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RE: -=Arrrrrrrrrrrg - pubic hair???=- - 10/10/2010 6:52:57 AM   
Kreevillicious


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Status: offline 		This...Well done LaT. It also makes a woman look like a plucked chicken. Not attractive. Not attractive at all.

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RE: -=Arrrrrrrrrrrg - pubic hair???=- - 10/10/2010 8:16:10 AM   
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If a woman wants to grow her pubes, its her choice...


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RE: -=Arrrrrrrrrrrg - pubic hair???=- - 10/10/2010 8:19:59 AM   
agirl


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Status: offline 		So much defensiveness.  Seriously.....if you like a smooth, shaven cunt..or you're in a relationship with someone that requires it...great.

If you like that part of your body hair to grow, great too.

Isn't it quite a simple thing?....... Some people won't find our choices an attractive proposition.......and some of us aren't bothered hugely one way or the other.

If I want a guy that is turned off by a smooth cunt to be attracted to me then I can grow my hair there..or I can grow it if necessary, in reverse.

If it matters SO much to me to have hair or NOT have hair then I'm likely only going to end up with the guys that suit that.

Of course it's natural to have hair growing in all sorts of places, we ALL know that....but we DO pick and choose which bits we prefer to keep.

Plucked chickens and hairy orangutans..... God, can't we all just grow up a bit?

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RE: -=Arrrrrrrrrrrg - pubic hair???=- - 10/10/2010 10:34:51 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

I don't dislike public hair, I hate it. It is forbidden in my house. 
Is pubic hair allowed in your house? 
Can anyone explain the appeal? 
...I understand some people like hairy legs & pits.  Hell, what's next, women with beards?


Imagine, you haven't seen 2 of your fav ex-slaves for a few years and now they are both in your bed waiting underneath the covers.  We are aren't talking your average slave.  This is top-shelf pussy, thoroughbreds, sexual athletes, BJ queens with flower petal pussies you can pound for hours!  I was excited, I ripped back the covers and low and behold, one of them has a big, hairy, scary bush.  I was stunned.  I wanted to weed through her pubes and look for bugs or get some rubber bands and make braids.  I was taken by surprise so badly, I wouldn't fuck'em.  I felt like I would be fucking ZZ Top in the mouth or something.





I have quoted the initial post because further posts from the op or inconsistent with what he is saying here.

In response to this, the original post, boy you've got a problem!
If its not what you want then do something about it. You do claim to be a dominant don't you? and if those girls are submissive to you, then I'm sure they would of complied if you had bothered to ask them.

The issue of hair or no hair will always be one of personal preference and is not dictated by the lifestyle. The issue of cleanliness and smell, assuming that everything is healthy, is again a matter of personal preference. The smell of a cunt (I think) is great and I don't want it disguised with perfume.

Sex is a dirty, wet, slippery, aromatic thing but for you I strongly suspect that 'sex' is just unclean.


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RE: -=Arrrrrrrrrrrg - pubic hair???=- - 10/10/2010 10:49:52 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

There is something really wonderful about being accepted as a woman

This jumped out at me. Is your idea of your own womanhood really so tied up in that bit of hair? I can't say that what's going on style-wise down there has ever really had any bearing on whether or not I personally feel accepted as a woman.


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RE: -=Arrrrrrrrrrrg - pubic hair???=- - 10/10/2010 11:16:58 AM   
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ORIGINAL: agirl

God, can't we all just grow up a bit?



That’s almost as hysterical as this thread! Can’t you see the humor in these posts? From big hairy scary bushes, to braiding, to weed whackers, to orangutans, to plucked old boiler hens, to bald balls and delousing, to the jungle (I guess that’s where the orangutans play), to landing strips, mile high clubs, and jumbo jets, to yetis, to flossing teeth, to graphic visuals, to mature women and prepubescent girls, to natural v. artificial, to razor bumps and conditioner, to free-range bush (another orangutan playground), to porn stars & strippers, to hedges, to small nubbins peeking through overgrowth, to perverted pirates, to pheromones, to anal bleaching, to cavemen and fig leaves, to circumcision, to germaphobia, to ZZ Top… and the cycle goes on.

I think it’s a given that to shave or not to shave is a personal choice. No one is mandating that strangers on a message board do it “my way, or the highway.” Shaving, or not, is optional. So is having a sense of humor. Rumor has it there’s a half-price sale on them over in P&RS!

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RE: -=Arrrrrrrrrrrg - pubic hair???=- - 10/10/2010 11:26:48 AM   
OrionTheWolf


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Status: offline 		Simply the best answer in this short quote.

I cannot understand why the opinions on preference have to be laced with derogatory comments about those that have a different opinion. Even those that have commented about how funny it is that people are so emotional and such about this issue, lace their posts with little jabs.

Guess I forgot how CM forums could be.

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ORIGINAL: agirl

So much defensiveness.  Seriously.....if you like a smooth, shaven cunt..or you're in a relationship with someone that requires it...great.

If you like that part of your body hair to grow, great too.






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RE: -=Arrrrrrrrrrrg - pubic hair???=- - 10/10/2010 12:39:20 PM   
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This is like a fat thread.  "If you are not what I like, you are not worthy!"

If ya dont like fuzzy wimmens, dont be around them.  If ya do, snuggle up to that bush and let it tickle your nose.  If ya dont wanna have hairs tickling ya nose when you deepthroat him, get with someone who "manscapes"

Gawd almighty, there is so much involved to having a good healthy relationship, I can not believe someone would let this be a deal breaker.

"oh man I met this girl at the yoga class.  She is absolutely the most awesome human being, beautiful inside and out, she and I share so many common interests and kinks, and we both agree that we need time to do our own thing too.  She works and has her own money, owns a boat that will work wonderfully with my skis at the lake, and she is not allergic to the cats I have.  She also does not mind the fact that I have the kids every weekend, and she cooks italian food just like my momma did!  I think this weekend we may dew the nasty thing too....I am sure it will be as magical as our weeks of dating and talking on the phone have been.  I really think she may be a person I could spend a long time with, if not forever.""

fast forward...."Well, that stupid bitch had pubic hair and said she refused to shave them because it makes her break out with red bumps and she itches for days afterwards and it makes her feel like she looks like a kid.  Fuck that ignorant bitch, she is a loser anyhow!"

Right...



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RE: -=Arrrrrrrrrrrg - pubic hair???=- - 10/10/2010 1:07:05 PM   
Toppingfrmbottom


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Status: offline 		Because honestly, I don't primp and preen, or style my hair or wear make up,  I believe in honest about looking the way I do, and not mis representing myself by trying to look ways I don't with make up.  and I am as close to natural as is possible. I don't wax or pluck or shave or perfume. I do bathe, and I do wipe my ass, and I do wear clothing, but that's only because it's illegal to go out butt naked, and I don't care to go out and get arrested and fined.

But I do believe, that there's nothing wrong with body hair. So there's no shame in it, or need to cut it off.

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

I might believe you're into caveman sex and want to grow your pubes long enough to braid them.  
I might believe that your man wants to weed through fishy urine stained hair before he gets laid.
I might even accept that you have issues or hate pussy and don't want to groom it like the rest of your body.  
But I will never believe the hypocritical statement that women do it because it's "natural".

One of the most hypocritical things I have seen was a pair of women with silicone titties, shaved legs & pits, hair styled & tinted, eyebrows plucked, teeth whitened, forearms bleached, ass waxed, fake nails and wearing makeup . . . and they told me they didn't shave their monkey cunts because they wanted to be "natural".  Unless you forgo all that grooming and run around nekked in a fig leaf, you aren't even close to being natural . . . why would you leave just your pussy un-groomed?



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RE: -=Arrrrrrrrrrrg - pubic hair???=- - 10/11/2010 12:05:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

There is something really wonderful about being accepted as a woman

This jumped out at me. Is your idea of your own womanhood really so tied up in that bit of hair? I can't say that what's going on style-wise down there has ever really had any bearing on whether or not I personally feel accepted as a woman.



My idea of belonging is about people being accepted AS THEY ARE rather than being expected to DO a bunch of things in order to be accepted.  Being accepted as a person without having to prove anything or EARN it is what I think should be the norm.

Unconditional love and acceptance is more than a concept.  It's a shame more people don't know about it.

best,
sunshine


I'm adding the relevant point from above:

quote:

"oh man I met this girl at the yoga class.  She is absolutely the most awesome human being, beautiful inside and out, she and I share so many common interests and kinks, and we both agree that we need time to do our own thing too.  She works and has her own money, owns a boat that will work wonderfully with my skis at the lake, and she is not allergic to the cats I have.  She also does not mind the fact that I have the kids every weekend, and she cooks italian food just like my momma did!  I think this weekend we may dew the nasty thing too....I am sure it will be as magical as our weeks of dating and talking on the phone have been.  I really think she may be a person I could spend a long time with, if not forever.""

fast forward...."Well, that stupid bitch had pubic hair and said she refused to shave them because it makes her break out with red bumps and she itches for days afterwards and it makes her feel like she looks like a kid.  Fuck that ignorant bitch, she is a loser anyhow!"

Right...




JAS - you hit the nail on the head.

< Message edited by sunshinemiss -- 10/11/2010 12:21:14 AM >

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RE: -=Arrrrrrrrrrrg - pubic hair???=- - 10/11/2010 6:24:03 AM   
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RE: -=Arrrrrrrrrrrg - pubic hair???=- - 10/11/2010 6:43:15 AM   
barelynangel


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Status: offline 		Oh sure let's get involve with someone and have a relationship with someone when we know that something they do grosses us out.  Oh but wait, we are compatible on every other concept.  Come on folks, we all know that isn't reality. 

If there is something about the person that grosses you out -- i am not just talking about some little thing but some big thing that literally grosses you out.

That is what we are talking about here.   We also aren't talking about a relationship that has been in the works for years as a live in.  Its like talking to someone online finding out all this stuff about them and then meeting them and you realize that because of their smell you aren't compatible chemistryly or on a sexual level.

It sounds to me like the OP of all this was in this relationship on a purely sexual concept so yeah, if something turns him off why the hell would he stick around and force himself to have sex with her? 

Yeah that can be a BIG HUGE turn off and irritate the hell out of someone.  From what i see people are saying he should have just ignored the hell that this concept from her completely turned him off and he should have fucked her anyway.  COME ON.  This is reality people, not fantasy online.   You can't just conveniently turn off the monitor and make your own imagination while you talk sex to someone you don't see, this is actual touching, feeling and tasting.  And where she had the hair is a HUGE part of the sex.  If his face hair bothered her than she had just as much right to say no way unless you shave. 

If you go through with a purely sexual encounter when you aren't turned on because of something about that person than to me you are making a lie of the whole situation and that isn't fair to the person or you.  But it seems that is what people are advocating.  Ohhh it turns you off but just deal dude and fuck her anyway cause well gee you don't wanna hurt her feelin's, so just fuck her. 

Yeah that would make her feel good if she found out a pity fuck even though he wasn't turned on by her at all because that aspect of her grossed him out.

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RE: -=Arrrrrrrrrrrg - pubic hair???=- - 10/11/2010 9:59:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		really enjoy this post. I dislike unkept pubes a little fur is ok but the 70s porn bush is a no go at this station soldier. If I wanted to floss I can do that without help. And it just looks sexy. I keep myself shaven or trimmed down there even when I am not in a relationship and consider it just a part of natural grooming not much more thought than brushing and bathing.

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RE: -=Arrrrrrrrrrrg - pubic hair???=- - 10/11/2010 6:25:44 PM   
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If I asked you reall nicely, would you mow your lady-lawn?


Hi ML,
I know you said this rather tongue-in-cheek, but I'm going to answer you seriously.  In a word, yes.  Heck, you probably wouldn't have to ask... just mention that it's what you prefer.  Here's why:  I know that you accept me.  I know you like me for who I am and you enjoy my company.  I want to make you happy.  If we were in that type of relationship, I would certainly do it.  *Although frankly I'd probably wax... might even ask you if you'd do the waxing..... ooooooooooo...*

I don't have the physical response to shaving other women have, I just don't like how it looks.  I don't currently have a sweetie, so it is not a concern.  Making a sweetie happy would outweigh my squickiness I expect.  Hmmm... perhaps we ought experiment?

best,
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RE: -=Arrrrrrrrrrrg - pubic hair???=- - 10/12/2010 12:47:30 AM   
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RE: -=Arrrrrrrrrrrg - pubic hair???=- - 10/12/2010 4:18:20 AM   
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I have to agree. I find bald pussies to look prepubescent and icky. I like trimmed and I do shave the lower part but on top I have hair. I am a 44 year old woman and I like to look like one.


Yes; YES; oh God, YEEEEESSSSSS!!!!!!

It really is that simple to me, too....

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RE: -=Arrrrrrrrrrrg - pubic hair???=- - 10/12/2010 8:43:25 AM   
sofldan


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Status: offline 		well as it has been said over and over in the thread. People have their personal preferance just like anything else in life. Some people like yellow cars some don't. Personally I had an experience when I was in the army that shocked me, and that's a difficult feat since I grew up in key west. But it was when I was in a school it had been months since I even had a sniff of getting close to seeing a woman naked or having sex. We were finally getting weekend liberty and there was this beautiful woman I had chatted to a few times when we were at the chow hall. So I asked her out to dinner and to a hotel after, we both knew what we wanted and wasted no time getting there.

Fast forward to the hotel and we are making out, stripping each other down. I get the bra off spend some time playing, stroking, teasing her perfect breasts. And start working my was down south of the border, kissing her inner theighs and teasing before I pull the panties down. And the magical moment unfolded and I pulled those sexy baby blue panties down and saw bob marley?!?

while it at the time was not a show stopper it was not sexy at all and I didn't ask her out again, while she may have been In the top 3 most sexy and beautiful women I have been with in my life and to this day some 18 years or so later. This woman with a models body. It just put me off so bad that mountain of pubic hair that could have been made into dredlocks.

but this again all comes to preference. I have had buddies tell me they would have loved that. That they would have buried their face in it and smell the natural musky scent.




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RE: -=Arrrrrrrrrrrg - pubic hair???=- - 10/12/2010 9:34:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		Agreeing with some disagreeing with some, that's how it rolls. It's a personal preference without judicial remarks, but there will always be the ones, who think and assume, it's only their way. Thankfully there is no law for it, or against it It's a preference. What I don't agree on in any instance is the relation to puberty. I am a woman, with hair or without hair, I am a woman, it ends there. If I ever had a partner who related anything about me as prepuberty he would be bashed to the fucking moon.

If the person your with has alopecia and can't grow hair would you consider them in puberty, or they're undergoing chemo, or are there rules on when its acceptable and when its not?

I think it's perfectly acceptable to have it or not, depending on what you like and your partner likes, and to knock the ones who do or dont is okay too, but relating someone to be less then an adult because of pubic hair is just - gagging-ly grosteque to me. Some people like blondes and some don't, some call blondes stupid and this blonde knows otherwise. I've never had a partner, or play partner complain about my hair or lack of hair and luckily for them, they never have related me to anything other then the woman I am.

And that is my opinion, all woman with it, and without it.



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RE: -=Arrrrrrrrrrrg - pubic hair???=- - 10/13/2010 3:10:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		Started waxing because I was shaved completely one day while restrained. It was such a turn-on. Now the waxing has proven to be equally exciting... and my pleasure given the aweful experience of getting aa mouth full of pubes!

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RE: -=Arrrrrrrrrrrg - pubic hair???=- - 10/15/2010 2:22:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think the ladies preferences change in this matter with age. Wait until the fisrt gray pube is found and they will all be gone for good. Lol

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