RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all

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LaTigresse -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 1:29:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I have no interest in the genitalia of strangers. I really don't care to see my friends', unless we have that sort of relationship--and not until then, thanks. I appreciate physical beauty, but disconnected body parts? No. This.

WestBaySlave -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 1:30:48 PM)
Well, I'm a gay guy, but I must echo what a number of women here have said - it's not about lack of interest in genitalia per se, it's that it's usually a pretty poor way of introducing yourself at an early juncture. When a wang lands in my inbox on first email it's the same for me as if I was on a first date and some guy stood up and dropped his pants in the middle of a restaurant dinner. I may have liked that part of him otherwise, but the place and timing reflects badly on him. I also feel there might be a difference in gender-values here. Most guys are more willing to show their genitalia to strangers than women are willing to show theirs ( there are always exceptions, of course ), so that for straight guys, female regions are more tantalizingly unavailable. If you want some guy waving their wang at you ( even in person, if you so choose ), all you need fifteen minutes and an internet connection.

sunshinemiss -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 3:32:33 PM)
It's like getting flashed at the subway - one part offensive, 2 parts pathetic, many parts ain't no way.

porcelaine -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 4:20:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: 81song My question is, do most of you women feel that way? From a man’s point of view if I have seen one women's sweet spot I am curious to see another because they are all very different and yes I enjoy looking at them, playing with them and so on, it . So again ladies your thoughts. Greetings 81song, Seeing an obscure picture attached to an individual I have zero interest in or no capacity of mating with has limited appeal. But flip the switch and offer the same from someone I find deliciously attractive or a person I'm involved with and the results are a worthy indulgence. Namaste, ~porcelaine

81song -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 4:23:29 PM)
Lady Pact I see your point but I was just trying to point out how us guys can at time not think outside ourselves./

littlewonder -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 4:25:19 PM)
the only cock I enjoy is Master's. Anyone else's does absolutely nothing at all for me. I'm not a voyeur so I find pics of cocks to just be plain old boring.

Tantriqu -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 4:33:03 PM)
Fie on unsolicited cock shots: a sexy B&W picture of a naked man with interesting shadowing, on the other hand . . . Cockshots tell me the owner is peenocentric and crap in bed: he forgets his cock is a genetic accident and he did nothing to deserve it, yet because it is his ultimate turn-on, he thinks it is the ultimate turn-on for his partners, even though 49% of the planet has almost exactly what he has (the variations are minor). What he DOES with it is another thing entirely. I'd be more impressed with a stop-motion animation of how long he can keep it up hands-free, and how high its temperature goes. Growers, not showers, anyway. On the other hand, how many clitshots do guys get? Not the full conty, just clits sans jewellery? Zilch, I bet. Guys don't choose chicks on the size of their clits; they shouldn't expect straight chicks to choose them on the size of their man-clits.

81song -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 4:46:32 PM)
Greeting too porcelain Yes I hear your point and of course at least with me it very much who is attached, so that I understand. I guess with some women they do enjoy looking and some do not. It maybe is just the gender thing.

catize -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 5:04:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: 81song Lady Pact I see your point but I was just trying to point out how us guys can at time not think outside ourselves./ You've made this statement several times and I'm not sure what you mean by it. Are you saying that a lot of guys are being obtuse or selfish when they send cock pics? Thinking 'well I'd like to see hers so she will want to see mine'? Or are you meaning something else?

catize -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 5:06:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss It's like getting flashed at the subway - one part offensive, 2 parts pathetic, many parts ain't no way. Not to mention the giggle factor!!

81song -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 5:23:12 PM)
cat what I guess I am trying to say that with Domme at least for me they take me outside myself and I keep learning how Domes in a way know my body in a way better then me. I do not know if this makes sense but I am trying to explain the male brain. Besides that like my Dad use to say you do not know unless you ask.

LadyHugs -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 5:31:18 PM)
81song, I am not interested in what a male is 'blessed' with or not -- I am interested in the total person, not just the genitals. At best, sex is brief and fleeting, whereas the person's 'soul'/'spirit', their mind and their goals in mind and how I fit in those goals are much more important. If I want to look at men's genitals--I'll ask. When shown genitals unsolicitated - I know that is where their mind is--their sexual gratification, not a relationship where sex is not as important as the submission. Respectfully, Lady Hugs

LadyPact -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 5:36:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: 81song Besides that like my Dad use to say you do not know unless you ask. Actually, yes, you do. For as long as I've been on the site, women have spoken time and time again on this issue. (Please note that the thread that Red pulled up for you is from last year.) The information really is out there, just like it is on various other subjects that are old news. (Such as why women don't respond to most of their email.) Now, I'm not saying that you shouldn't have asked. What I am saying is that the answer hasn't necessarily changed. Women do not tend to be visual in the same way that men do. That's something that's fairly common knowledge.

BurntKitty -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 5:43:19 PM)
I'm not interested in a man who wants to flash his genitalia at random internet strangers. I'm not into exhibitionist sex, and don't show my bits to the world at large. Besides, it's like finding out what your birthday present is before you actually open it.

Aynne88 -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 7:55:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I have no interest in the genitalia of strangers. I really don't care to see my friends', unless we have that sort of relationship--and not until then, thanks. I appreciate physical beauty, but disconnected body parts? No. Yep that. I don't either. I love my man's parts, but parts of strangers? No thanks, whether they be girlie or boy parts. I don't want anyone's bits in or on my face unless we are in a relationship, and I would be really pissed if anyone I was with posted my pictures on the internet. So, no thanks to the cock or pussy shots. Oh and especially the brown eye shots. Gross.

DMFParadox -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 8:31:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Tantriqu Fie on unsolicited cock shots: a sexy B&W picture of a naked man with interesting shadowing, on the other hand . . . Cockshots tell me the owner is peenocentric and crap in bed: he forgets his cock is a genetic accident and he did nothing to deserve it, yet because it is his ultimate turn-on, he thinks it is the ultimate turn-on for his partners, even though 49% of the planet has almost exactly what he has (the variations are minor). What he DOES with it is another thing entirely. I'd be more impressed with a stop-motion animation of how long he can keep it up hands-free, and how high its temperature goes. Growers, not showers, anyway. On the other hand, how many clitshots do guys get? Not the full conty, just clits sans jewellery? Zilch, I bet. Guys don't choose chicks on the size of their clits; they shouldn't expect straight chicks to choose them on the size of their man-clits. Had to laugh at this. A stop motion vid of erection characteristics? Are you trying to get turned on, or do a clinical study? haha Clitshots... meh. Boob shots, plenty. In the arena of verboten bodily pictorals, there's not much for men to reciprocate with except cock shots. And as for men not choosing based on clit size, well... some kind of do. But it's inverse. tbh, if there's a bit too much hanging down there, I tend to find it unappealing. Tight & tucked for the win, and it is a win; a nicely shaped clit can be a stone turn on, all other things being equal. If all the jokes about 'beef curtains' are any indication, there's plenty of other guys who feel similarly.

dory007 -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 8:42:37 PM)
men are generally more visual than women. also generally speaking here, women are looking for relationships where men are looking for a booty call, and possibly a relationship but that is secondary to sexual attraction. if a man asks to naked pics of me, i think he is more interested in sex than me the person. no i don't want to see cock pictures. if i like a man it doesn't matter to me what his cock looks like. if i get one sent to me, or if a man has one on his profile, i tend to think of him as thinking with the head with no brains.

HisManegirl -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 9:05:42 PM)
It depends upon the cock and who it's connected to. Pics of my Dom's cock I love to look at, because it's his and I love how He makes me feel first mentally and then how His cock makes me feel. A cock I have no connection to does nothing for me, unless of course I'm just impressed with it's size :).

jujubeeMB -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 9:30:48 PM)
If a man sends me a cock shot, I automatically assume that he knows nothing about women. There are many other indicators when that's the case, generally, but that one is the clearest one I know of.

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 9:36:06 PM)
Wrote this in my journal 3 years ago. Still accurately reflects my opinion on this subject. Here's the thing. I like a man's little soldier as much as anyone. However, when I'm getting to know a person I want to know what the person might look like if I were sitting across from them at say, a dinner table. I don't really envision sitting across the table from a big dick...Ok, scratch that. I really do have too great an imagination to not actually picture that. Back to my point, men who send pics of his little soldier, in lieu of his face, baffle me. It doesn't offend me, it just sort of makes me go hmmm? I can understand that it might be a good way to close the sale, but it really isn't a great marketing ploy. Let's face it, even at full attention, and in all their patriotic glory, those little soldiers really aren't very attractive. Whereas a nice smile, stunning gaze or a charming peeking around the corner face shot is much more intriguing. I really do appreciate the glimpse down under, but how about starting with a nice smile?

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