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LadyPact -> RE: Spam Filter is activated on my mail box (9/1/2010 10:15:17 AM)

That part seems a bit different than what happened on My end.  The fact that I received an email with that message on the top says that messages flagged with the warning can obviously still be sent.  Perhaps you were reported as spam by more than one person?

Personally, I do report the drivel that is sent to Me about the ridiculous online training crap.  I say in My profile that I have no interest in any of the online nonsense, so it's warranted. 

The site provides the ability to use email between users, but it's a privilege, not a guaranteed right.  If you were just mailing friends, it probably wouldn't have happened.  If you were mailing people that didn't want to hear from you, it's possible that they reported you for it.

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ORIGINAL: sirrandpolyfam

I suspect that for all those who hate cut-n-paste emails there is about as many who welcome them.

If you can find Me even ONE example of anyone on the forums saying they LIKED cut and paste emails for anything OTHER than knowing who they DIDN'T want to communicate with, I will put My head between My legs and kiss My own ass.





stef -> RE: Spam Filter is activated on my mail box (9/1/2010 10:15:23 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sirrandpolyfam

That very all encompassing control seems very wrong. I suspect that for all those who hate cut-n-paste emails there is about as many who welcome them.

Perhaps, but perhaps not in the way you imagine.  You're very likely seeing the result of people who welcome such letters because they show the sender to be someone not worth engaging, and who then mark such form letters as spam.

Sounds like the system is working *perfectly* to me.

~stef




SaintIntensity -> RE: Spam Filter is activated on my mail box (9/1/2010 10:17:13 AM)

no - they might not mind cut'n'pastes if they DON'T REALISE IT IS ONE

that is - as I suspected - your little "offence" - i.e. paste the blurb and try the shotgun tactic

spam - in every sense of the word - and rightly stopped





VideoAdminAlpha -> RE: Spam Filter is activated on my mail box (9/1/2010 10:32:02 AM)


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ORIGINAL: sirrandpolyfam

I have done both but I think that the community needs to know what is a danerous over reaching.

SR&MC



You have not written me at all, so you have not done BOTH, but I will make sure your support is answered promptly.




sirrandpolyfam -> RE: Spam Filter is activated on my mail box (9/1/2010 10:36:40 AM)

How do I write you if I can't send email?

SR&MC




sirrandpolyfam -> RE: Spam Filter is activated on my mail box (9/1/2010 10:40:56 AM)

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If you can find Me even ONE example of anyone on the forums saying they LIKED cut and paste emails for anything OTHER than knowing who they DIDN'T want to communicate with, I will put My head between My legs and kiss My own ass.


[modedit:  two personal emails removed]


Thanks

These are only the ones I could find quickly.

SR&MC




Servants247Rqrd -> RE: Spam Filter is activated on my mail box (9/1/2010 10:43:40 AM)

Uhm, I  like cut and paste emails,, for reasons other than knowing who I don't want to communicate with. Not every one of them, but, some. Some are very funny and/or informative. So, are you going to be making a video of that ass kissing and sharing it with us all, or ...?




sirrandpolyfam -> RE: Spam Filter is activated on my mail box (9/1/2010 10:46:58 AM)

I received this answer from support.

Dear sirrandpolyfam,       The spam filter was not activated because you were replying to emails. THIS is why:     You received this warning because you were sending a large number of unsolicited messages to other users.  This practice, known as spamming, is extremely inconsiderate to other users on the site and is also a violation of our terms of service.  Your ability to send messages will be restored automatically after a period of time however continued violations of our terms of service may result in your account being deleted.  If you are not familiar with our terms of service, you can view them using the "Terms of Service" link at the bottom of this page.  Thank you again for contacting Collarme Support.           The Collarme Support Team

So if I send long letters like the one below that is not acceptable?.

"We realize, even though you have only been here a short time you probably already have too many emails in your inbox to answer in one lifetime, the sheer volume maybe very overwhelming or very flattering. Either way, it seems joining this site has caused sheer chaos in the lives to some of those who live to please. Is that what you have experienced?   You didn’t know that would happen, did you? Nor did you know exactly what you wanted out of ‘this life’, right? You may not have truly asked yourself, what it is that really interest you about “this life”.  Have you found out yet?   Even though it is HOT to think of a BD relationship, you may not have asked yourself, “After the fun of submission to a powerful Master/Mistress what would I like my Master/Mistress to mold from this lump of clay that is me”? That truly is the point of giving yourself to another mind, body and soul. We would be very interested in knowing all about you.  Like what do you think truly is the point of giving yourself to another mind, body and soul?   Yes, this is an intro letter that we send to those who catch our eye. If you like what you read, (you will read all of it, right?) then tell US what you want to be… our slave or our friend.   We would like to be good friends and get to know you better, at the very least, if not train you to be the very best sub/slave you can be.   If you do truly believe your addiction to submission is your divine destiny, than you have two choices, you can fight it or you can find peace and embrace it and the rest of the rest of the world can be damned. Are you brave enough to succumb to your addiction of submission and become the best slave you can be?   If you wish to find a Master/Mistress, would you be willing to commit to an Old Guard, Southern Gentleman Master and young nubile Mistress who knows how to get you to subspace because she has been there herself. You will become a creative, domestic, sexual slave with a family, where you will be helping to Where you will get the great reward and the feeling of joy and bliss from serving great artists create great works of art.    Is so read on.... or do you think you just need friends to help you to achieve your potential in ‘this life’?   After you read this, you may realize being trained by us to be a slave, the way we train (we do train online at first), and that eventual relocation is not an option or our brand of slavery is not for you. Then again, you could also realize we are the perfect fit but if we are not a good fit, at the very least, maybe we can be friends. Yes, we are looking for slaves. We have been on CM for a while now and we very committed to that hunt but friends are always welcome.   We are a poly family, who believes in the power of US, not just the US of Master/Mistress but the US of Master/Mistress and slaves.    A good slave stops trying to find the u in you and starts looking for the U in US.   If training is the option you choose, you will study the power of US and be able to enlighten us with your knowledge, you must realize that to, “belong to US you must first understand US, to understand US you must first know US, to know US one must take the time to be our friend, to be our friend takes time, a willingness to care and learn about the simple things in OUR life, what makes US laugh, cry, what brings a smile to OUR face. As our-wanna-be slave you will have to learn to be passionate about our passions and goals, so after reading this do you think we might be a good fit?   When we have learned all about you and you have learned all about US. We will consider you for OUR slave. Also know, we are not the one to give OUR yahoo id out just because you ask for it, order it, or beg for it.  You have to earn it.   We are strict educators and wish to enlighten your mind, while disciplining your body and claiming your soul. You must be willing to learn at our school?   We have had some success over the years but as of late we are having some difficulty finding the perfect sub/slave for us.  Our difficulty is mainly, because we are so picky and specific about what we want, now.   So, if you are sure you wish to be trained by US, then the first question we must ask of you is ‘Do you have any other talents or passions that you would like to explore and become an expert at them? After you get to know US you will realize that we will support you in your reaching for your dreams and passions. After we get to know you, we will know your dreams and passions better then you know yourself.   As we have said, we are artist and we wish to talk about art with our slaves. Will you be able to talk about art with us? Do you know anything about Art? Who is your favorite Artist?   Master was an actor/dancer/businessman, who now produces and directs.  My job is as his assistant (I keep everything running smoothly) and writing partner (In fact we are in the process of writing and producing a Latin Musical, which I’m sure you can help with if you become, our slave).   As we already said, one of the talents we are looking for is musician/song writer to collaborate with us. We are writing and producing a Latin/Spanish movie musical that we intend to shoot in the fall. If you are a musician, we would love to hear some of your work. We would be very interested in a musical collaboration with a slave. Besides being artists and being in the entertainment business. We are also in the oil and gas business.  We are also what you could call Financial Matchmakers... we find people with money, and somebody with a project, and then we get them together.   Master and I are also Hypnotist and we do trance online but for that to work, you have to do everything we say to do regarding the online set-up. The set-up has to be followed exactly for US to be successful and you to be hypnotized.   Hypno online does take some time and preparation, so be prepared to talk to US on here for awhile and then on YM before your first hypno session. Will you let us change your mind as much as your body?   Our style of M/s is more mind control and work oriented then harsh punishment.  We are very strict BDSMers, and we will be very server if disappointed. We do prefer to use mind control, more then our awesome ability to write our name on your ass with a whip but If you demand attention because you are a painslut you won’t last long with us.   “Every night when you sleep, you vote on the question of the day, the question that will define the human condition for tomorrow… even when you decline to vote your vote is counted as maybe. That is the first Law of synchronicity.” -Jung-   “What is the question of the day, slave”?   “The superior Master of acknowledged merit and yet humble demeanor garners myriads of people who will submit to him and in submitting they find the path to true enlightenment.” Ch'in of I CHING   Master says “You always know the right answers; you just don’t always know the right question.   What are your questions so far?”   If you have read all our profiles on CM, pyrobabe, sirrand, sirrandpolyfam you have a pretty good idea of what we are about. Since you know about US we want to know all about you. Tell us all about yourself in a succinct and entertaining way. You will do that for us, right? Feel free to tell us anything and everything, in great detail, we like that.   Obedience is bliss for the ones who serve willingly. Sir Rand & Mistress Carol




VideoAdminAlpha -> RE: Spam Filter is activated on my mail box (9/1/2010 10:49:31 AM)

~~~~Fast Reply~~~~

Our new spam filter has been effectively stopping a large amount of anonymous mass mailing and we have not observed users who are not bulk mailing being affected. However, if anyone feels that they were not bulk mailing and were affected, please contact support and we'll look into it right away. As to whether the "all encompassing control" of blocking mass mailing is a good or bad idea, I'm sure other forum users will weigh in on that issue.

To the OP: You were mass mailing and that's why you were snagged.




stef -> RE: Spam Filter is activated on my mail box (9/1/2010 10:50:12 AM)

First, paragraphs.  Use them.

Second, you broke the rules, you pay the price. 

Third, have a tissue.

~stef




myotherself -> RE: Spam Filter is activated on my mail box (9/1/2010 10:58:38 AM)

That was a message potentially hazardous to health!

If I'd received it, and decided to read it, I may have slipped into a bollox-induced coma by the time I reached line 10. [:'(]

Seriously OP - try talking TO people instead of AT them, and you may find more success.




poise -> RE: Spam Filter is activated on my mail box (9/1/2010 11:01:17 AM)

Thank you! [:D]




sirrandpolyfam -> RE: Spam Filter is activated on my mail box (9/1/2010 11:02:19 AM)

Unfortunately the emails I posted were taken out because I posted the name and date sent but as the next post says there are some who do appreciate our thoroughness.

I would like to see the video also.

This needs to be less of a 'I don't like that person so I am going to report them' kind of filter and maybe a way to keep solicitors out of the mix.

If we sent our intro letter to those who do not wish to get cut-n-paste letters it maybe because we don't think that is what it is. We think of it as an invitation to talk.

We always try to say we found this part of your profile intriguing and even though you do not like cut-n-paste we do want to see if you will make an exception.

SR&MC




sirrandpolyfam -> RE: Spam Filter is activated on my mail box (9/1/2010 11:07:24 AM)

We seem to be doing some thing right because over the last 6 years we have trained either online or in person over 20 slaves. We have spent countless hours advising and helping many others. Is that not what this community is about?

After the introduction letter we send a questionnaire which weeds out those who are not serious about becoming our sub/slave.

SR&MC




stef -> RE: Spam Filter is activated on my mail box (9/1/2010 11:07:29 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sirrandpolyfam

If we sent our intro letter to those who do not wish to get cut-n-paste letters it maybe because we don't think that is what it is. We think of it as an invitation to talk.

You can think you're the Queen of Sheba, it doesn't make it so.

~stef




DaddysInkedSlut -> RE: Spam Filter is activated on my mail box (9/1/2010 11:08:38 AM)

OP if I recieved your "example" email I would report it as spam. As an individual why would I want the same letter / email you sent to 50 other women? IMO that is not only lazy but insulting.

I personally like this new feature.




DaddysInkedSlut -> RE: Spam Filter is activated on my mail box (9/1/2010 11:12:55 AM)


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ORIGINAL: sirrandpolyfam


If we sent our intro letter to those who do not wish to get cut-n-paste letters it maybe because we don't think that is what it is. We think of it as an invitation to talk.

We always try to say we found this part of your profile intriguing and even though you do not like cut-n-paste we do want to see if you will make an exception.



So you you basically disregregard those that you are contacting b/c in your mind it is all about you what you think they should be accepting. I have a news flash isn't all about you. When you disregard peoples profiles you are disregarding them, their feelings, their needs from jump which says ALOT about you IMO. None of which is good btw.




CalifChick -> RE: Spam Filter is activated on my mail box (9/1/2010 11:15:25 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sirrandpolyfam

If we sent our intro letter to those who do not wish to get cut-n-paste letters it maybe because we don't think that is what it is. We think of it as an invitation to talk.



So you cut and paste a 1400 word message and you don't think it's a cut and paste message.  Maybe you managed to find a few who thought you wrote that just for them and were flattered.

An invitation to talk is, "I see you like XXXXXX and YYYYYYYY and ZZZZZZZZZ.  I find that an interesting combination because blah blah blah blah blah.  Have you ever considered blah blah blah?".

A 1400 word message is an invitation to hari kari.

Cali




sirrandpolyfam -> RE: Spam Filter is activated on my mail box (9/1/2010 11:20:43 AM)

We say something like "we like your picture and the fact that you are an artist we thought maybe we would be a good fit. The following is our long introduction letter to introduce us to you. If you are interested read on." If they are not interested then delete and block don't make it impossible for those who appreciate us from being able to correspond with us.

As brief as all the new sub/slaves profiles are this is about all we can talk about.

SR&MC




KyttynTheMynx -> RE: Spam Filter is activated on my mail box (9/1/2010 11:21:52 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: sirrandpolyfam

We always try to say we found this part of your profile intriguing and even though you do not like cut-n-paste we do want to see if you will make an exception.

SR&MC



Ok. Seriously, you arent special. If someone doesnt like c&p messages, dont send them. Try to be original. Save the monologue for the stage.

"We always try to say we found this part of your profile intriguing, and even though you do not like drug users, we do want to see if you will make an exception."

See how stupid that honestly sounds when you go against something someone does not want?

Me personally, had you sent me a long email thats all about you you YOU, I would have to ask where do I really fit in? Youre a couple, so what would make YOU so special that I would want to give myself over to you?

Just a few things that came to mind.




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