Termyn8or -> Just a question (11/11/2010 10:55:57 PM)
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If your partner tells you that using your safeword would end all play and the relationship forever, is that coersion ? Other things aside, either you don't live in his/her house or the deal is even if the relationship ends you are not out on the street. I don't mean that kind of coersion, I mean the other kind. The mental kind. Is that abusive ? I don't mean "on the bus to work bi/utch" no more car, or "no more _______" in life if cohabitating. I mean the pure mental/emotional aspect of it. Threatening with absence, but more in the mindset than anything else. No finances no nuthin involved. Like I said it is just a question, this has nothing to do with goings on or anything. We know we can have an effect on other people, and alot of times the reverse is true. What say you ? T
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