seekingOwnertoo
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Interesting thoughts ... as I have been on both sides of this tightrope over the past couple of years. So I will just make a few random comments .... 1. Myself, I look at what a person has accomplished, what they are striving for, and/or what they can do. So I agree with many of the comments here ... it depends on the person. Are you trying to make your life better in some way? It could be retraining, taking a lesser job, or someone like you (without the distance) who has many redeeming virtues! So myself, I am saying the same thing as many others here. 2. I was out of work for a few months. Took some classes ... looked for a job ... SPENT WAY TOO MUCH TIME POSTING , and encountered the same differences of opinion that are reflected in this thread. Some do, some won't ... although I must say ... there was one Angel who didn't care about my then current circumstances, got to know me somewhat as a person, and really encouraged me to keep doing what I was doing. She didn't stop emailing mental encouragement ... until I got a new job. So i do remember her fondly ... 3. Ironically ... over the past two months or so ... I have actually started being approached by dominant women ... it's strange ... I know ... or maybe the new suits. I really cannot explain any of this ... guess it is really all about timing, location, and people interested in connecting in some form ...
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