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popeye1250 -> RE: Word to the Wise (11/23/2010 11:09:06 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Rexeena
I was supposed to meet an alleged dom this week and just found out he's married. We'd been talking for three weeks and live in the same city, so we were going to do lunch.
He had said he is single, and in his profile (on fetlife, not here) he claims to be a "SWM". Even though it's not the best indicator, he was always with different girls, or male friends in pictures and even sent one with his mom...I guess to seem more legit? I realize some are into polyamory, and even though that's really not my thing, from what I understand, all parties have to agree.
I'm sure his wife has no idea.
Lesson: Check your county's public records before meeting someone, so you can stay away from cheating assholes. Whitepages helps, but it isn't enough because it doesn't always list the spouse, as in this case. The marriage started on 9/15 so that probably wouldn't be enough time to get the info updated.
EDIT: ...guess I should explain the title? a couple of friends had suggested that at his age it was not unlikely for him to be married and well, it's a nice little ironic 'duh!' moment for me
Rexenna, I've had similar experiences happen to me all too often in here but in my case it turns out to be a tranny or cd wanting to play "girl" with someone.
It's easy to sort them out though, whenever I give them my phone number and tell them to call they simply vanish.
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