DarkSteven
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First off, what you describe as sub/Dom seems to be bedroom only. I'll assume that. I suggest a game for the two of them. It's called "How would you feel if...?" They research, individually or together, different kinds of play. Go to a play party together, watch porno, read kinky websites Whatever. After being exposed to something new, each one gets a sheet of paper. One of them suggests the topic - fire play, spanking, nipple clamps, whatever, from what they just experienced. Then each gets to describe in writing their feelings about the play - how he imagined her nipples were in those clamps, how she imagined being over his lap with panties pulled down, etc. - and the emotions felt about it. After three minutes, stop writing, exchange papers, and read what the other wrote. Then each gets five minutes in turn to describe how each felt upon reading the other's writing. NOTE - if the topic picker only selects things they like, there will be a tendency to write favorably of each activity. So it's necessary to pick things that the picker would not like as well. If he is in fact a Dom, and he has a full list of things he likes and knows whether his partner likes them or not...watch out! And if he only does the things that she liked without regard to his own liking or not, he's not a Dom.
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