LaTigresse
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I was thinking more about this last night. Generic Dude has been away since Friday morning. My grandsons had motocross yesterday. My son is in Peru for work until the first of December. That left me and my son's girlfriend to transport bikes and assist, along with my grand's mother and her husband. (The bikes and gear are stored here) GD was feeling guilty about having to miss it and called last night to see how everything went. After we discussed the fabulousness of the grands and how well they did, he asked me if they did anything special at the track. I was dense as a post and had zero clue what he was talking about. "Why would they do anything special? For what?" As soon as I posted what I did on here yesterday morning, I forgot all about the whole '9/11' thing and went on about my day. Obviously there was nothing noticable at the race complex....at least not to me. He and I then started talking about that day and the events that followed. I realized that the day itself, that day, had very little impact on me. But it was a huge trigger in my life, in the lives of so many people I know and many I love. I had forgotten the discussion that evening between GD and I. He was still military then and he has always been a huge student of politics and history. We had always said that it was surprising the US had never had a major terrorist attack and that it really was inevitable. So our discussion was a lot of "Well, it finally happened..." And him asking me if I realized what it was going to mean for him, the family, and for many of the people in our lives. He knew they would have to go overseas again and that it wasn't going to be anything like Desert Shield. 9/11 was a trigger point for me and many of the people in my life. It was the only time in a 20+ year career that GD saw active combat. Similarly with many military friends and family. Yet, it was also the first deployment that I could communicate with him, almost daily, via the net. There were so many major changes in my life, that followed that, I cannot even remember them all to write them. Political views that changed, life philosophies, family dynamics, relationship dynamics. So yeah, while the day itself didn't seem to have a big impact at first glance.........it really did have a much more long term impact for a lot of people in my life. I just really wish, of all things, the military actions that followed had been marketed differently. Less focus on the religioun of the terrorists and more focus on the terrorist acts and how to stop them.
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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one! Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!
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