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RE: my sub is married - 11/11/2010 9:26:52 AM

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RE: my sub is married - 11/11/2010 9:54:03 AM

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LOL now I am really laughing....thanks Poise

See...I'm a woman of my word. I told you I'd be happy to help you both.

big squeezes and wiffes for angelika

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RE: my sub is married - 11/11/2010 10:58:33 AM

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I agree with LadyPact: you can't afford to be jealous. You knew her situation going in and should have thought about that before you started it. What good does it do you to be jealous? It solves nothing, the husband isn't going anywhere and you've added stress by deciding that you now can't accept something that you could before. It would seem to me that by doing that you might put yourself in a position where bad things are a lot more likely to happen than good things...and if that's the case, jealousy will work against you but never help you.

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RE: my sub is married - 11/11/2010 11:24:54 AM

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no not angry because of it...I believe I said that I wasn't....I am only angry because she lied about it. The one thing that I can not have my slave do is lie to me...If your willing to do the actions be willing to take the consequence that's a lesson I live with in life...I am willing to take the consequence of my actions or I don't do them

LOL... besides the obvious... you are able to take the consequences of your actions or not do them? Okay, she lies to her husband to be with you, then lies about something to you... you are now jealous and taking the stance that your submissive cannot lie to you, you won't put up with it, but you have. So you wind up jealous and posting on a message board, wondering if you are a master and how to deal with a situation you helped create with someone that could and did lie and cheat with her husband and now lies and cheats on you.

I guess that connection isn't as good as you thought eh?

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RE: my sub is married - 11/11/2010 2:03:42 PM

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OK, i'm confused. Is the OP a male dominant or a female submissive, and if he/she is really dominant then why is the nick Solslave? HELP ME - my brain has fallen and can't get up!

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RE: my sub is married - 11/11/2010 2:09:35 PM

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At the moment it seems they are both one and the same and forgetting to change profiles. lol Your brain is just fine!

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RE: my sub is married - 11/11/2010 2:57:06 PM

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I am willing to take the consequence of my actions or I don't do them

Then why are you whining to us? You fucked up, put on your big boy panties and deal with the consequences.

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RE: my sub is married - 11/11/2010 10:14:13 PM

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My personal opinion is that you can only be the true Master of a woman if she belongs only to you. Her loyalties are obviously divided, regardless of what she says. So, no. You are no Master. She's playing you too well.

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RE: my sub is married - 11/12/2010 7:00:41 AM

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ORIGINAL: Solslave

no not angry because of it...I believe I said that I wasn't....I am only angry because she lied about it. The one thing that I can not have my slave do is lie to me

<gasp> You mean she LIED? Shocking. Especially, since she's already shown she's willing to lie.

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RE: my sub is married - 11/12/2010 10:24:15 AM

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: Solslave

no not angry because of it...I believe I said that I wasn't....I am only angry because she lied about it. The one thing that I can not have my slave do is lie to me
<gasp> You mean she LIED? Shocking. Especially, since she's already shown she's willing to lie.

Given that "Solslave", the 'slave' in question and geodragon the 'dom' in question appear to be one person and 2 profiles who managed to out 'themselves' yesterday... it is fitting that one of them said above:

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If your willing to do the actions be willing to take the consequence that's a lesson I live with in life...I am willing to take the consequence of my actions or I don't do them

For anyone who hasn't made the connection
This is the thread from said "slave's" perspective...

Perhaps it would be a good time to decide to no longer commit assault on non-living equines.

edit: clarity

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RE: my sub is married - 11/19/2010 5:05:18 AM

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I have been playing with a married sub since 1996. Our relationship is strong and her husband either doesn't know or doesn't care. I wish she was divorced, but most of the good ones are married or otherwise hooked up!

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RE: my sub is married - 11/19/2010 5:07:33 AM

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If the relationship has been going on for fourteen years and her husband doesn't know...

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RE: my sub is married - 11/19/2010 5:22:03 AM

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ORIGINAL: Solslave

no not angry because of it...I believe I said that I wasn't....I am only angry because she lied about it. The one thing that I can not have my slave do is lie to me...If your willing to do the actions be willing to take the consequence that's a lesson I live with in life...I am willing to take the consequence of my actions or I don't do them

Well in that case, next time you pick out a sub, don't pick one who already has a history of lying to the men she sleeps with. How fucking hard is that. Even for a cold black hearted Master that doesn't give a shit really...it's not rocket science, just common sense.

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RE: my sub is married - 11/19/2010 2:21:03 PM

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I have a very odd relationship here and was wondering for advice from anyone who has any. I am new to the D/s for almost a year now and my sub is married to someone else. We love each other and want to be together but there are things that are preventing that right now. while she is married I am wondering how do I deal with jealousy and really am I even a Master at this point?

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while she is married I am wondering
1) how do I deal with jealousy and
2) really am I even a Master at this point?

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1) His jealousy? With an order of protection and then when that surely fails, a pre-paid funeral; will there be food do you think?
2) Does it matter? Someone else will get the girl after her husband cuts your dom off and goes to jail forever.

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RE: my sub is married - 11/22/2010 6:52:10 AM

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Sounds like role play to me.

Sounds like a home wrecker.

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RE: my sub is married - 11/22/2010 3:00:15 PM

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I just stumbled accross this thread, and let me just say this....
You can believe what you want, but IF she is willing to lie to her husband, then IMO she is willing to lie to you. And you don't know what she's telling him.
I been on the recieving end of cheating and lets just say, when I kicked in the door of his place he was really , REALLY, R-E-A-L-L-Y fucking lucky his room mate was there and not him/them.
I was going to leave the room mates carcass there as a warning, but actually meet the guy before and thought he was an OK guy, that softened me up a bit.I also thought the noise might get the police on me fster than I wanted. They where lucky I couldn't find them for a couple of days.
This was after listenning to her lies, re-assuring me we was working everything out, and blah, blah, she loved me, blah, blah...Yeah you can laugh, I was a chump that got taken...

BUT, the point being, at that time I was a very dangerous chump.

And yeah you can be bigger & meaner than her husband but when your back is turned a baseball bat, .357, steel pipe, etc, is a great equalizer.

I would NEVER fuck around with a married woman if she wasn't in an open relationship and I met him.

If I even THOUGHT someone was cheating on me now I would be outa there fast (with as much meterial possesions and money as I could swindle out of her)

IMO get over her and move on

Edited because I missed some postd that this might be the same person, but left my reply so maybe someone else can learn from my error

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RE: my sub is married - 11/23/2010 1:41:39 AM

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So... we have a person (gender unknown - but let's bet it's a dude) who sets up a Dom profile, and a sub profile and then lives out some drama on the boards?

Fuck me! I learn about a new kink every day!

I'm for leaving this ex-equine at peace too!

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RE: my sub is married - 11/23/2010 6:22:05 AM

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on this site.... it doesnt surprise me one bit. 95% role players on this site.

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RE: my sub is married - 11/23/2010 2:19:35 PM

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Checked out the first page. All about sexless marriages blah blah blah... That is not the issue! You knew she was married... you had to realize your second fiddle. Quit your fucking whine man up and deal geez. Nothing worse than a whiner. Next thing you will be crying like a bitch..

Ohhh the drama BadOne

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RE: my sub is married - 12/14/2010 8:39:57 AM

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I would say get over it, why are you jealous, enjoy the pussy who care who else she is fucking. She is probably fucking several others also as long you get yours what do you care.

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