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Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: slaves that are real not fakes (11/9/2010 10:28:22 PM)

Ok, well I thnk we can all relate to wishing someone wuold be or do what or where they said they w*ould be or do, but it doesn't make someone a fake not to show up or do, and not let you know, it just makes them inconsiderate, in my opinion.




DommeSarah83 -> RE: slaves that are real not fakes (11/10/2010 3:04:00 AM)

good luck, got lots of boring one word mails. I like an interesting message to get me interested!
Sarahx




GreedyTop -> RE: slaves that are real not fakes (11/10/2010 3:30:00 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Toppingfrmbottom

Ok, well I thnk we can all relate to wishing someone wuold be or do what or where they said they w*ould be or do, but it doesn't make someone a fake not to show up or do, and not let you know, it just makes them inconsiderate, in my opinion.

This.

good luck.




DMFParadox -> RE: slaves that are real not fakes (11/10/2010 3:34:39 AM)

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ORIGINAL: EldroRolod

Its so hard to find anyone of quality these days, let alone a supposed slave. Unfortunately, in the last few years I've been noticing a general lack of class among the so-called modern BDSM community.

Makes me long for the old days, the strict formality, classy, not trashy.


The good old days were never good and aren't that old.

You want strict, classy formality, then make it happen. Be a leader. There are folks around who are doing it their way; compare notes.




GreedyTop -> RE: slaves that are real not fakes (11/10/2010 3:37:43 AM)

OMG.. *checks to see if there's a news feed about hell freezing over*

I agree with DMF!!




DMFParadox -> RE: slaves that are real not fakes (11/10/2010 3:38:09 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DommeSarah83

good luck, got lots of boring one word mails. I like an interesting message to get me interested!
Sarahx


I've been getting more than a few of those myself. If they're not thank you notes or things like that, I generally punk 'em to keep myself entertained. Clears out the whiners fast. Cheers.




DMFParadox -> RE: slaves that are real not fakes (11/10/2010 3:40:03 AM)

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

OMG.. *checks to see if there's a news feed about hell freezing over*

I agree with DMF!!


Greedy, just because I'm a battle-scarred misogynist does not mean I don't respect class. It's more that I don't expect it, and have no patience for fools who like to say it's there when it's not.




GreedyTop -> RE: slaves that are real not fakes (11/10/2010 3:42:29 AM)

I would never suggest otherwise, DMF.. ;)    how ya been, anyway?

edited: damned sleep deprived dyselxic fingers!




Courageouscrusoe -> RE: slaves that are real not fakes (11/10/2010 4:06:41 AM)

Well I suppose sincerity does'nt make a good slave then. He needs to write enough words to show something (that he can write). Never mind he hungers to to please his mistress, that his heart sits under her heel, that he is incomplete without her. I agree he should be able to put some of it into words, certainly in this environment. Is there a correlation between how interesting a slave writes and how real they are?




SorceressJ -> RE: slaves that are real not fakes (11/10/2010 4:09:01 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Courageouscrusoe
Well I suppose sincerity doesn't make a good slave then.


I would personally never be the lest bit interested in any other kind. If they are not sincere and not able to communicate well, then no dice, period.
Just sayin'. [sm=2cents.gif]




DarkSteven -> RE: slaves that are real not fakes (11/10/2010 4:11:09 AM)

crusoe, there's reality and then there's marketing.  Ya gotta have both.




DMFParadox -> RE: slaves that are real not fakes (11/10/2010 4:14:51 AM)

I've been alright. Recovering from a existential/nihilist breakdown, you know. The usual. ^_^




Courageouscrusoe -> RE: slaves that are real not fakes (11/10/2010 4:24:38 AM)

Agreed and communication is important, especially here. The measure should be quality though.




Courageouscrusoe -> RE: slaves that are real not fakes (11/10/2010 4:28:23 AM)

Well said.




Courageouscrusoe -> RE: slaves that are real not fakes (11/10/2010 4:35:10 AM)

You're right it has to be interesting and of course more than one word. But what's the key to making it interesting here in dom/sub world? How can you tell it's real?




LadyRian -> RE: slaves that are real not fakes (11/10/2010 7:44:59 AM)

The only way I've discovered how to tell the 'real' from the 'fake' is give whatever it is enough time to show it's true colours.
No one can lie forever. The truth always comes out eventually.




Courageouscrusoe -> RE: slaves that are real not fakes (11/10/2010 8:45:24 AM)

yes I agree that would do it. Although didn't get impression from other poster they had patience. They wanted "first contact fulfillment" I see many profiles where doms say 'don't reply if you are fake' ...???




thishereboi -> RE: slaves that are real not fakes (11/10/2010 3:13:57 PM)

Hey hello princess. Yea I know what you mean about wanting a real slave. Those blow up ones are sooooo boring.




DarkSteven -> RE: slaves that are real not fakes (11/10/2010 5:32:25 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Courageouscrusoe

You're right it has to be interesting and of course more than one word. But what's the key to making it interesting here in dom/sub world? How can you tell it's real?


Try something like:
Hello, Mistress. 

1. I liked the second picture in your profile.  Explain why.
2. You posted XXX on the message forums.  I generally agree with you, but I have found YYY.
3. I notice that you have listed Camping on your Curious About list.  I have been camping for six years.  Are there specific questions I could answer?  Where have you tried camping or intend to try camping?

Note that:

1. This shows that you have looked at her profile or posts.
2. You have thought about what you read.
3. You're approaching her as a person, not a kink fulfillment system.

From my own experience, the women here are starved for fun conversation. If you have a playful sense of humor, so much the better.  If the chemistry is there, the play and sessions will follow.  But first, approach them like you would at a party - initiate conversation, get to know them, and ask yourself whether the two of you would make a good match. 




Courageouscrusoe -> RE: slaves that are real not fakes (11/10/2010 6:22:35 PM)

Thanks Darksteven
That's good advice. I'll put it to use asap! I love to write what's on my mind especially after I get an idea. If a profile sparks my imagination even better.
Courageouscrusoe




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