Mercnbeth -> RE: Disabled Master here (9/29/2004 10:26:42 AM)
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Dan, We know that Ohio is a long way off from California, but when we attended the Folsom Fair/Fringe, we encounter quite a few disabled and handicapped people. They ranged from being wheelchair bound to amputees. We met and enjoyed talking to someone who reminded us of you. He also had cerebral palsy and had been coming to Folsom for over 10 years. They were on both sides of the spectrum, submissives and dominants. Other then the rest of the community of people there helping them when they asked, they were treated no differently then any other participant. As others have pointed out, in general the position in the relationship pyramid of finding a partner for a D/s relationship is near the top - the thinnest part. Adding location, and a disability narrows the field even further. You need to do is accept that, or effect a change that would provide a broader base. I know you state quite emphatically that your are relocatable. But you might consider a preemptive move. You already are proactive in your search, but depending on how important this truly is, you may have to do more. You are in no different a situation then many/most of the people posting to this and other sites like this. Finding anyone is not an easy accomplishment. Merc & beth
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