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Wonderful Wrapped in Confusion - 10/22/2010 10:58:47 PM

Strong2Serve

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I've been on CM for years and met some great people and several short term relationships that ended in friendship. 7 days ago I met, in person, a wonderful female Domme for the first time, after spending 18 hours on the phone with Her the previous week. We seemed very, very well matched in life and lifestyle Ds.

First date: laid in bed, had sushi take-out and watched turner classic movies. I had to get home the next day about 5 pm. She was as interested to find me, as I was to find Her. Very familiar comfortable good experience. It felt very right. Her body language and words confirmed this. Before I left, She made plans to get together and play etc. the following weekend.

I sent Her a text upon returning home, She responded. I called twice in the next two days, but no response. Sent Her message on CM to see if I could find out what happened and if She was still interested,... She responded right away and said She had a lot going on (in a problem way) and didn't want to involve me. She said She would call when She is ready. Well, at this point, I want to use my safe-word. LoL. Don't know if W/we're on, or off. I don't know what will happen, but the time together has been well worth it.

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RE: Wonderful Wrapped in Confusion - 10/22/2010 11:01:28 PM

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Congrats on hitting it off! I hope her problems get resolved quickly and you can get to know each other even better!

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RE: Wonderful Wrapped in Confusion - 10/22/2010 11:45:52 PM

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Sometimes we don't realize that what seems to be a short time for us feels like an eternity to the other person. I understand your frustration, but if you want any chance to be with her, you simply have to wait for her to make the next move, as she specifically said she would call you when she is ready.

Good luck, and I hope everything works out for you.

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RE: Wonderful Wrapped in Confusion - 10/23/2010 9:02:43 AM

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I love the title of the thread. :)

I hope it all works out for you!

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RE: Wonderful Wrapped in Confusion - 10/23/2010 10:59:14 AM

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She responded right away and said She had a lot going on (in a problem way) and didn't want to involve me. She said She would call when She is ready.

Based on what you reported that she said, in the above quoted caption, Sounds like a few RED Flags are waving for now, aye!

Inhale and Exhale 3 x’s & Re-gain your composure. THINK about what she said to you! Cushion yourself or the fall off that pedestal you have her on will be your worst Boo-Hoo ever, I guarantee!

Take care of yourself!

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RE: Wonderful Wrapped in Confusion - 10/23/2010 11:10:45 AM

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Yes, thanks to all for the encouragement. I'm fairly pragmatic and have loosened my grip on this situation. I don't normally get this "crazy" after only seeing or playing with someone once. When I find someone I care about and am interested this much it is tough to hold with an open hand. These are the opportunities in life and you need to make them count,.... they don't come along very often. Thanks again.

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