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tmorrowdawn -> When blocking isn't enough (9/5/2010 6:01:46 PM)
I blocked someone after receiving a rude email from them. They created another profile, just to send me an email that was even more rude, including some pictures of animal abuse that is against the TOS here on CM. I blocked that email, and received yet ANOTHER email from another profile from the same person that was just as rude as the first two. What am I supposed to do? Go into hiding? I'm here to learn from the boards, but I also keep my profile public so that locals can contact me. I'm a member of Fetlife as well, and have made a few contacts for the local TNG group here in Orlando, but beyond that I haven't been able to talk to anyone interesting so that I'd feel better about hiding my profile here. I did report the emails, I reported the vulgar, illegal pictures, but I don't feel like playing Russian Roulette with my inbox.

bellesoumise -> RE: When blocking isn't enough (9/5/2010 6:05:14 PM)
I would just keep on blocking. I've had a person do the same thing to me, I just continued to block him. quote: What am I supposed to do? Go into hiding? I would never hide! I'm a Uber Switch. We don't hide!

WyldHrt -> RE: When blocking isn't enough (9/5/2010 6:05:58 PM)
Have you contacted support? There is a link at the bottom of your homepage, or just go here: http://www.collarme.com/support.asp?bhcp=1

angelikaJ -> RE: When blocking isn't enough (9/5/2010 6:16:06 PM)
Contact support and explain you are being harrassed by this person. Did you save the emails.

tmorrowdawn -> RE: When blocking isn't enough (9/5/2010 6:21:20 PM)
lol at AR. I do still have the emails. I'm checking out that link right now. Thanks for the help guys.

ModTwentyOne -> RE: When blocking isn't enough (9/5/2010 7:21:33 PM)
There is a new feature in your inbox, where you can hover over a message and see the first few lines or first paragraph (depending on how they typed it). Feel free to delete a message unread and block the user, if it is an inappropriate message. Please do not send retaliatory messages, as it will start a never-ending cycle.

femasoslave -> RE: When blocking isn't enough (9/5/2010 7:27:31 PM)
I you can't do anything about it....change your name and tell your friends what your new name is.

juliaoceania -> RE: When blocking isn't enough (9/5/2010 8:12:51 PM)
I had someone do something like that once. I decided to write them really weird emails to see how long it took for them to get creeped out by me... it took only 5 emails....lol

DomMeinCT -> RE: When blocking isn't enough (9/5/2010 8:17:08 PM)
You've gotten good advice so far, and may I suggest that you don't continue to also post about other websites to which you belong, else your problem person reads this post and follows you to other sites? Why post even more disclosive info here? It's going to invite more problems from that guy.

dcnovice -> RE: When blocking isn't enough (9/5/2010 8:22:38 PM)
quote: There is a new feature in your inbox, where you can hover over a message and see the first few lines or first paragraph (depending on how they typed it). Way cool! Thanks, CM.

KatyLied -> RE: When blocking isn't enough (9/6/2010 6:24:11 AM)
You can ignore people, it often works as they grow tired of getting no responses.

maybemaybenot -> RE: When blocking isn't enough (9/6/2010 6:43:08 AM)
FR: What's the big deal here ? Don't open the CMmails and delete them as unread. The sender will either give up or keep wasting his/her time. Why block them if they are gong to keep re creating themselves, at least now you know who the sender is and you know you don't want to read their CMmails. I'm sure you get junk email in your regular email and junk mail in your home email. Do you get stresssed out over that ? Probably not. No difference here, really. mbmbn

asilentscream -> RE: When blocking isn't enough (9/6/2010 9:53:41 AM)
I wish people would send me rude, sexually explicit, demanding, disrespectful,and unsolicitied emails. I'm going to go and pout.

realtime62 -> RE: When blocking isn't enough (9/7/2010 6:01:41 PM)
Only advice is don't reply to the emails AT ALL. They've proven that they don't care that you don't want them to send these letters, so at this point even negative attention still counts as attention, and thus will encourage. Don't send an angry message, a pitying message, a pleading message, a reasonable message, nothing.

smartsub10 -> RE: When blocking isn't enough (9/7/2010 7:53:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ModTwentyOne There is a new feature in your inbox, where you can hover over a message and see the first few lines or first paragraph (depending on how they typed it). Feel free to delete a message unread and block the user, if it is an inappropriate message. Please do not send retaliatory messages, as it will start a never-ending cycle. I love this feature. I have been cyber-stalked by someone for a few months. He would do what the OPs stalker did. Kept deleting his profile after I blocked him and create another. He has a unique style of writing so now if he writes me again I would recognize his style and delete the message. It's been a while since I heard from him but now I'm ready. M21 is right about not writing anything retaliatory. These creeps want a reaction and if they don't get it they eventually go away. Unfortunately, its usually later rather than sooner because they're morons. [;)]

SubPet715 -> RE: When blocking isn't enough (9/7/2010 8:28:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: realtime62 Only advice is don't reply to the emails AT ALL. They've proven that they don't care that you don't want them to send these letters, so at this point even negative attention still counts as attention, and thus will encourage. Don't send an angry message, a pitying message, a pleading message, a reasonable message, nothing. Sometimes it isn't even that, they see when you have opened a mail. I have a stalker here and that is what she does, she says she knows when I open the mail and demands I talk to her etc. Just ignore it, hover over it and move on from that ordeal. My stalker basically does not take no for an answer, it happens, just deal as best you can.

angelikaJ -> RE: When blocking isn't enough (9/8/2010 2:15:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SubPet715 quote: ORIGINAL: realtime62 Only advice is don't reply to the emails AT ALL. They've proven that they don't care that you don't want them to send these letters, so at this point even negative attention still counts as attention, and thus will encourage. Don't send an angry message, a pitying message, a pleading message, a reasonable message, nothing. Sometimes it isn't even that, they see when you have opened a mail. I have a stalker here and that is what she does, she says she knows when I open the mail and demands I talk to her etc. Just ignore it, hover over it and move on from that ordeal. My stalker basically does not take no for an answer, it happens, just deal as best you can. IF you are the type of person who absolutely HAS TO KNOW what they said then click the option to save the mail. The mail will be forwarded to your private mail registered with cm. You can then read it there and still delete it here unread.

lilone66 -> RE: When blocking isn't enough (10/16/2010 8:50:31 PM)
Wow I had the same problem. Just not the dirty pictures. I wonder if we are all talking about the same person. I just starting ignoring him. I eventually had to block and he isn't bothering me anymore

Daddysredhead -> RE: When blocking isn't enough (10/17/2010 4:49:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dcnovice quote: There is a new feature in your inbox, where you can hover over a message and see the first few lines or first paragraph (depending on how they typed it). Way cool! Thanks, CM. I agree! I love this feature!

SorceressJ -> RE: When blocking isn't enough (10/17/2010 4:55:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead quote: ORIGINAL: dcnovice quote: There is a new feature in your inbox, where you can hover over a message and see the first few lines or first paragraph (depending on how they typed it). Way cool! Thanks, CM. I agree! I love this feature! Me too, definitely; terribly useful, that. I also like jellie's suggestion, about forwarding the message to your external email so you can go see what the whole thing said if you really must, then delete it unread from your cmail box, and the stalker-type retains no clue.

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