AquaticSub
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ORIGINAL: anniezz338 When I please a Dom and he truly enjoys me, it makes me really happy and I let him know I am glad. But is it seen as gratitude? Is gratitude something that can come in different vocal terms or should it be more formal, more somehow like being told how grateful I am he used me for his pleasure. Should gratitude be more literal? Thanks in advance :) I rarely find that the word "should" has a place in talking about relationships. Granted, it does happen but not nearly as often as "do what pleases you". I, personally, need verbal gratitude. That doesn't mean people "should" give it. Just that the owners involved with me need to know that I thrive best on being clearly appreciated. Other subs/slaves/pets/etc. have different needs and different desires.
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