AquaticSub
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ORIGINAL: BillYoung24 Is being married such a deal breaker in the long run of things? I understand for someone looking to be owned and have a 24/7 relationship, but of you're into a part-time relationship due to kids, or work, is being with someone who's married really an issue? For some people, yes it really is. Why are you expecting others to conform to your moral code? Now, for me, I will play with married people if, and only if, their spouse approves, is comfortable and I can be certain of that. Now if attending a play play and doing a one time scene with someone I don't really know, I'm not going to grill them on their personal situation. I expect them to be playing according to the rules of their relationships just as I play by mine. However, if I'm getting into a relationship of any kind... yes, I have to know that the spouse is ok with it. That isn't a reflection on you, it's simply my code of conduct based on my experiences with cheating and deception between partners. It's not something I am willing to help faciliate so I need to be positive I'm not doing that. If you want people to respect your code, you have to respect theirs.
< Message edited by AquaticSub -- 10/27/2010 11:43:42 AM >
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