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hausboy -> RE: Huge fisting toys wanted (11/14/2010 11:21:05 AM)
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Hi lonelyblueboi
Here's the problem with that fisting dildo--I still holdfast that it was designed by people who don't fist a lot.
That position (we call it "the duck") is an intermediate entry position--that is, depending on the bottom and her state of arousal, you work in one finger at a time, then the thumb, then form the duck bill and go carefully knuckle by knuckle. I have very small hands--size 7 glove--and even so, I always have to very carefully adjust my thumb and hands for most women to make the last knuckle. There's a lot of shifting, adjusting and maneuvering--and as the woman gets more aroused, the tightness/size changes. Once that last knuckle is slid inside, the hand should naturally form a fist--often times a "closed fist" in which the thumb tucks underneath. If you remain in the "duck bill" position, like this dildo you've shared, you run the risk of bumping the cervix--not a good thing. Not fun for anybody. Plus, some women prefer the sensation of the hand being opened and closed inside--some like a certain finger movement inside--each woman has her preferences. The dildo doesn't give you these options.
Lastly (can you tell I'm passionate about fisting?) Exiting the vagina AFTER she's orgasmed, is as intricate and challenging as the entry, and a large dildo as shown would not be the most comfortable for some women.
So maybe it might be a good toy for the person to use on themselves to get accustomed to the first stages of fisting, but there is really no substitute for the real thing. I can feel every contraction on my hand, which helps me determine her state of arousal--and best of all, I can feel her orgasm, which is what makes fisting so rewarding.
frederich
sportin' my red hanky-left
edited for typos
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