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Hitachi or Eroscillator etc. for anorgasmic girl? - 11/12/2010 10:15:29 PM

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I've never had an orgasm, and I'm 27. I'm going literally loopy from it. I have tried all sorts of things without luck.. so, what can I buy that will make me have one?? I'm thinking about getting one of those huge massagers like the hitachi or wand essentials, or the very expensive eroscillator deluxe 2 or something.... what's the best??

RE: Hitachi or Eroscillator etc. for anorgasmic girl? - 11/13/2010 1:17:41 PM

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Well, I'm a transguy, but that means I was born with "female" anatomy. I have to say, even before I started testosterone, the Hitachi NEVER failed to get me off. It is a little on the loud side, so its a good idea to use it under a blanket if you live in an apartment building or something, but hell yeah, it works great! There are two levels, and both are absolutely wonderful! I've had mind for five years and it is my nightly companion, lol. I don't know anything about the other thing, but I would definitely give two thumbs up to the Hitachi!

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RE: Hitachi or Eroscillator etc. for anorgasmic girl? - 11/13/2010 2:44:05 PM

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For the money, I would go for a hitachi...30$ from amazon
for the bang? Id go with the Eroscillator
I have both and basically I only use the eroscillator
Ive had 2 eroscillators in ten years, both still work hard and often
I like the hitachi, but much much prefer the Eros for pinpoint accuracy:)

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RE: Hitachi or Eroscillator etc. for anorgasmic girl? - 11/17/2010 1:12:34 AM

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keep it mind there is a small perent of women who dont have orgasms, EVER

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RE: Hitachi or Eroscillator etc. for anorgasmic girl? - 11/17/2010 5:49:46 AM

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keep it mind there is a small perent of women who dont have orgasms, EVER

If you are one of that small percent, there are some women who have them later in life. You are still quite young.
Lots of things connect into being orgasmic and not having them is now considered being "pre-orgasmic".
There is nothing wrong with not having them.

For me, my body's reluctance was mostly an emotional issue.
I say mostly, because too much stimulation is almost painful to me.
Now it is fun to play with the edges of what too much is and as I feel safer those edges have expanded.
In the beginning it was almost terrifying.
I safe-worded from pleasure, not pain.

For me to be orgasmic, I have to not focus on having one and I had to get to the point of feeling completely safe.

Now sometimes I have multiples.

Even though I could cum on my own, I was less 'present' with them.
There is nothing wrong with using erotica during maturbation but I didn't want that to be the only way I could get off.
Can you just envision being with a partner and saying to them: "Quick! Turn to page 67." ?

I really used to think that I was broken inside.

I now believe that barring a physical reason, women aren't anorgasmic. They are pre-orgasmic just like I was.

Sex can be beautiful with or without. I will never disparage anyone who isn't having them yet, and I hope my post does not do that.
But I will say I believe it is a possibility, just as I discovered it was for me.

I had to untangle the emotional reasons why (which was difficult and scary), become comfortable in my own skin, and pair up with a very patient, loving partner who never put pressure on me to have one. (There is nothing worse than feeling inadequate because your partner does that. It is a quick track to Neverville.) Instead He put the focus on my pleasure, and reassured me through my frustrations.

Choosing to enjoy sex without is as valid a choice as the journey I took.

Happy journeys in either case.

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RE: Hitachi or Eroscillator etc. for anorgasmic girl? - 11/17/2010 7:47:18 AM

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For me, my body's reluctance was mostly an emotional issue.

My understanding is that this is often the case, that the issue is mental not physical. It certainly was for my girl and while she's gotten to the point that she orgasms easily for me she still isn't able to orgasm with any reliability or intensity using a hitachi on her own.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not knocking the hitachi it absolutely gets my endorsement. I've given my girl mind blowing carry her to the tub when it's over because she doesn't have the strength left to stand orgasms with that thing.

I'm just saying that a better vibrator might not be all you need. There's a great deal of information on the net by sex therapists, books and so on that might help. On the other hand by all means get a hitachi, they can be a lot of fun and at the price there's no reason not to. Just don't get frustrated and toss the thing if at first you don't succeed.

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RE: Hitachi or Eroscillator etc. for anorgasmic girl? - 11/17/2010 8:57:19 AM

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I'm one of the rare women who detests the hitachi. It's too loud, numbing and has been known to burn out after a few uses.
I love my eroscillator. Literally. If I use it on it's own, I can get off in less than 5 min.
If I use it in conjunction with my angled glass dildo, I need towels. I think it's well worth the money.
The first time I ever squirted, it was due to intense teasing, denial, and finally allowed to climax. Ftr: I was in my mid 40s when that happened.

Take your time, don't stress it, you can even get an inexpensive water massager for good clean shower fun.

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RE: Hitachi or Eroscillator etc. for anorgasmic girl? - 11/17/2010 12:58:23 PM

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Hi hermione,

I've never tried the eroscillator- sounds interesting though! But the Hitachi is pretty darn good and not too expensive either. Maybe start with that one and if it doesn't do it, try the other?

good luck,
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RE: Hitachi or Eroscillator etc. for anorgasmic girl? - 11/18/2010 12:53:09 PM

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Thanks for all the good tips.. I think I'd be willing to pay whatever to not be frustrated anymore. I've tried a lot of vibrators. I've been hesitant to get the hitachi, cuz normal vibrators start to make me feel numb shortly after, so I wasn't sure if that was a good idea or not. Or maybe they really just weren't strong enough, gee, I dunno >.> I'm sure it is mental.. I start to get panicy when I feel like I'm on the edge, and then my body just stops everything.

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RE: Hitachi or Eroscillator etc. for anorgasmic girl? - 11/18/2010 1:05:58 PM

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I've tried a lot of vibrators. I've been hesitant to get the hitachi, cuz normal vibrators start to make me feel numb shortly after, so I wasn't sure if that was a good idea or not.

This bit caught my eye.

If "normal" vibrators leave you feeling numb, trust me when I say a hitachi will leave you feeling numb from the waist down!

Don't get me wrong...I love my H, but there needs to be a few layers between it and me if I want to feel anythig when I'm done.

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RE: Hitachi or Eroscillator etc. for anorgasmic girl? - 11/18/2010 1:36:24 PM

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hermione,
My doctor once told me, "Don't worry about it. You aren't even 35 yet" -- like that was going to give me any comfort! (I was 26 at the time, married, and had two little girls.)

My husband didn't care and was totally useless, so I had to take matters into my own hands... literally.

For me, it was NOT so much and emotional thing, but it certainly was a MENTAL thing.
I didn't know at the time what to do with my thoughts -- how or what I needed to think.
I also learned how to pace myself, and get less focused on the "result" and put more focus on having fun, "making love" to myself, and "self-teasing".

Both the Hitachi magic wand and the erosillator work for me -- but they make different kinds of orgasms. The Hitachi can be numbing -- however that "numbingness" is often just BEFORE I explode in an orgasm.
The erosillator works best for the self-exploration and discovery techniques I describe below ....

As a submissive, my thoughts and fantasies had to be within that power exchange dynamic. I imagined interacting with a confident Dominant, who was "pleased" with my "struggles".

Another vital piece of information --
What feels good one day may not the next.
Heck, one quadrant of the clitorial area may contain the "sweet spot", then in a flash! it disappears and you may tease-up a sweet spot in a totally new area ON or NEAR the clitoris.
Sometimes it's not on the clit. Sometimes it may move more toward the "urinary meatus"... that sort of "welcome mat" of rougher textured tissue that slopes into the vagina between the inner lips and down an inch or so (if you are lying on your back).

Something else -- it as though most women need to LEARN how to have an orgasm, because once we do, we begin to have them with more and more frequency.

You may find areas unique to YOU. Forget that "goal" fixation.
Feel free to explore and discover yourself.

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RE: Hitachi or Eroscillator etc. for anorgasmic girl? - 11/18/2010 1:45:15 PM

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Hermione, are you using them internally?? or for clitoral use only
both the eros and hitachi will numb you after a while, if you concentrate on the clit, I totally agree with Bones
I really dont get along well with vibrators internally.. if its just sitting in there buzzing?? Im bored outta my gourd and make up shopping lists
it needs ripples and bumps and girth. and friction to get the job done
for clitoral orgasms , I need pinpoint accuracy and power
for anal, I need a human... again anything that buzzes or isnt warm fingers helping a toy then it might as well not happen at all.One of the reasons I dont use anal toys alone, it just feeels non exciting
as the wise person said above, we are all unique and what works for me may not work for you.
I wish you luck
Lucy

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RE: Hitachi or Eroscillator etc. for anorgasmic girl? - 11/18/2010 2:07:53 PM

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The Hitachi is so flexible. It is fairly unique in that it works with a turning fist size and generally closed fist shaped contact head that revolves at at any speed you wish. I can control the speed and the pressure and the rounded head can be lubed and used slowly to tease, run faster on the clit and lips and with it's perfect size and with it's well thought out shape it can be positioned with the exact pressure to simultaneously stimulate vagina lips, clit and walls and even partially "fist" with a soft slow turn if lubed properly with power.

It's biggest drawback is the cord making it impractical for club play unless you are very close to an outlet and won't trip on the cord when delivering your "majic". I am looking for something just as good and in the same general design with batteries if anyone knows of such.

Arturas

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RE: Hitachi or Eroscillator etc. for anorgasmic girl? - 11/18/2010 5:59:51 PM

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I've used an Acuvibe for over ten years. The Hitachi was too mild for me. The acuvibe did the trick, so I didn't need to try anything else. I feel your aggravation. My vibrator is the ONLY way I can get off.

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RE: Hitachi or Eroscillator etc. for anorgasmic girl? - 11/18/2010 7:09:57 PM

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The Hitachi is so flexible. It is fairly unique in that it works with a turning fist size and generally closed fist shaped contact head that revolves at at any speed you wish. I can control the speed and the pressure and the rounded head can be lubed and used slowly to tease, run faster on the clit and lips and with it's perfect size and with it's well thought out shape it can be positioned with the exact pressure to simultaneously stimulate vagina lips, clit and walls and even partially "fist" with a soft slow turn if lubed properly with power.

Arturas

Umm, I have a Hitachi and I'm most certain it doesn't "turn" in any way. It just vibrates. Perhaps you have a similar device that looks the Hitachi that turns, but the Hitachi definitely does not.

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RE: Hitachi or Eroscillator etc. for anorgasmic girl? - 11/19/2010 2:48:16 PM

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The Hitachi is so flexible. It is fairly unique in that it works with a turning fist size and generally closed fist shaped contact head that revolves at at any speed you wish. I can control the speed and the pressure and the rounded head can be lubed and used slowly to tease, run faster on the clit and lips and with it's perfect size and with it's well thought out shape it can be positioned with the exact pressure to simultaneously stimulate vagina lips, clit and walls and even partially "fist" with a soft slow turn if lubed properly with power.

Arturas

Umm, I have a Hitachi and I'm most certain it doesn't "turn" in any way. It just vibrates. Perhaps you have a similar device that looks the Hitachi that turns, but the Hitachi definitely does not.

Perhaps you are right. I don't have it anymore. The one I had did turn. Amazon's advertisement shows two Revolutions Per Minute settings so that did not clarify things real well for me. I'll go with what you think.

http://www.amazon.com/Hand-Held-Personal-Massager-Attachments/dp/B000K8ALI8

Product Features:
Two powerful speeds: high-6000 rpm low-5000 rpm
Maximum Operation: 25 Minutes
Power Source Voltage: 110 ~ 120 Volts
Power Source Frequency: 60 Hz. Power Consumption: 20 Watts

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RE: Hitachi or Eroscillator etc. for anorgasmic girl? - 11/20/2010 4:12:10 PM

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The Hitachi is so flexible. It is fairly unique in that it works with a turning fist size and generally closed fist shaped contact head that revolves at at any speed you wish. I can control the speed and the pressure and the rounded head can be lubed and used slowly to tease, run faster on the clit and lips and with it's perfect size and with it's well thought out shape it can be positioned with the exact pressure to simultaneously stimulate vagina lips, clit and walls and even partially "fist" with a soft slow turn if lubed properly with power.

Arturas

Umm, I have a Hitachi and I'm most certain it doesn't "turn" in any way. It just vibrates. Perhaps you have a similar device that looks the Hitachi that turns, but the Hitachi definitely does not.

Perhaps you are right. I don't have it anymore. The one I had did turn. Amazon's advertisement shows two Revolutions Per Minute settings so that did not clarify things real well for me. I'll go with what you think.

http://www.amazon.com/Hand-Held-Personal-Massager-Attachments/dp/B000K8ALI8

Product Features:
Two powerful speeds: high-6000 rpm low-5000 rpm
Maximum Operation: 25 Minutes
Power Source Voltage: 110 ~ 120 Volts
Power Source Frequency: 60 Hz. Power Consumption: 20 Watts

I'm pretty sure those rpms refer to revolutions of the internal motor and not the external head. Can you imagine that fist sized thing spinning 6000 times a minute? That'd rub your skin right off! Nope, its the internal motor, which causes the head to vibrate.

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RE: Hitachi or Eroscillator etc. for anorgasmic girl? - 11/20/2010 7:56:46 PM

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It's biggest drawback is the cord making it impractical for club play unless you are very close to an outlet and won't trip on the cord when delivering your "majic". I am looking for something just as good and in the same general design with batteries if anyone knows of such.

Arturas

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RE: Hitachi or Eroscillator etc. for anorgasmic girl? - 11/20/2010 8:06:37 PM

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If cost is a real concern (i.e. sybian is out) they Hitachi wand is, in my opinion, the best value. It can be a gentle kiss with more "weight" than most toys, or it can deliver accuracy through volume. The sensation can be blinding, in that the body is overstimulated and loses focus. If this happens, take it slower, resist the urge to press it against yourself, and use lube.

Many women... And a few owners I know *blushes* will first insert a more traditional toy, and press the wand to the hilt. Because it is so powerful, the vibrations translate well... all the way to the tip.

To Hermione personally: Reading over your profile, I can guess that insertion is out. As I understand it, most "quickie" female orgasms are clitoral anyhow =). But more importantly, I wanted to address the mindset. Do you feel that orgasms are a natural? That God wants you to have them? Do your living conditions allow you to be loud and relaxed?

Reducing stress about getting your rocks off is the most important part. All the toys in the world won't matter if you have neighbors listening at your door and a God watching you in disappointment.

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RE: Hitachi or Eroscillator etc. for anorgasmic girl? - 11/21/2010 5:16:48 PM

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I finally had to replace my first Eroscillator after 14 years of service. I went for the Deluxe 2 because I wanted to try all the new attachments. But I find myself mostly just using the Grapes and Cockscomb attachment. The cheapest Eroscillator model would have been fine for me.

The very first time I used an Eroscillator, it took 45 minutes to cum, but after diligent practice, it now only takes minutes.

Two of my playmates have the Hitachi and I do prefer my Eroscillator.

Best of luck to you!

KK

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