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AquaticSub -> RE: More Sharing... (11/29/2010 9:37:13 PM)
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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl
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Besides, I already know from personal experience that any woman trying to actually take him away from me gets the boot. So.... no need to worry on my part. No competing. Just sharing and loving. I just can't fathom it being anything a resembling a competition. I understand intellectually that other people see it that way inherently but I guess that strikes me as unfortunate. That people see it as it must be a competition rather than something that just isn't for them - like the choice to be in a power dynamic or not.
Its truly wonderful that you have that assurance based upon personal experience, AS. And i do mean that because i have yet to feel that assurance through any of my relationships... even my current one. Instead, what i have witnessed over the shoulders of men are the manipulations that would have put Falcon Crest to shame ( lol... showing my age here i guess)
Its my natural tendency to simply shut down. A self-defence mechanism, if you will.
*laughs* So far it's one of the few upsides of having both friends of his (now ex-friends) trying to break us up because they didn't approve of me and a woman lying to us about her intentions and telling him that she wanted him to be monogamous with her. I'm certain that if he ever leaves me, it won't be because someone lured him away. That said, I do have insecurities. They just don't involve an outside party! [:)]
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