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FamilyofM -> RE: is it weird... (9/3/2010 8:08:24 AM)

I don't want to sound like the broken record, hope the young ones know what a record is ;-) b ut I can only chime do be safe whatever you do. I would really stop and think as another poster mentioned, how you will feel in the days after. How you might inadvertently find yourself feeling toward your Master afterward. Who knows what could be going through your mind after such activity. It was also mentioned that you should be certain you can handle that mch action. 10 men, even if most are quite excited and don't have much stamina as it were, you are most likely going to experience a new level of discomfort.

I had no idea that this was a fantasy that many women had. It has never crossed my mind, but then I am somewhat touchy about the subject.

Think it through carefully, the entire fantasy, not just the fun part. Take care and be safe.



yellowroses -> RE: is it weird... (9/3/2010 8:22:05 AM)


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

If your Master's up to it, he might be able to blindfold you and simulate it. Much safer.

I knew a sub that had this same fantasy. Her Master was able to fulfill it one evening when she thought that he was away. He actually went so far as to wear something to cover his face so she really didn't know it was him until most of the "fantasy" was over. He was so good at fulfilling her fantasy that she never had to have it again that way.

kim



Twoshoes -> RE: is it weird... (9/3/2010 9:53:24 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SubPet715

I missed that part, he tends to be jealous. Then why would you want to do something that causes him grief?


Ah, well, for some jealousy can be a turn on.

Not in the "is she falling in love with that guy? Does she like him more than me?" sort of way - which involves insecurity and negative feelings. (Unless you want to be cuckolded.) But in a, "I want to attack or ravage things." sort of way.

Plus, no 2 people's sexual attraction/energy expresses itself in quite the same way and you can jealously appreciate that.

I guess it depends on the people involved.



daddysliloneds -> RE: is it weird... (9/3/2010 12:12:05 PM)


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ORIGINAL: baybeegirl

Every year, around my birthday, i want to just have this huge (like...10-15 guy) gang rape fantasy come true. i've thought about posting ads on like craigslist, and everything, but then, i never do. my Master knows that i think about this, and isn't adverse to it...

but is it weird? like...mentally insane? And would it be very stupid to go through with?

thanks for taking the time



leave it to me to go against the grain of all the advice given you thus far...

there are groups of dominants that specialize in gang rape/kidnapping; the ones that i know are in houston, texas. they are 100% in control of their self-control and safe! the gang rapes happen at one of the dominants house(after sub is kidnapped) and he's a lawyer to boot, so believe me when i tell you this, they are 100% on the up and up.

my suggestion is to get your rears to a munch and meet people within the lifestyle to see if anyone in your area specializes in gang-rape; bet you find some and also bet they come with tons of references/recommendations as to just how fun and safe living out this fantasy can be.



ResidentSadist -> RE: is it weird... (9/3/2010 12:22:45 PM)

I'm gonna' go get 10 kinds of cologne and a blindfold.  I'll fulfill her fantasy by myself.    



mstrjx -> RE: is it weird... (9/3/2010 8:19:29 PM)


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ORIGINAL: FamilyofM

I don't want to sound like the broken record, hope the young ones know what a record is ;-)

Even today's generation have probably heard what happens when a CD has a scratch, and it's results. It's pretty much the same thing.

Jeff



WinsomeDefiance -> RE: is it weird... (9/3/2010 8:25:47 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

I'm gonna' go get 10 kinds of cologne and a blindfold.  I'll fulfill her fantasy by myself.    


Don't forget the viagra



WinsomeDefiance -> RE: is it weird... (9/3/2010 8:55:11 PM)


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ORIGINAL: baybeegirl

Every year, around my birthday, i want to just have this huge (like...10-15 guy) gang rape fantasy come true....


It is a very common fantasy.

As a fantasy, it might be scorching hot to you. But, the potential safety, health risks and emotional land mines are numerous.

You mentioned that your Dominant probably won't be present, because he gets jealous. I think you should consider that going through with something knowing your Dominant has a tendency toward jealousy is taking risks with your relationship that you might regret in the long run. Are you willing to risk your current relationship over a fantasy?

Regarding the use of the word rape, and inviting strangers to 'rape' you. I know that it is common in some circles to call forceful, dominant sex 'rape'. But, sending out an all call on a site like Craigs List, and calling it a gang rape - that just seems to me to be a recipe for disaster. Especially if your Dominant isn't there.

WinD



TheSwanseaBranch -> RE: is it weird... (9/3/2010 9:48:33 PM)

"I worry that it will feel too fake if I can stop it at any time, or that if I stopped it, I'd be a tease for promising guys something I didn't ultimately deliver." - that's understandable, however if you start feeling genuinely uncomfortable or distressed, and are unable/unwilling to call a halt, it could have severe psychological consequences. The issue of safewords and whether to call a halt can be an awkward one but I do try to discourage people from the 'i don't want to be a tease' mindset. If the other person/s are decent people then they'll understand. (And if they're not it's probably healthier to avoid them anyway.) 



ResidentSadist -> RE: is it weird... (9/3/2010 10:14:08 PM)

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance
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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

I'm gonna' go get 10 kinds of cologne and a blindfold.  I'll fulfill her fantasy by myself.    


Don't forget the viagra

I won't need Viagra, you're gonna' be my fluffer right?

(your concern for the stiffness of my cock always warms my heart)



FamilyofM -> RE: is it weird... (9/4/2010 7:54:39 AM)


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ORIGINAL: mstrjx


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ORIGINAL: FamilyofM

I don't want to sound like the broken record, hope the young ones know what a record is ;-)

Even today's generation have probably heard what happens when a CD has a scratch, and it's results. It's pretty much the same thing.

Jeff


Apparently my attempt at humor did not amuse you. Just being a bit lighthearted. C'est la vie. Have a great weekend all. [:)]



SubPet715 -> RE: is it weird... (9/4/2010 9:39:45 AM)


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ORIGINAL: FamilyofM


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ORIGINAL: mstrjx


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ORIGINAL: FamilyofM

I don't want to sound like the broken record, hope the young ones know what a record is ;-)

Even today's generation have probably heard what happens when a CD has a scratch, and it's results. It's pretty much the same thing.

Jeff


Apparently my attempt at humor did not amuse you. Just being a bit lighthearted. C'est la vie. Have a great weekend all. [:)]


I just happen to own a best of the "Ink Spots" on vinyl, the little crackling you hear when playing is just wonderful.



bliss4us09 -> RE: is it weird... (9/4/2010 11:09:22 AM)

As noted, a common fantasy. But that's all it can be - a rape you volunteer for isn't rape, it's consensual group sex. Doesn't sound like that's what you're after but if it is, you might find some swinger scene that would accommodate it. If your master doesn't like the idea, though, it's hard to see how even that could happen.



D0M1NANT -> RE: is it weird... (9/4/2010 5:40:14 PM)

As stated already, safety is the message.. Once that condition is satisfied, enjoy..



SheBitchFromHell -> RE: is it weird... (9/4/2010 7:52:13 PM)

oh geesh!  just face it, you are a dirty slut.

I had a slut and she wanted a gang bang.. So I set it up and 8 guys showed out of 10 lined up.  Only 4 could get it up and 2 blew their load in a minute.  So now we have 2 guy's.  Of the 2 guys left, one could only say to her how beautiful she was.  So she says to me"tell him to say I am a dirty fucking whore slut"

All of them wore condoms. 

None of them were worth a shit. I had to take her home and fuck the shit out of her all night long with every toy I own and my fist to cool that slut down.  Next gang bang I line up, it will be 20 strangers.



AnimusRex -> RE: is it weird... (9/4/2010 10:15:19 PM)

So I suppose it falls to me to be the contrary voice here.

Has anyone here ever taken part in a gang bang/ bukkakke/ orgy scene?

If you are working with people who are experienced in the swing scene, it is actually fairly tame and safe. My experience dates back almost a decade, but the basic dynamics are this:

The men know that they are chaff, disposal chattel that are lucky to be there at all, and the girl is the queen bee, the flower around whom they all buzz hoping to deposit their nectar....eh, well, work out that metaphor yourself. So they tend to be meek and obedient, terrified of getting the boot out the door.

Either way, if there is a Master organizing the thing, he can act to keep anyone in line- as SheBitchFromHell noted (cool nick by the way!) the biggest problem is actually getting men who are able to perform in front of others- guys tend to get weird about that, or go limp. The other problem is getting them to not want to be your boyfriend for the night.

No, I wouldn't just put an ad on Craigslist, but go to a swing party and chat up some of the regulars, if you really want to make it happen. Condoms for penetration, money shots to the outside, and all that. You could probably even have the party on the premises of the club- at most parties there is usually one girl who is into taking on multiple guys.

Bottom line, your fantasy is among the more common ones, and there are entire clubs organized around sex parties- just work your way into it, and get a circle of guys you and Master can trust.

Dunno why it only happens around your birthday though- someone else can help you with that.



Twoshoes -> RE: is it weird... (9/4/2010 11:15:55 PM)

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ORIGINAL: AnimusRex

So they tend to be meek and obedient, terrified of getting the boot out the door.


Yes, I think being unimportant is a Hard Limit for me!



daddysprop247 -> RE: is it weird... (9/5/2010 2:42:24 PM)

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ORIGINAL: AnimusRex

So I suppose it falls to me to be the contrary voice here.

Has anyone here ever taken part in a gang bang/ bukkakke/ orgy scene?

If you are working with people who are experienced in the swing scene, it is actually fairly tame and safe. My experience dates back almost a decade, but the basic dynamics are this:

The men know that they are chaff, disposal chattel that are lucky to be there at all, and the girl is the queen bee, the flower around whom they all buzz hoping to deposit their nectar....eh, well, work out that metaphor yourself. So they tend to be meek and obedient, terrified of getting the boot out the door.




since being a slave i have been gangbanged several times, all organized by my Master. the dynamics were nothing like you describe however. i was certainly not treated like a prize or "queen bee," more like a vessel to be used for their pleasure and perverse delight. the other men were in no way submissive, the very idea of such a scenario (being used by meek and cowing men) really squicks me out actually. they were respectful of my Master, mindful of the fact that they were chosen by him and he could pull the plug at any moment. but he also always makes it clear to others who use my body that i am a servant, a tool for pleasure, and that i am to be treated as such. He lets them know whatever rules and boundaries he has set out (not me, that part is none of my business), and also that i am to be obedient to them. if i am not, or if i simply fall short in serving properly, he lets them know that it is perfectly acceptable for them to correct me verbally as well as physically.

so yes, my gangbang differences have been a bit different, probably closer actually to some folks' idea of rape as the purpose is use and degradation only, not my pleasure or even comfort.

then again, we are not swingers.



Silentrunner26 -> RE: is it weird... (9/13/2010 1:35:24 AM)

Some things are best left a fantasy and never tried .



DommeJennice -> RE: is it weird... (9/13/2010 7:00:22 PM)

Gang rape fantasies are real just like most any other fantasy.  Hopefully, that is all it is.  More than one friend of mine has mentioned this fantasy to me.
When I was in a Dungeon once, I observed an open gang rape scene.   It got out of control.   It almost made me physically sick.  I had to leave the room, and needless to say, I never went back.   
The Domme in charge lost control over the male Dominants there, and it was unbelievable.  You deserve better.
Here is some simple advice you may wish to consider.
Get away from where this fantasy is coming from.  If it is from the net, books, etc., just get away from it for a while. 
It is a very dangerous situation especially when it gets out of control like it did in my case.  I had to leave the room.   I could not stand to see the way three Doms were treating a poor sub.
 
Regards,
 
DommeJennice



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