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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/9/2010 12:14:54 PM

submissivemale22

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

What do you want Me to do? Claim that the boy who is collared to Me isn't attractive to Me? It's not like people don't know what he looks like. If they don't, there are pics available.

However, I was absolutely more concerned with him being:

1. Service oriented (and)

2. A masochist.

i do appreciate that you answered the question. i guess i was looking more at what the decision would hinge on within the targeted sub-demographic. i mean, we can assume that anyone not service oriented would be disqualified, can we not? but that doesn't narrow it down all that much.

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/9/2010 12:17:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Stef, he has to avoid douchery AND nitwitting? That's a heavy burden!

Hey, nobody said this was going to be easy. If it was, even he would be in a relationship...

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/9/2010 12:17:56 PM

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He already said that there are no real true domly types in Cincinnati. And no doubt he hasn't ventured to columbus, or one of those other dens of perversion that Ohio is full of.

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/9/2010 12:18:58 PM

LadyHibiscus

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ORIGINAL: stef

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Stef, he has to avoid douchery AND nitwitting? That's a heavy burden!

Hey, nobody said this was going to be easy. If it was, even he would be in a relationship...

~stef

You and your common sense, Stef!! Sheesh.

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/9/2010 12:22:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: submissivemale22
i do appreciate that you answered the question. i guess i was looking more at what the decision would hinge on within the targeted sub-demographic. i mean, we can assume that anyone not service oriented would be disqualified, can we not? but that doesn't narrow it down all that much.

Not necessarily. My definition of 'service oriented' isn't the same one held as everyone else. A bedroom submissive may define himself as 'service oriented' and only be referring to those activities directly related to sex.

1. Know your terms (and)

2. Know what they mean to the person you're talking with.

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/9/2010 12:23:56 PM

LadyHibiscus

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Which ties in nicely to:

1. Be DIRECT about what you want

2. Remember that SEX can be had anywhere, not just from you

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/9/2010 12:28:20 PM

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ORIGINAL: submissivemale22
are there some among you who do not consider those two as the primary basis when selecting a sub?

Er, most of us, actually. Money can't buy compatibility, and physical attractiveness is nice but very much secondary to intellect and personality. Besides, I'm a certified PT and fitness/nutrition coach as well as an expert at cooking tasty, healthy food. Attractiveness is something I can substantially increase for any submissive if I like him well enough to put in the time.

My primary basis for selecting a sub can be succinctly described as: does he fit into my lifestyle and share my vanilla interests, eg, is he an extremely intellectual science geek, hardcore RPG gamer geek, medieval recreationalist, larper, etc. Other than mutual attraction and chemistry, and basics like maturity and honesty (no liars or drama queens please) the rest is highly negotiable. "Mutual common interests and intelligence" is the hardline criteria for me, way above income level or physical condition. I'd prefer him to be financially self-supporting, though for the right person that would be negotiable. I'd like him not to be grossly out of shape, but if he's actively working on his health and fitness and will join me regularly in the gym, I'd still be okay with that.

A geeky guy who plays D&D and who can really hold up his end of an intellectual conversation has a MUCH better chance with me than a rich, good looking jock of average intelligence. As in, the former type of guy has a very good chance and the latter type of guy has absolutely none; I won't date him at all.

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/9/2010 12:28:50 PM

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ORIGINAL: slavekal

I don't want to be seen as unduly trolling for sales, that's why I don't overtly state this very often...but BUY MY BOOK!

um, what? it is in your signature.... you effectively state it in every post.

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/9/2010 12:31:35 PM

LadyHibiscus

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Well you might want to cough up the twenty bucks, S22. If you have more on your mind besides misogyny, that is.

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/9/2010 12:34:43 PM

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i think the implication being made in some of these posts is that ive not tried to meet people in my area- this could not be further removed from reality.

but, this thread isn't about my experiences as much as it is about my observations.

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/9/2010 12:35:52 PM

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Your observations don't match My personal experience.

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/9/2010 12:37:59 PM

LadyHibiscus

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You already explained how the locals didn't meet your exacting standards. WE REMEMBER THINGS HERE.

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/9/2010 12:40:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Well you might want to cough up the twenty bucks, S22. If you have more on your mind besides misogyny, that is.

oh please.... id be better off applying it towards a 'tribute' to some local female (and note- im not critiquing pro's in this post/thread because they are quite upfront with that which they seek).

and misogyny... really? i dare say nobody on this board is more sensitive to the feelings of women than i. if you read my post as being overly negative, you misconstrued my intent. im just saying that these appear to be the rules to the game.

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/9/2010 12:41:37 PM

LadyHibiscus

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What game are you playing, exactly? Thankfully, not the same one that I am occupied with.

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/9/2010 12:42:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

You already explained how the locals didn't meet your exacting standards. WE REMEMBER THINGS HERE.

that is mostly because there are like 3 of them...

and those three are either in relationships or professionals (and thus most incompatible with me).

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/9/2010 12:44:02 PM

LadyHibiscus

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In the entire metro Cincinnati area, there are THREE dominant females. Right.

The rest of you can finish my sentence.

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/9/2010 12:44:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

What game are you playing, exactly? Thankfully, not the same one that I am occupied with.

"How to attract a dominant woman (the likes of which you aspire to attract)".

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/9/2010 12:44:52 PM

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Yes...it is in my signature, but I don't ordinarily state it in outright posts. I am honestly surprised that there are guys like you who do not buy it. You are obviously really angry about not being able to find a dominant woman. Here is a weapon at your disposal, but you do not want to utilize it. What you are doing is not working. You need coaching. I am going to post later about the potential dommes I met last weekend. Really, dominant women exist. They are gettable.

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/9/2010 12:46:04 PM

LadyHibiscus

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We are gettable, Kal, but we also run like the wind when faced with the bitter and the unpleasant.

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/9/2010 12:46:08 PM

LadyPact

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I don't know. I can't tell you the things I've learned over the years from laying out twenty bucks for a book about BDSM. They come in pretty helpful. I refer back to the ones that I own fairly often.

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