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RE: Good Evening. - 10/12/2010 10:47:32 PM

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Thank you for the reception.

My online demeanor is probably going to affront many people here. As of this moment, I'm not seeking to offend, or sound arrogant, or to arrouse any negative reaction. I simply lack the energy or the willpower to answer with all smiles and giggles when I have no idea what someone is saying, when I don't quite agree with someone, or when I should clarify an issue. I've been through a lot of that today, and I would appreciate it if people would for once realize that I don't wish to be a positive or negative personality. I merely wish to be blunt right now, and if that upsets someone, I'm sorry. Please come back when I'm not so tired.

I am extending courtesy towards others, even if I'm not extending all possible courtesy. I have yet to swear, I have not insulted anyone's character, appearance, relatives, or anything else. I had a misunderstanding with a fellow who was posting very random and odd things, which I took to be a deliberate spam message that would have better off been posted elsewhere. If I have no control over this thread, then people can do what they'd like for all I care. If I don't extend the effort to be as polite as I usually am, you can rest assured I won't have the energy to oppose anyone if they should treat me with disrespect.

I understand what you say is not meant to offend. Neither is what I say. I can't be serious all the time, I know, but neither can I always be completely carefree and continously amusing. I'm not trying to be mean, I simply don't want to expend the energy to "lighten up" right now. I hardly even grasp the idea of what this means at this point in time.

I am somewhat irritated that so many people are finding fault with me for not being so incredibly cheerful. I also find it ironic that people are trying to tell me that I should either become bright and happy, or else be fed to a pack of wolves for not finding more reasons to be appreciative. I did already apologize for misunderstanding the random humor that began this long thread, didn't I? If anyone missed that, then yes, I AM SORRY FOR MISENTERPRETING YOUR INTENTIONS, DMFPARADOX, PLEASE FORGIVE ME FOR MY INCORRECT ASSUMPTIONS.

If anyone has any problems with me after this, then please tell me what your problem is. Perhaps I can fix it for you.

Thank you for your post, and take care as well.

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RE: Good Evening. - 10/12/2010 11:06:48 PM

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so what is going on that is so severe in your life, that while coming to an adult message board and posting on it that you cannot find the "strength" to craxk a smile? Because let me tell you I have enough to make baby jesus cry. I got sories. But I come here have fun and escape. Like I said very tongue in cheekly that you're apparent demeanor and cries of I'm not a happy person right now stink. So maybe your timing was wrong, but you said you're unhappy everyday. So why so serious? What is so bad? Trust me you'll see sob stories but people here will give good advice and listen. So step back, breathe, and lets hear it.

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RE: Good Evening. - 10/12/2010 11:13:07 PM

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Don't get me wrong. I'm not hurting, I'm not depressed. I've just smiled too much today, and my cheeks are hurting, so please don't mind me if I don't crack a smile.

And like I said, sometimes I will come off as being humorless, because I don't get sarcasm and randomness. Reguardless of whether you think it's funny or not, it's likely that I don't, not because I'm a stick in the mud, but because it's simply not suited to my taste. If you want to take it in a bad way, then go ahead, I can't stop you. Just don't give me a whole lot of grief because I'm not all fun and smiles.

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RE: Good Evening. - 10/13/2010 3:01:33 AM

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Wow. Welcome to CM and the boards. Good luck in your search.

it's just easier this way.

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RE: Good Evening. - 10/13/2010 3:56:12 AM

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Hello Neo, and welcome.
Good luck in your search.

There is a wonderful, wonderful scene in the movie Unfaithful. It was suggested by the main actor, Olivier Martinez. He shows Diane Lane a cook book in Braille.

Now, let's take a moment and talk about Olivier Martinez. He's a man's man and also a woman's man. He's a former boxer in real life. He's French. He's of Spanish ancestry. He speaks excellent English. He is as fine as a man can possibly be (and let's face it... he dated Kylie Minogue for some time, and she's no slouch). To put it simply, Olivier Martinez is swoony even if he's just reading a phone book. (There's a point. I swear).

Anyway, the movie. He understands women as Frenchmen are rumored to do. He convinces the director to have the scene re-written for him to tell her what the cookbook says. The quote: My mother makes me chicken. Her chicken makes me cough. I wish that when she cooked it, she took the feathers off." Diane Lane giggles at this.

Good movie.

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RE: Good Evening. - 10/13/2010 4:09:28 AM

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Anser: The sort who doesn't have any slaves in the first place.

This is seriously a last resort for me. I've had one online relationship, and otherwise I have had no luck with women, submissive or otherwise. I suppose I might be too picky for my own good, .....

No, it could be your "dry" as a desert sense of humor. Seriously, kid, lighten up. (And Justin Bieber called. he wants his hair back.)

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Your tone and online demeanor this far suggests stickupassonemia, a serious but treatable condition.

sofldan FTW

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RE: Good Evening. - 10/13/2010 6:43:40 AM

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Tell Justin Bieber that Peter Noone let me borrow it. If he should ask for his hair back after that, I'll give it to back to Peter, and Justin can ask to borrow it from him again.

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RE: Good Evening. - 10/13/2010 2:30:59 PM

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ORIGINAL: DaegonNeo

Thank you for the reception.

My online demeanor is probably going to affront many people here. As of this moment, I'm not seeking to offend, or sound arrogant, or to arrouse any negative reaction. I simply lack the energy or the willpower to answer with all smiles and giggles when I have no idea what someone is saying, when I don't quite agree with someone, or when I should clarify an issue. I've been through a lot of that today, and I would appreciate it if people would for once realize that I don't wish to be a positive or negative personality. I merely wish to be blunt right now, and if that upsets someone, I'm sorry. Please come back when I'm not so tired.

I am extending courtesy towards others, even if I'm not extending all possible courtesy. I have yet to swear, I have not insulted anyone's character, appearance, relatives, or anything else. I had a misunderstanding with a fellow who was posting very random and odd things, which I took to be a deliberate spam message that would have better off been posted elsewhere. If I have no control over this thread, then people can do what they'd like for all I care. If I don't extend the effort to be as polite as I usually am, you can rest assured I won't have the energy to oppose anyone if they should treat me with disrespect.

I understand what you say is not meant to offend. Neither is what I say. I can't be serious all the time, I know, but neither can I always be completely carefree and continously amusing. I'm not trying to be mean, I simply don't want to expend the energy to "lighten up" right now. I hardly even grasp the idea of what this means at this point in time.

I am somewhat irritated that so many people are finding fault with me for not being so incredibly cheerful. I also find it ironic that people are trying to tell me that I should either become bright and happy, or else be fed to a pack of wolves for not finding more reasons to be appreciative. I did already apologize for misunderstanding the random humor that began this long thread, didn't I? If anyone missed that, then yes, I AM SORRY FOR MISENTERPRETING YOUR INTENTIONS, DMFPARADOX, PLEASE FORGIVE ME FOR MY INCORRECT ASSUMPTIONS.

If anyone has any problems with me after this, then please tell me what your problem is. Perhaps I can fix it for you.

Thank you for your post, and take care as well.

Showing appropriate deference and respect is something that evidently you disregard. Further in your inexperience you have apparently resorted to misunderstanding the power in being respectful. Cheerfulness has zero to do with showing appropriate deference and respect.

One day perhaps as you venture down the road to manhood you will hopefully discover that you are not the one and only to have your one and only way in doing all you do. Manhood demands far much more indeed. Instead other men who have ventured down the road to manhood have a bit to offer to those who are receptive. Note receptive is the key, not cheerfulness.

Good luck in your search for this submissive girl you seek. Hopefully you will learn much from her as you attempt to rule her with your apparent inexperienced iron fist, aye!

Be well, Lad!

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RE: Good Evening. - 10/13/2010 4:13:05 PM

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Hmmm... so you came here to introduce yourself knowing full well you didn't want to be pleasant. Where *I* come from, we believe that first impressions are pretty important. The first four minutes, and all that. Perhaps they do things differently elsewhere.

Neo (perfect name by the way), you insult us by putting yourself out here knowing full well you don't want to be pleasant. It's like going to a party and snapping at everybody who is there to have a good time and then getting nasty because people tell you to have a good time, dance a little, grab a slize of pizza. You don't want to be at the party and be a decent guest? That's fine. You will find you won't be well received. Your choice.

By the way, your demanding attitude. Not gonna go over well.

best,
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RE: Good Evening. - 10/13/2010 4:18:05 PM

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Actually, I do have a bullwhip, which I occasionally use around my place

A bullwhip is actually not really intended to fight of cobwebs at your place

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RE: Good Evening. - 10/13/2010 5:29:32 PM

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DaegonNeo:

Why do you care what people on the internet think about you?

Serious question. If you answer, please try to avoid using big words. They only help people hide from truths about themselves.

I don't give a flying fuck what anyone about here thinks about me. And, oddly enough, people don't give me shit when I post. You might consider causes and effects here. You brought this thread upon yourself by requesting a group of sadists to tease you.

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RE: Good Evening. - 10/13/2010 5:59:32 PM

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I am who I am and I do not change.

Neo,

This is a terrible attitude. And I'll tell you why. ( I know you think saying you are uncompromising because you believe it shows strength of character, domliness and so on. )

But you are a kid. You will change; You will grow. The very woman you seek--if you find her--will help you to become more of a man--whether sub or slave.

That's what folks are trying to tell you when they urge you to be humble: by being humble, you are telling the world you are looking for a partnership, not some puzzle piece to complete you.

January

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RE: Good Evening. - 10/13/2010 6:25:58 PM

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Welcome DaegonNeo...

Have you ever watched "Harold and Maude"? For some reason, reading your posts made me think of that movie. If you haven't, I'd suggest you give yourself a chance to wallow in it a bit.

Maude- "Harold, *everyone* has the right to make an ass out of themselves. You just can't let the world judge you too much."

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RE: Good Evening. - 10/13/2010 6:41:25 PM

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I don't have the energy to argue this point. I regret jumping down DMFParadox's throat. I thought he was trying to just press buttons, and obviously I was wrong. I thougth I'd already said I was.

I obviously will not please everyone, reguardless of what I do. Yes, it's possible for me to please everyone some of the time, and some all of the time, but I won't please everyone all the time. Period. I've been fairly respectful so far, although I admit I've been a little bit of an ass in some of my posts. I haven't sworn, or insulted anyone, or even been hostile towards anyone. The way I talk might make me seem as though I'm angry, or spiteful at times, but that's only because I can't give my usual tone of voice, and I can't say that any one of you really knows me yet.

Now, I'm going to be working on my attitude, but to be honest, I'm a little tired of sugar-coating everything, so I'm either going to be somewhat blunt, or I'll just refuse to say anything. I've explained myself away, but it seems like a lot of you still want to put in your two cents on my three-sentence posts, instead of actually reading what I've posted. I really don't have the energy to respond to everyone, so if you'd like, consider this consession your own little victory.

At the same time, thank you Zevar and January for your input. You two have at least read part of my post, and are pointing out my mistakes. I am seriously grateful for that. Seriously. It's very hard for me to not come off as sarcastic, but I'm being honest here. I will take both of your advice, and adjust my attitude. I need to not come off as too strong. I got it. Please be patient while I put it into practice. Attitudes aren't alterned easily. Any other constructive critisim would be welcome, if either of you have anything to add. Thanks for your well-wishes, but I don't see very many people here looking past my somewhat rough first impression.

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RE: Good Evening. - 10/13/2010 7:26:08 PM

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If it's any consolation, I thought your picture was Anthony Michael Hall from The Breakfast Club

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RE: Good Evening. - 10/13/2010 7:46:34 PM

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I don't have the energy to argue this point. I regret jumping down DMFParadox's throat. I thought he was trying to just press buttons, and obviously I was wrong. I thougth I'd already said I was.

I obviously will not please everyone, reguardless of what I do. Yes, it's possible for me to please everyone some of the time, and some all of the time, but I won't please everyone all the time. Period. I've been fairly respectful so far, although I admit I've been a little bit of an ass in some of my posts. I haven't sworn, or insulted anyone, or even been hostile towards anyone. The way I talk might make me seem as though I'm angry, or spiteful at times, but that's only because I can't give my usual tone of voice, and I can't say that any one of you really knows me yet.

Now, I'm going to be working on my attitude, but to be honest, I'm a little tired of sugar-coating everything, so I'm either going to be somewhat blunt, or I'll just refuse to say anything. I've explained myself away, but it seems like a lot of you still want to put in your two cents on my three-sentence posts, instead of actually reading what I've posted. I really don't have the energy to respond to everyone, so if you'd like, consider this consession your own little victory.

At the same time, thank you Zevar and January for your input. You two have at least read part of my post, and are pointing out my mistakes. I am seriously grateful for that. Seriously. It's very hard for me to not come off as sarcastic, but I'm being honest here. I will take both of your advice, and adjust my attitude. I need to not come off as too strong. I got it. Please be patient while I put it into practice. Attitudes aren't alterned easily. Any other constructive critisim would be welcome, if either of you have anything to add. Thanks for your well-wishes, but I don't see very many people here looking past my somewhat rough first impression.

To begin, I would like to commend you for making a public acknowledgement as is noted in your words regarding the crux of my replies to you. My entries were indeed aimed at hopefully being received as constructive input and not viewed as arrogance, shaming or some cheap shot toward you. I have NO interest or right in speaking in a manner toward anyone in a way that would shame them for where they are in their journey or for any reason, period!

It is noble that you realize your weaknesses, as in doing so they can be transformed into strengths. I strive to acknowledge my errors and human weaknesses as without doing so self improvement is impossible.

Regarding you mentioning your desire to check your attitude, do know that I have no interest in advocating speedy change. I do hope you realize I was not saying such toward you in my entries. I am a firm believer if that which is not fully integrated within, where it is fully understood on a practical, then it becomes altogether worthless for ones personal growth.

I encourage you to remain receptive to constructive input while increasing in your ability to discern the differences between shaming someone VS genuinely speaking into your Life in a constructive manner with no ill will toward you, whatsoever.

I fully understand where you are in your process of manhood. I too was a young lad at one time in my Life. No harm done at all. Though I am older now I can only strive for the same as any man. To become wiser as I mature through my choice to yield my human ego unto the power of humility, aye!

I wish most well, Lad!

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RE: Good Evening. - 10/13/2010 8:15:08 PM

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@Poise

I was going for John Lennon.

@Zevar

Thanks. I just wish more people here wouldn't start harping after reading only the first few sentances of my posts. Then, it's hard to discern if they are perhaps in the right or in the wrong. At that point, I'm not really sure what to do, except spurn it. After all, following bad advice is worse than not taking good advice, wouldn't you agree?

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RE: Good Evening. - 10/14/2010 11:26:07 AM

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There's a reason the world keeps coming up with more 'devices' for humor. The whole thing is a social intelligence test. Matter of fact, the most retarded, ignorant memes out there are some of the trickiest I.Q. tests on the planet.

I could go on about topics regarding the relationships and parallels between: social hazing vs. data cryptography; lolspeak vs. etymological packet evolution progressions vs. compression algorithms; or what various parts of the brain perform which tasks in relation to overall social 'EQ'. Really, it's all fascinating. But what it boils down to is this: you write like someone with Asperger's. By saying this, I'm both a)riffing on you and b)making an absolutely sincere assessment based on firsthand knowledge and experience working with people who suffer from it. For example, if I didn't really suspect you had it, I wouldn't bother telling you I was riffing on you. You'd already know. This is not intended to give offense.

What I found to be extremely helpful in these situations was to suggest reading up on Salvatore Attardo's general theory on humor. The paper he wrote on it is hard to find online, but most university libraries will have it; a quick field trip to your nearest will probably suffice. He edits the psychology profession's journal on humor, too - http://www.degruyter.com/journals/humor/detailEn.cfm - lots of good stuff in there.

So in sum, do some research, learn the 'why's' of humor and how not to make yourself look like a tool whining about being the butt of it, how to recognize it and respond appropriately to it, practice this knowledge until it's instinctive, and you will go much further in life.

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RE: Good Evening. - 10/14/2010 12:42:39 PM

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@Poise

I was going for John Lennon.

@Zevar

Thanks. I just wish more people here wouldn't start harping after reading only the first few sentances of my posts. Then, it's hard to discern if they are perhaps in the right or in the wrong. At that point, I'm not really sure what to do, except spurn it. After all, following bad advice is worse than not taking good advice, wouldn't you agree?

Good day, Neo:

Following bad advice as opposed to good advise indeed is never the wisest choice. I agree. However at times one has to opt for that which seems right in the moment, all awhile knowing that perhaps the choice made might need fine tuning thereafter.

As far as how people choose to reply, I would venture to say that overall most people are quite civil here when replying. There are always folks who will not listen, for reasons unbeknownst to me, and often refuse to present their replies in a manner indicative of possessing even the slightest ounce of genuine civility.

But then Life does not always coddle and most often sharpens the soul of a man in ways that are unexpected, yet best. I am not proposing that it is acceptable to allow others to provoke or condemn another. There is a time to speak and a time to listen. It is learning when to speak and when to listen that requires balancing ones’ internal clock in spite of the external deliberate taunting of others words.

Discernment requires willingness to listen to what one knows to be the right way to tread or speak in the moment. At times discernment merely leads toward silence. One must learn to trust what they know is right and true for their highest best without appearing arrogant, course, rude or provocative toward others. Then there are the times when saying nothing is saying more than a 1000 words could say. Lessons learned, aye!

Do take good care of you and as I noted priorly, the best in your search.

I wish you most well, Lad!

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RE: Good Evening. - 10/14/2010 2:21:36 PM

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you write like someone with Asperger's.

Yes.

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