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AlwaysLisa -> RE: Have to move - anyone need a live-in sub? (11/24/2010 8:11:12 AM)
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While i appreciate the sentiment, at least from the last person who hadn't malice laced in :-), subtract the fetish angle and its exactly what people have to do all the time in the rental world. Maybe You all have houses and fences and hedges to keep others away so You are in full control of Your environment and no one will ever do to you [what someone else aparrently already DID do to you]. Might also explain why You have to be Dommes, to be so in control.
I've never been in the situation where I was forced to move in with a stranger, so I don't understand your need. Nor am I a Domme, so again...don't get it. What has control got to do with this? People rent apartments all the time, lifestyle and sexual preference has nothing to do with it...unless you make it so. Keeping it safe for you, is my primary concern :)
In the real world, away from this fantasy here, where so many talk and so rarely ever actually meet, You have to interact with others, make judgements, take chances. Especially when things are down, You might have to take more risks than usual, from lack of choice, to make more choice. But do it with eyes and senses open. i never said i wouldn't.
Such is reality. I am here, online, the same as offline...the only "chance" I take is the occassional bet on a horse.
But that aside, like I said, minus the fetish angle, people decide to 'take a room' or an apartment all the time with NO knowledge of who or what is next to them, fetish or not. Though one might say its the closeted ones who don't admit it, that are the MOST dangerous. So someone here might be a far BETTER risk, since they ADMIT what they do. Don't You feel that about Yourself, being here?
I don't "do" anything, so Im not the right one to ask. :) Good luck on your search, hopefully everything will work out for you.
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