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RE: is there any ranking system for subs/slaves - 4/27/2006 12:34:38 PM

SweetPosession

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Yes. There's a secret Dom club where We all meet and gossip about Our toys.

No, wait... let's play in reality-land. Everyone wants something different in a partner. For me, there are three "ranks"--"no" "maybe" and "Sign Me up!" Someone mentioned commitment. Yeah... only I don't really want that right now. Some Doms want a live-in who will do whatever S/He wants for the rest of their lives. Not me. You want to live in my house? Buy it from me. Other people really treasure honesty and someone who's "real." I don't care if a sub wants to call himself Sgt. Pepper and the Lonely Hearts Club Band. He could completely invent his identity, his background... as long as the play is safe, sane, and consentual and safer sex is in play (if applicable) we're good. I, on the other hand, adore a sub with long hair and a PA.

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RE: is there any ranking system for subs/slaves - 4/27/2006 3:14:01 PM

WikedUncle

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is there any ranking system to determine honesty/committment and submissiveness

No. (Executive Summary)

I didn't dig very deep into this thread, but what I saw as far as I went encouraged me. It seems there is always someone who will tell you that whatever fantasy you desire does exist. Congratulations to the many who have said (sometimes bluntly) that what you want doesn't exist. The only opinions that matter are those you and your partner have of one another. If you're that concerned about what other people think, you'd best sit down fast and figure out why.

Sorry, these are relationships. They are very complex relationships that demand much more of you than most vanilla ones. If you came to BDSM expecting things would be easy, that "Me Tarzan, you Jane" would cut it, and that there's a rule book for everything, you need to try another address. (There are several such fantasies available online but discretion forbids me to mention them.) If you are really motivated, have found out that what we do is a root part of your being, then keep at it, even if that means asking questions that sometimes bring out our sarcasm rather than our helping hand.

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RE: is there any ranking system for subs/slaves - 5/4/2006 4:47:12 PM

slave55555

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i agree with LindaLashes.
what is the site's address darq?

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RE: is there any ranking system for subs/slaves - 5/4/2006 9:10:10 PM

bluffsboy

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Wait a minute...you are all telling me that there's NO ranking system for subs or slaves???

Sigh. Now what am I supposed to do with this "Certification of Verified, Guaranteed, No. #1. Always-Obedient Uber-subbie Groveling Servitude and Slaveship" that I just purchased from the University of Phoenix-Online?"

Sigh.

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RE: is there any ranking system for subs/slaves - 5/6/2006 4:43:52 PM

slave55555

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Hello
I have an idea LindaLashes.
How about female-sub first, then she-males second, transsexual male-sub next, cross-dresser male-sub after and at last male-sub?

Just an idea, LOL

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RE: is there any ranking system for subs/slaves - 5/7/2006 2:32:04 PM

littlechameleon

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I'm beginning to think i've lived in a cave for the last 37 years. I had NO idea there were bdsm - M/s cults such as the ones mentioned in this thread. Yes, ranking systems would be needed in an atmosphere such as this. I got the impression though, the original thread meant is there a way to rank ONE slave...i guess in order to know if you have a diamond , a diamond in the rough or if you should just go away screaming, "i've been robbed."
This is my wee opinion, thank you for allowing me to give it.

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RE: is there any ranking system for subs/slaves - 5/7/2006 10:33:12 PM

knees2you

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Ranking System?

Like Corpral, or Lieutenit, General?

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RE: is there any ranking system for subs/slaves - 5/8/2006 5:45:06 AM

LisaRubberGirl

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You decide what is best in your own "environment" so I really do not think there is any way to make a kind of chart of slaves - and why should you. If your slaves pleases you then that is all that matters.

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RE: is there any ranking system for subs/slaves - 5/8/2006 10:47:14 AM

slave55555

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Thank you LisaRubberGirl…. I’ll focus on one thing.

I’ll please as well as I can.

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RE: is there any ranking system for subs/slaves - 5/8/2006 11:51:35 AM

understud

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i'm with you feisty.

not really believing what i'm believing i believe i'll cut and run.....respectfully of course, wouldn't want to get a black mark on my ranking...speaking of rank.......what did the Bard say about the odorous condition of Denmark...Ah yes.......

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RE: is there any ranking system for subs/slaves - 5/8/2006 7:35:02 PM

quietkitten

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a ranking system.....
I would be filed under "needs work"

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