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HisEvelyn -> RE: Being collared (11/17/2010 10:33:04 AM)
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I've had two collarings with my Master. The first was a simple, store-bought collar that was agreed beforehand didn't mean much more than the fact that we were together and enjoyed it, a way to identify me as his visually. It was a simple matter of kneeling before him and him putting it on me. Master and I both like ceremony and protocol with things, so it was a fun moment.
My second collar, Master had custom-made for me. We had a long talk before the ceremony about what it meant to us, and what I could expect to have happen when I was collared. With clear heads, we agreed to what the collaring meant, the commitment it symbolized. Then during our visit together (we are LDR right now), it was an intense, very serious and powerful experience. He took me deep into subspace with a good cropping and usage, then dragged me in front of a mirror by my hair and had me kneel. As he circled me repeatedly with intense stare, I had to remain in the same pose while he spoke to me of what it meant ot be his and how I was his in all ways. Shaking and in tears from emotion(the best kind!!!) I agreed to his demands. The collar was pulled securely about my neck and fastened, then Master proceeded to finish his claiming in every possible way. It was one of the most amazing experiences of my life.
The most important aspect about the whole thing was that expectations were clearly discussed, that there was good communication about it. I knew what was coming, we both knew what it meant, so there was no second-guessing or confusion. Just bliss.
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