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RE: Threesome - 10/28/2010 9:22:28 AM

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and yet they still made judgements? when I see someones post I may not agree with , since I dont know their whole story or all the history behind it I dont start judging them as wrong , as I dont know the whole story

This is the Introduction Thread, as in Introduce Yourself, not your kink. This is more like your own
personal want ad. And thank heavens there are posters such as those that responded because there
are many reckless people out there that will put their kink before anyone's safety.

Judging by your quick defensive posturing, I can understand why your wife prefers intimacy with others.
Good luck to you both.

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RE: Threesome - 10/28/2010 9:25:14 AM

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before I posted I read through this board and from what I have seen its used for alot more than introductions., and manners? I posted 1 thing and get attacked , sounds like manners lack alot here

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RE: Threesome - 10/28/2010 9:28:41 AM

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before I posted I read through this board and from what I have seen its used for alot more than introductions., and manners? I posted 1 thing and get attacked , sounds like manners lack alot here

Taken from the Introductions-section guidelines :

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As the description for this section states, this is a forum for the welcoming and introduction of Collarme.com forum subscribers.

You posted a kink ad, not an introduction.

*edited to add........As for the content of your "kink ad", I don't care about what gets you and your wife off. How does the saying go..."You do what you think is right and then be willing to accept the consequences for those choices." I do care that the Introduction Forum has simply become a place to post a kink ad or a profile.

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RE: Threesome - 10/28/2010 9:28:46 AM

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My concern was without judgement...and extends to all humankind regardless of their kink.
Im sorry you are taking it as judgement. My advice, whether needed or not, was given with good intent.

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RE: Threesome - 10/28/2010 9:29:39 AM

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RE: Threesome - 10/28/2010 9:31:31 AM

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Well everyone has their opinion, just think some things can be stated better without attacks, anyways done with this I am sorry for using this board wrongly wont happen again for sure

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RE: Threesome - 10/28/2010 9:34:55 AM

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Well everyone has their opinion, just think some things can be stated better without attacks, anyways done with this I am sorry for using this board wrongly wont happen again for sure

As I read it, you were NOT attacked. There was helpful advice in all.

If you think that you were attacked, so be it. No one can be responsible for YOUR feelings.

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RE: Threesome - 10/28/2010 9:42:10 AM

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This is NOT meant to be an attack, but that's probably a good idea. Take some time away, read the boards, get to understand how things work round here and then try again if you feel like it.

What you got was not an attack, it was unsolicited, well-meant advice from people who have been round the block too many times to mention. You were lucky - you got many decades of combined advice from people who do not want to see your wife - or you - hurt. You say in your profile you are new to BDSM, and you are new to the boards too. You would do well to hang around a bit longer, and see what happens round here.

This site is full of kinksters, that's true. It also has its fair share of liars, psychopaths and people with nasty diseases. Your ad would have attracted a lot of those people. THAT'S why we said what we said - because many of these psychopaths and sociopaths are very friendly, credible people. They will tell you what you want to hear so that they get what they want. Then they walk away laughing, while you clean up the mess they left behind. If that mess CAN be cleaned up.

In the meantime - maybe you should investigate your local bdsm scene, and your local swinging scene. Go to fetlife dot com and there's groups on there for just about every place on the planet who can help you do what you want to do SAFELY.

And one last word of advice (yeah yeah - unsolicited, but I'm a giver!) - you seriously need to grow a thicker skin if you want to participate on the boards. Most of the "attack" you percieved was actually concern delivered in the form of humour/sarcasm. There's a lot of that on here. At the end of the day it's just pixels on a page - don't let it stress you!

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RE: Threesome - 10/28/2010 9:51:01 AM

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*tacklehugs da Bunny*

and I see posting on a public board as SOLICITING advice. maybe that is just me...

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RE: Threesome - 10/28/2010 9:58:26 AM

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lol - *smooches GT*

Today I'm in a giving mood. The snark is on the back burner...for a while!

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RE: Threesome - 10/28/2010 10:51:51 AM

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lol - *smooches GT*

Today I'm in a giving mood. The snark is on the back burner...for a while!

Hey cute little bunny, while your snark simmers; come here and I'll brush your hair for you!

OP - welcome to the boards. Best wishes in your search for them thar rapers and pillagers of your wifes holes. You may have better luck posting your search on a swingers site though. There's one called SwingLifeStyle or something like that. I had an ex that was into swinging that signed us up on that site. I won't bother to go into how thrilled I was with that....not relevent to the topic

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RE: Threesome - 10/28/2010 11:03:31 AM

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ORIGINAL: SirCraig1970
myotherself, we are not new to this at all so have no problem with it as all she has seen me with other women and I have seen her with other men...

and yet from the profile:

quote:

Hi, not great about writing about myself, but this will have to do for now. I am very new to the lifestyle as is my wife/sub. W/we have been together over 15 years and married over 12. W/we are both very open to learning on this journey together. We love making new friends of all types....

Which is the lie? You're both new to the lifestyle, or you're both not new? Eh, flip flop much?
I guess, you're actually not open to learning, are you? Oh, wait... Y/you're A/a S/slashy S/speak K/kinda G/guy. B/better?

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RE: Threesome - 10/28/2010 11:04:52 AM

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ORIGINAL: January

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Please be at least 6", shaved, and cut

Okay, so no bareback. Why would being cut matter, then?

January

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RE: Threesome - 10/28/2010 11:22:57 AM

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As I said all I am sorry mistake wont happen again

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RE: Threesome - 10/28/2010 11:30:00 AM

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Looking for 2 or 3 males to help me use my BBW wife/sub in all her holes. We are in lebanon oregon. Please be at least 6", shaved, and cut and willing to travel to us. This is a lesson for her as in that I will use and share her as I please

My response:

quote:

Welcome to CM. And yeah, using her to show who's boss is really impressing me all to hell.

your response:

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Wow amazing people who know nothing of the dynamics of O/our relationship judging us off 1 post. Poobear who are you that I really care to impress you? , and so you know this is a fantasy of My wife/sub .

Nowhere in your original post did you say this was a fantasy of your wife's. And again, all you did was make it seem like you were cock of the roost so to speak and you'd do with her as you pleased, didn't make it sound like she had a choice.

Hence, my response to you. We see intro threads on here all the time that aren't about introducing yourself, but what your kink is. Introduce yourself as you please, but coming back and then giving an explanation is just because you didn't stop to think before you hit the "ok" button and sent off your original response. I really don't care if you have to impress me or not, all I know is I wasn't impressed at what you posted and how you made it sound.

Like you were told, build up a thicker skin, there's lots of good advice to be had on the boards, and I've been one who's been contributing for quite awhile now. I do post well to those who are truly curious about something or are looking for life experience. My responses on the boards are in no way always sarcastic or snarky, they rarely are. Same goes for many of the regular posters here.

Good luck in your search, and again welcome to the boards.

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RE: Threesome - 10/28/2010 11:30:34 AM

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Maybe now would be a good time to post an actual introduction and then get down to the business of learning your way around the message boards.

I would suggest having a look at the FAQs thread and the Forum Guidelines both found under Administrative Announcements located at the top of the main page.

The message boards can be useful for a whole host of reasons, not the least of which is information...solicited or not.

Enjoy.

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RE: Threesome - 10/28/2010 11:38:10 AM

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As I said all I am sorry mistake wont happen again

My posted entry in reply to you was simply information that any sexually active person needs to know and practice. SAFE SEX! If you are practicing Safe Sex, then great. It is your choice to live your life as you decide. However the consequences of your choices are yours also. In the nutshell what I was saying to you is SAFE SEX or NO SEX! Therefore, No apology required. No harm intended!

Welcome to the CM Message Boards !

Take care!

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RE: Threesome - 10/28/2010 11:41:30 AM

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I will say sorry for what I said to you as it was a lil harsh and said at a point when i was a lil upset, should have let myself calm down 1st take care

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RE: Threesome - 10/28/2010 1:45:45 PM

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No harm, no foul. I've learned from many years in chat rooms and some time on these boards that not everyone will agree and a thick skin is sometimes needed.

I learned that lesson the first time I posted a thread and got flamed right down to the bone. I didn't go back to it and just let it die a natural death.

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RE: Threesome - 10/28/2010 1:48:42 PM

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Ty

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