women like physical domination. But getting hard core beat up is more of a fetish I think and an extreme one. But have fun and be safe.

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RE: Women beating men up - 8/27/2010 2:17:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Charles6682

There is a local place in the city where I live,where Women get paid to literally beat the hell out of guy's.It's this guy,who own's a few website's,where he shoot's video's of Women beating up men.Now,the men do get serverly hurt.However,the girl's do punch and kick the men in the face,rib's and really anywhere else.This is clearly a huge fetish amongst many men,because this guy who own's these site's is weathly enough or he wouldn't be doing so well selling these video's.I have done a few of these video's myself,I even get paid to do these video's but I have paused,thinking about my long term health.I have had a few bloody nose's and my rib's have hurt because of this.I am a submissive and I enjoy Female Domination,but this is a bit extreme.I am curious from people here in the CollarMe community,how much is too much?Even though no one has gotten seriously hurt from doing this,there's alway's that "what if".I know my decision to continue to do this is clearly up to me.However,I would like to hear other people's point of view on this topic.Thank you.


This is a decision too personal to be given an answer by anyone other than yourself, but there are things you can be aware of to ease the curve of making it.

First off your talking about two different kinds of limits, the first being personal which you've already made clear is pretty much non existent. The second is physical which is ALWAYS in place and cannot be avoided without reducing the severity of whatever afflictions your fetish would cause.

Put simply.  If your body starts getting any serious unhealthy results that are obviously lasting long term, then you need to tone things down. That is considering your life is worth more to you than a single fetish.

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RE: Women beating men up - 9/2/2010 5:04:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have to admit, as a bottom, I was perving this discussion in search of that rare bird, a woman who enjoys beating men up. OK it is not original but it is a lot better than trolling in the chat rooms.

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RE: Women beating men up - 9/2/2010 5:32:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		I suppose first you need to be sure that you've not suffered any lasting harm so far.

For example - were you able to correctly pluralise nouns in the past?

Then, it might be worth checking to see whether your health insurance covers this kinda thing - they may only be lil girls, but an unlucky punch/fall/blow could potentially result in really serious problems.

But... if you're aware of the risks, I say go for it!





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