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Regarding Money!! - 9/29/2004 2:28:18 PM

GoddessDustyGold

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I have posted this in My journal and I hope it is approved, and I hope that this is approved subject matter for this message board. I feel it is important.
*Sigh* I name no names (but) I am so sad to say that it has come to My shocking attention that not only is an ex-slave of mine doing whatever he can to discredit Me due to his anger and bitterness about being released from service, but he has also used My name (at least in past months) without My knowledge to extract monies from male submissives/slaves. I have absolute proof of this, and am appalled. I am a Pro Domme, and I also have live-ins, and the contract states a TPE and that includes everything. I never ask or require money up from front from a slave applicant, or for chat or for even a meeting. Yes, you will pay for dinner (lol) but I do not agree with this practice, and it never occurred to Me, in spite of this slave's many faux pas in similar areas that I was aware of, and refused permission for those activites, that he would abuse this and do anything like this in My name at all. Of course, I understand, he would represent himself, after initial contact, as My slave, and he was the one who negotiated the funds and they had to come to him. I hope that not too many were gullible enough to fall for this, and I wanr all of you, potential slaves, subs, whoever, DO NOT FALL FOR THIS LINE. A Mistress/Goddess, if she is a true Domme, in My opinion, should not ask for money up front simply to meet and/or chat or puruse possibilities of a relationship. Everyone is different, and A/all have a different view, but I feel it is important to bring this matter out. If A/anyone has any questions regarding this practice, please feel free to email Me.

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RE: Regarding Money!! - 10/2/2004 2:40:35 AM

MistressZanthia

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It is possible however that some of us require reservations (applied to session costs when they arrive on time) in advance, at appointment setting time. Keeps the no-shows down considerably.

Sorry to hear your ex-boy is doing this. Might want to inform the network on FLAMEON forums, where you can out him (using any and all his nicks/emails) www.flame-on.com

Good luck.

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RE: Regarding Money!! - 10/2/2004 2:55:23 PM

GoddessDustyGold

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Thank you Mistress Zanthia, and I will consider this option. And yes, deposit in advance for session appointment is completely different. Of course, I am referring to an undeniable abuse that I found was occuring with a trusted slave even before he came to live-in. It is not as easy to lie when you are face to face much of the time!

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RE: Regarding Money!! - 10/2/2004 3:18:28 PM

LadyBeckett

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Hiya Dusty, and welcome to the collarme message boards, although the circumstances could have been a bit better I'll warrant. The manner in which you have taken this matter in hand is very impressive. While it is unfortunate that you've had to experience this, I have no doubt you will overcome it with the same effectiveness and grace that you have demonstrated here.

I also thank you for the link, Zan, that is certainly handy.

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RE: Regarding Money!! - 10/2/2004 5:50:58 PM

GoddessDustyGold

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Thank you LadyBeckett! I have been a member for a few months, but do not get to these boards often enough, so I am having a field day today! There are so many interesting topics, and I will spend more time here.
I seem to be sticking My two cents in wherever I can! Goodness, it is atrocious to be designated as "Vanilla"! lol

< Message edited by GoddessDustyGold -- 10/2/2004 5:53:14 PM >

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